Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
ima be real with you

it seems almost impossible to not date a single mother:wow:

i swear 90% of women have kids

even the educated ones with good jobs:sadcam:

i been dealing with ones who dont have kids in an age range i really dont want to date 20-23yr olds- too damm goofy and nothing in common


If you're looking for a wifey type you gotta start drafting based on potential, that 23 year old may be goofy but she can be shaped and molded into what the franchise and team wants her to be :wow:

She may not have it all together right now, but a few years working on her game and you've got a franchise player.
 

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ima be real with you

it seems almost impossible to not date a single mother:wow:

i swear 90% of women have kids

even the educated ones with good jobs:sadcam:

i been dealing with ones who dont have kids in an age range i really dont want to date 20-23yr olds- too damm goofy and nothing in common

Breh, when you date older women the risk of baggage is too great. You MIGHT be able to catch the young ones before they meet the guy who pretty much makes them un-wifeable.
 
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I'm 21, he's 22.


Here's the thing. Guys rarely care about tangible items like that unless they are looking to make a strong commitment.

At your respective ages, you likely to be more forgiving if someone doesn't match you financially.

Although having your own spot and transportation makes things convenient for him....:shaq:

There is nothing casual about sex. As long as you understand that completely you'll be ok....
 

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Here's the thing. Guys rarely care about tangible items like that unless they are looking to make a strong commitment.

At your respective ages, you likely to be more forgiving if someone doesn't match you financially.

Although having your own spot and transportation makes things convenient for him....:shaq:

There is nothing casual about sex. As long as you understand that completely you'll be ok....

I see you, like I said earlier I don't think I'll catch feelings but you never know :sadcam:

Imma have to seriously sit down and think on this one (though the physical outweighing the emotional right now)
 

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He ain't your boy, why not give the girl some real advice? Live vicariously through dudes you don't know gettin p*ssy brehs
What are you talking about? What I'm saying is, if that's what she wants to do then she should do it. nikkas always complaining about all the hoops they have to go through to get the box, but when a chick is trying to give it up without the bs, nikkas is trying to talk her out of it :mindblown: i don't get it..
 

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Easy girls are to "good girls" what simps are to real nikkaz. It all balances out in the end :ld:
 
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I see you, like I said earlier I don't think I'll catch feelings but you never know :sadcam:

Imma have to seriously sit down and think on this one (though the physical outweighing the emotional right now)

I understand completely. You're only human and I wouldn't be mad at all if you acted on your physical urges\impulses....

But urges\impulses involve very little forethought, if any...

Just be emotionally aware of the potential consequences cause if he got the key to that box like you hope, its gon be hard for you to turn off that dopamine or endorphins that's gonna be flooding through your system.....

You aint gon be able to NOT have him on your mind 24/7, when he could probably care less.....
 

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Just do it, you won't know how you truly feel about it until after.. And if it gets messy dont so it again.. fukk what "society" thinks and what anyone else says.. It's too hard to try to do everything the "right" way..
I see you, like I said earlier I don't think I'll catch feelings but you never know :sadcam:

Imma have to seriously sit down and think on this one (though the physical outweighing the emotional right now)
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Just do it, you won't know how you truly feel about it until after.. And if it gets messy dont so it again.. fukk what "society" thinks and what anyone else says.. It's too hard to try to do everything the "right" way..

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I somewhat feel this way but now I'm thinking what will happen if a catch feelings and he doesn't? I mean I can't get mad at him because we had a mutual understanding, plus I don't want to ruin my chances if I want to get serious with a guy in the future.

I understand completely. You're only human and I wouldn't be mad at all if you acted on your physical urges\impulses....

But urges\impulses involve very little forethought, if any...

Just be emotionally aware of the potential consequences cause if he got the key to that box like you hope, its gon be hard for you to turn off that dopamine or endorphins that's gonna be flooding through your system.....

You aint gon be able to NOT have him on your mind 24/7, when he could probably care less.....

Yeah this is what I'm afraid of, but how will I know what will happen if I don't try. That's the dilemma I'm facing. I wish I was a man, ish wouldn't be so complicated/complex.
 

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What are you talking about? What I'm saying is, if that's what she wants to do then she should do it. nikkas always complaining about all the hoops they have to go through to get the box, but when a chick is trying to give it up without the bs, nikkas is trying to talk her out of it :mindblown: i don't get it..

I think people are telling her what is going to happen rather than try to "talk" her out of it. Lets be real, she prolly goin let homeboy hit regardless. Seems like worst case is she try to make it seem like she isn't easy but the end result will be the same. This thread will probably just be a "I told you so"
 
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