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im not trying to pay CS so I convinced the wife to allow her to stay with us for a few years after the birth but the truth is I'm not gone let her move out, I think once my wife realizes how nice it is having another woman around she'll be open to letting her stay for good..the perks? one takes care of the cleaning and laundry, the other does the cooking, i pay the bills...it works out best for everyone involved.

Did you ask/tell them that?

Or you waiting for a surprise party?
 

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There is something wrong with your wife for staying with a disrespectful/cheating husband, allowing that disrespectful/homewrecking bytch to live in her home, and then getting pregnant.
& You sound like an ass saying "they both know who's paying the bills". You don't respect etheir one of them, if you did then you wouldn't be in this situation. You and your side hoe are the ratchets.

Your wife can divorce you and take her half, plus now she will have child support. I hope that she wakes up & does that when her baby is born. She deserves better, but doesn't realize it yet, she will eventually though. Hopefully it happens soon.

So, let me get this straight, theres something wrong with a WIFE who takes her vows serious till death do us part, forgives her husband for his moment of weakness and decides to remain in an environment where she is KEPT and financially stable? So your logic, she's suppose to leave me, get with some nikka that only wants to smash and not give a damn about her seed? you sound stupid. I made a mistake, so what!! She was woman enough to forgive and for that I'm greatful to her, I owe her my life. I didn't force her to let my ex move in with us, she was thinking about my other soon to be child and its welfare plus my ex cant support herself even if she was getting child support..I take care of mines no matter what.
 

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Did you ask/tell them that?

Or you waiting for a surprise party?

they know the deal, at the end of the day, it's my home and my soon to be kids, women don't run this household I do, what I say goes but that's a good thing because I'm looking out for them as a whole. I take good care of my family.
 

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So, let me get this straight, theres something wrong with a WIFE who takes her vows serious till death do us part, forgives her husband for his moment of weakness and decides to remain in an environment where she is KEPT and financially stable? So your logic, she's suppose to leave me, get with some nikka that only wants to smash and not give a damn about her seed? you sound stupid. I made a mistake, so what!! She was woman enough to forgive and for that I'm greatful to her, I owe her my life. I didn't force her to let my ex move in with us, she was thinking about my other soon to be child and its welfare plus my ex cant support herself even if she was getting child support..I take care of mines no matter what.

a WIFE who takes her vows serious till death do us part, forgives her husband for his moment of weakness and decides to remain in an environment where she is KEPT and financially stable? So your logic, she's suppose to leave me, get with some nikka that only wants to smash and not give a damn about her seed?
I bet you said this dumb shyt to your weak/low self esteem/no self loving wife. It's probably what convinced her to stay. I'll pray for her.

You didn't take your vows seriously which is why you are in this situation, so it is ok for her to get a divorce. You pay the bills and she is "kept" & you are holding that over her head. She will still have money even if she leaves you because she gets half and she will get paid through child support. Women with children can find great men (men better than you), I've seen it happen.

If the ex can't support herself you and your wife can get full custody of the child. You don't have to let her live there. You shouldn't have been cheating, especially with a broke bytch.

I feel sorry for the wife and hope that she's planning to divorce you after her child is born. She deserves better. Maybe I'd think a little bit differently if the side thot wasn't living in her house. No one deserves that.

This setup/situation will not last forever. She will leave you eventually, hopefully it will be soon.
 

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I bet you said this dumb shyt to your weak/low self esteem/no self loving wife. It's probably what convinced her to stay. I'll pray for her.

You didn't take your vows seriously which is why you are in this situation, so it is ok for her to get a divorce. You pay the bills and she is "kept" & you are holding that over her head. She will still have money even if she leaves you because she gets half and she will get paid through child support. Women with children can find great men (men better than you), I've seen it happen.

If the ex can't support herself you and your wife can get full custody of the child. You don't have to let her live there. You shouldn't have been cheating, especially with a broke bytch.

I feel sorry for the wife and hope that she's planning to divorce you after her child is born. She deserves better. Maybe I'd think a little bit differently if the side thot wasn't living in her house. No one deserves that.

This setup/situation will not last forever. She will leave you eventually, hopefully it will be soon.

you act like I'm having sex with my ex, she's basically just a roommate at this point..She made a mistake in the beginning but we've worked past that. My wife's not going anywhere because she's smart, my ex on the other hand, yea she will probably leave eventually but that's a maybe, a big maybe.
 

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you act like I'm having sex with my ex, she's basically just a roommate at this point..She made a mistake in the beginning but we've worked past that. My wife's not going anywhere because she's smart, my ex on the other hand, yea she will probably leave eventually but that's a maybe, a big maybe.

So you not poking the ex when your wife isnt home?
 

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So you not poking the ex when your wife isnt home?

nah, there have been times where I had to go in the bathroom and rub one out cuz I felt like I was finna do something while the wife wasn't around..i just aint trying to take it there because if I open that door it aint gone close..
 

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you act like I'm having sex with my ex, she's basically just a roommate at this point..She made a mistake in the beginning but we've worked past that. My wife's not going anywhere because she's smart, my ex on the other hand, yea she will probably leave eventually but that's a maybe, a big maybe.
Listen to how that sounds.
There is really something wrong with you. You sound very controlling and arrogant and like you are above/better than the women in your house. Like you own them or something because you pay the bills. You also sound emotionally abusive with this line.
a WIFE who takes her vows serious till death do us part, forgives her husband for his moment of weakness and decides to remain in an environment where she is KEPT and financially stable? So your logic, she's suppose to leave me, get with some nikka that only wants to smash and not give a damn about her seed?
I bet you said something similar to your wife to make her believe that she can't do better than you, but she can. She's only accepting it for now because she's weak and vulnerable to find out that her husband broke his vows and cheated on her with a broke bytch. Babies can change people. After she has her baby she will realize that she has to do better/be better/stronger for her child. She will leave you, especially if she has a girl. She would want to set a good example for her daughter. I'm sure she wouldn't want her daughter to think that it's ok for her to stay with a controlling and emotionally abusive man who cheated on her and let the pregnant side bytch move into the house. She wouldn't want her son to think that it's right for a man to do that either. You're already setting terrible examples for your children.

Your wife is not smart, hopefully she will smarten up soon after the baby is born and leaves you. She won't struggle financially because she'll have half of your money plus child support.
Idc about the side thot. You'll be the one hurting financially after your future ex wife takes half plus her child support and your side thot gets her child support money too.
 
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