Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?

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I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

Nah no way, men willing to commit to her has nothing to do with who you choose to let pipe and everything to do with her as a person.

If your friend is really a catch like that you could choose to fck 10 thousand nikkas and she still wont find it hard to find commitment because the majority of us out here are willing to lock down a solid quality female for ourselves. Shes just using you as an excuse for her shortcomings, pay her no mind.
 
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naw to me they make it easier for a decent woman because you appreciate them much more than the women running out there giving it up.
 

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Why I gotta be a smut tho :birdman:

And why does everyone assume I want to be wifey
I'm not calling you a smut... I don't know you, but your actions will likely label you as so. I'm being realistic which is essentially what you want right?

plus you don't have to be wifey either. Enjoy dating but be more formal with it. If you worried about labels ( which you really shouldn't be regardless or not someone is going to look down on you regardless) then play the good girl role if not then get to work... I mean "fun"
 

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I'll state my opinion, but I'm in no way saying that I'm right.


A guy who sleeps with a hoe, is most likely a hoe himself. Guys who sleep with hoes, attract hoes. Rarely will you find a guy who sleeps with hoes dating a good genuine girl with her shyt together. A lot of the times you see good guys and good girls together, why because a lot of the time they have similar goals, whether it be their careers or perhaps even a family. Hoes don't have these goals, therefore there's no way for them to actually grow when they're not on the same page, let alone the same book.

I think in all honesty, a friend wouldn't say that, that's something a hater would say.


Nah. The best good girls get player nikkas who are good at cheating and not getting caught. Lowkey I think they love the thrill of playing detective. The male hoes eat on both tables, they fukk hoes and then go to their gf like :stopitslime: "naw I was at ronnie house"

The only dudes lame enough to wife hoes....are lames.

to put it more simply
Easy girls are to "good girls" what simps are to real nikkaz. It all balances out in the end :ld:

:blessed:

She's right. If you only want sex from this guy there's no way he'll ever respect you. Or get him to seriously date you. Furthermore, you will only find it hard for yourself to find a man to settle down with or get married to because of this. Because, like many users have already said in this thread before me. A man wants a woman who he has to chase, who plays mind tricks on him, one who can make him feel like he conquered something when he does get her.

Long story short, easy girls just make men see that they're not wife material, just a jump off that you text (you don't even have to call), tell her to come through the back door of your house and when you're done you make her leave through the back door. These type of women you make sure you aren't seen with. Sorry. :manny:


no.

no.

listen to her and live single forever.

Here's the thing women don't understand. the world don't revolve around your p*ssy. Give it up too early? hoe. Hold on too long/play mind games? It'll be a fast track to the bushes from any nikka worth his testosterone. the best strategy you could ask for is to not give it up the first day/date. Anything else you do is playing the game wrong because any stupid mindgame you can think up can be negated simply by fukkin with other chicks.

it's not about your vagina. there a billions of vaginas out there, that are tighter, newer and wetter than yours will ever be. What keeps you around is WHO YOU ARE. Are you fun to be around? Are you intelligent? fun to hang out with? responsible? can you be brought around relatives? not crazy? responsible with your body (not a trifling hoe)? can you cook? Those are the qualities that separate the women from the p*ssy.

To answer the T/S question, easy girls don't make it hard on good girls. Easy girls level the playing field for dudes against the women who think they can string every guy along by his dikk

trust if she was a truly good girl someone would've scooped her and not let go
 

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No...she making it hard on herself. If a guy wants her...he gonna stick it though regardless...he just might still have a side chick until she decides she wants to commit.


I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.
 

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I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.
In order for me to give my honest opinion I'm going to need to know how fat your ass is :leostare:
 

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fukk her. She doesn't sound like much of a friend. She should have been trying to help facilitate it. You tell her about guy you want to have sex with and she tells you, you're making it hard for her? I'd stop hanging with that bytch asap.
 
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