I sound controlling and abusive? lol....you ain't never had a real man in your life, that I can tell..There is a reason my wife is in love with me, because I'm a man and I'm a leader. I wouldn't lay a hand on my wife or my ex, they aren't chained to the bed, they've made their decision and their decision is to stay under my roof...Your right, my wife is smart
Yes, you do sound controlling and emotionally abusive. I didn't say your wife is smart, I said she sounds weak/vulnerable and like she has low self esteem and doesn't love herself. Emotinal abuse and physical abuse are two different things, maybe you should google it. You probably manipulated your weak/vulnerable wife into staying by telling her that she can't do better, but she can, and when she realizes that (she will & hopefully it will be soon) she will leave you
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you ain't never had a real man in your life, that I can tell. I'm a man and I'm a leader.
I have. You are not a real/good/ man or person, if you were, you wouldn't be in this situation.
they know the deal, at the end of the day, it's my home and my soon to be kids, women don't run this household I do, what I say goes but that's a good thing because I'm looking out for them as a whole. I take good care of my family.
Controlling, like i said.
It sounds like you believe men are supposed to dominate/control women women are supposed to obey them. Your wife can do sooo much better than you. & your children will probably not like you once they realize how you are, especially growing up during times where that idea is not popular and is taught that it is very wrong. During the times where a version of feminism is very popular and most people(women) are quick to call everything misogynistic. Good luck with that
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