im not trying to pay CS so I convinced the wife to allow her to stay with us for a few years after the birth but the truth is I'm not gone let her move out, I think once my wife realizes how nice it is having another woman around she'll be open to letting her stay for good..the perks? one takes care of the cleaning and laundry, the other does the cooking, i pay the bills...it works out best for everyone involved.
Did you ask/tell them that?
Or you waiting for a surprise party?