Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?

[ChiefQueen]

So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy.

She's right. If you only want sex from this guy there's no way he'll ever respect you. Or get him to seriously date you. Furthermore, you will only find it hard for yourself to find a man to settle down with or get married to because of this. Because, like many users have already said in this thread before me. A man wants a woman who he has to chase, who plays mind tricks on him, one who can make him feel like he conquered something when he does get her.

Long story short, easy girls just make men see that they're not wife material, just a jump off that you text (you don't even have to call), tell her to come through the back door of your house and when you're done you make her leave through the back door. These type of women you make sure you aren't seen with. Sorry.

 

[PartyHeart]

Don't start doing that.....Chicks that can do that are some of the coldest females I have ever met in my life. You're turning off an emotional component that makes women feminine. Chicks like this even have a hard time being nurturing to their kids...

This is so very false.

However I agree that OP might want to strongly consider not doing it. Because if she was this easily convinced by a stranger on the internet that she can't handle what she was sure she could handle minutes before, she can be easily manipulated. And I say that with no shade at all OP. I don't think you're alone anyway, socialization ensures girls are ripe for this sadly

 

[Arishok]

She's right. If you only want sex from this guy there's no way he'll ever respect you. Or get him to seriously date you. Furthermore, you will only find it hard for yourself to find a man to settle down with or get married to because of this. Because, like many users have already said in this thread before me. A man wants a woman who he has to chase, who plays mind tricks on him, one who can make him feel like he conquered something when he does get her.

Long story short, easy girls just make men see that they're not wife material, just a jump off that you text (you don't even have to call), tell her to come through the back door of your house and when you're done you make her leave through the back door. These type of women you make sure you aren't seen with. Sorry.

Me and dude already have a mutual understanding tho, I'm not trying to get him to wife or settle down. I'm just afraid that I, myself, will catch feelings.

 

[Arishok]

This is so very false.

However I agree that OP might want to strongly consider not doing it. Because if she was this easily convinced by a stranger on the internet that she can't handle what she was sure she could handle minutes before, she can be easily manipulated. And I say that with no shade at all OP. I don't think you're alone anyway, socialization ensures girls are ripe for this sadly

I wasn't easily convinced, I initiated it.

 

[PartyHeart]

She's right. If you only want sex from this guy there's no way he'll ever respect you. Or get him to seriously date you. Furthermore, you will only find it hard for yourself to find a man to settle down with or get married to because of this. Because, like many users have already said in this thread before me. A man wants a woman who he has to chase, who plays mind tricks on him, one who can make him feel like he conquered something when he does get her.

Long story short, easy girls just make men see that they're not wife material, just a jump off that you text (you don't even have to call), tell her to come through the back door of your house and when you're done you make her leave through the back door. These type of women you make sure you aren't seen with. Sorry.

But men wife whores every day though. At the end of the day, nobody wants a used up partner, and that includes women. It doesn't mean that that's what they'll get.

 

[Arishok]

I get where all ya'll coming from and I don't want to be one of those girls who are ran through and never wifed up because of one silly mistake I made at such a young age.

I need to teach myself to hold out for sex until a guy is worthy of it.

 

[MBwithadream]

woah woah woah this dude is white?

 

[ChiefQueen]

But men wife whores every day though. At the end of the day, nobody wants a used up partner, and that includes women. It doesn't mean that that's what they'll get.

I think it's only a small percentage of men who marry whores. It's usually those young, hood nikkas like Tyga or Wiz Khalifa. The regular, everyday joe doesn't want a woman who has been around the block a couple times. They want a respectable woman whom they can walk down the street with and not have dudes laughing at them cracking jokes. The dudes that I used as examples are mocked as being 'simps' or 'lames'.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

She's right. If you only want sex from this guy there's no way he'll ever respect you. Or get him to seriously date you. Furthermore, you will only find it hard for yourself to find a man to settle down with or get married to because of this. Because, like many users have already said in this thread before me. A man wants a woman who he has to chase, who plays mind tricks on him, one who can make him feel like he conquered something when he does get her.

Long story short, easy girls just make men see that they're not wife material, just a jump off that you text (you don't even have to call), tell her to come through the back door of your house and when you're done you make her leave through the back door. These type of women you make sure you aren't seen with. Sorry.

This isn't always true tho

 

[Seea]

Tell her to

She worried about the wrong shyt. If she was good on that front she wouldn't be trying to guilt you into not doing what you want to. You should tell her that too if you're so inclined. Ol' hatin ass.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I think it's only a small percentage of men who marry whores. It's usually those young, hood nikkas like Tyga or Wiz Khalifa. The regular, everyday joe doesn't want a woman who has been around the block a couple times. They want a respectable woman whom they can walk down the street with and not have dudes laughing at them cracking jokes. The dudes that I used as examples are mocked as being 'simps' or 'lames'.

There is not a huge difference between hoes and females who fukk a lot of dudes and keep it on the low.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I get where all ya'll coming from and I don't want to be one of those girls who are ran through and never wifed up because of one silly mistake I made at such a young age.

I need to teach myself to hold out for sex until a guy is worthy of it.

Have your fun ma. Don't worry about what others think. If u are in college, just live your life

 

[PartyHeart]

I think it's only a small percentage of men who marry whores. It's usually those young, hood nikkas like Tyga or Wiz Khalifa. The regular, everyday joe doesn't want a woman who has been around the block a couple times. They want a respectable woman whom they can walk down the street with and not have dudes laughing at them cracking jokes. The dudes that I used as examples are mocked as being 'simps' or 'lames'.

Yes, but again, what they want and what they get are often very different. The same men telling you they don't want a hoe are often the same ones talking about sleeping around until they are 35+. The women who aren't hoes won't be available when they want to settle down. And even if they were they wouldn't want them either. So what do those men have left?

And I don't think the percentage is small at all, but everybody's experience will be different depending on their circles.

 

[Jone2three45]

I wasn't easily convinced, I initiated it.

You answered your question,
Let the man beat,
You ain't trying to get in a relationship or wifed anytime soon.

 

[MBwithadream]

Whatever, I'm a big girl, I can separate feelings from sex I'm sure. But it is what it is, I just won't give it up and make these hypothetical situations come to life then.

I'm said couple of months hell weeks ago that I would stop simp a certain friend/classmate of mine, but low & behold a week later, I saw her passing through entrance in Wal-Mart, I was like

You can't denied, brehette.