Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?

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I'll state my opinion, but I'm in no way saying that I'm right.


A guy who sleeps with a hoe, is most likely a hoe himself. Guys who sleep with hoes, attract hoes. Rarely will you find a guy who sleeps with hoes dating a good genuine girl with her shyt together. A lot of the times you see good guys and good girls together, why because a lot of the time they have similar goals, whether it be their careers or perhaps even a family. Hoes don't have these goals, therefore there's no way for them to actually grow when they're not on the same page, let alone the same book.

I think in all honesty, a friend wouldn't say that, that's something a hater would say.


This makes sense logically but this is far from the case in reality.....Good chicks fall dudes who they know aint bout nothing everyday out here....

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I thought opinion and approve were two different things? Just because I want want someone else's opinion on something, doesn't mean I let it run my life. I just like to hear all sides of the fence when it comes to making big life decisions that could impact my future greatly whether it's emotional, financial, physical, etc. And because I don't have many male friends and this is a male site, I decided to ask on here. I move freely after I've thought about something, not on my own bias, but after hearing what others have to say and then weighing these pros and cons.
Why would you need an opinion unless you felt insecure about your initial decision?
 
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Well I'm on my shyt. My own apartment, got a job, going to college, I just wanna have fun. But I wouldn't call her a hater, she's been my friend for almost 10 years, I hope she just trying to give me advice. :ld:

How old are you and the guy you're trying smash? That will determine if the things I bolded really mean anything or not
 
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OP, if you want to sleep with the guy go ahead but I get a feeling from you post that you are apprehensive about it. You sound like you could potentially catch feelings even though you say you wont. Do you. I'm saying this as a woman who is not into casual sex/ONS.
 

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Why would you need an opinion unless you felt insecure about your initial decision?

To gain insight. Artist get other opinions all the time in order to better their craft. My favorite quote by Socrates basically sums this whole conversation up "All I know, is that I know nothing."
 
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Whatever, I'm a big girl, I can separate feelings from sex I'm sure. But it is what it is, I just won't give it up and make these hypothetical situations come to life then.

Don't start doing that.....Chicks that can do that are some of the coldest females I have ever met in my life. You're turning off an emotional component that makes women feminine. Chicks like this even have a hard time being nurturing to their kids...:smh:

Don't you go down that road young lady
 

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OP, if you want to sleep with the guy go ahead but I get a feeling from you post that you are apprehensive about it. You sound like you could potentially catch feelings even though you say you wont. Do you. I'm saying this as a woman who is not into casual sex/ONS.

Yeah, this is basically it. I am afraid that I could potentially confuse sexual feelings for emotional ones. I mean right now I don't have any emotional feelings for him but I don't know if they could happen you know? That's why I'm weighing the pros and cons before I just dive into it. Plus I don't want to make it harder on myself when I actually do want a committed relationship.
 

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To gain insight. Artist get other opinions all the time in order to better their craft. My favorite quote by Socrates basically sums this whole conversation up "All I know, is that I know nothing."
Knowledge is gained through experience, not forums hun.
 

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Knowledge is gained through experience, not forums hun.

I'm not trying to gain knowledge on here, just insight. Whatever decision I make will still be my own but I'll have opinions to think about when turning this in my head.
 

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:mjpls: Then why are you always trying to make sure they stay single by telling people to not date them?

because I'd rather not see their lives destroyed

anyways single moms shouldn't be dating, the higest molestation rate is between the children of single mothers and their bfs and step daddies
 
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