Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?

[Sonic Boom of the South]

They're that ugly you don't want to be seen with them?

nope
but one is irritating as fukk and we have nothing in common

the other has 2 kids and i dont date single mothers with more than one seed(i have before and it was horrible)

 

[Arishok]

cliffs: OP is getting her bed wench on, like many other black women behind closed doors thx to online dating. she's perfectly fine with being a fetishsized experience, and her friends are trying to stop her because they've already been through it before.

Who said anything about being fetishsized or being a bed wench bro? He's actually biracial but he seems to assimilate with his white side more so I called him white. He's never mentioned the fact that he wants sex with a black woman or mentioned my race at all. So because I hook up with one white/biracial guy I'm a bed wench? And, for the record, my friend doesn't like black guys whereas I do so....

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I thought you meant weren't on their shyt as in material, my bad misunderstood that. The thing is I'm in tune with myself spiritually that I can take responsibility for any situation I get into that's clearly my own fault. I understand if I catch feelings or whatever, that's on me because I personally got into this. I understand the risks for doing something like this but how would I know how I would respond if I've never done the causal sex thing, you know? But it is what it is, Imma stop thinking about it and let things play out.

yo
just enjoy life man
nothing wrong with what you doing
sex is wonderful
you dont have to have a relationship with everyone

 

[KinksandCoils]

nope
but one is irritating as fukk and we have nothing in common

the other has 2 kids and i dont date single mothers with more than one seed(i have before and it was horrible)

Lmao I understand

 

[Spoonz]

Who said anything about being fetishsized or being a bed wench bro? He's actually biracial but he seems to assimilate with his white side more so I called him white. He's never mentioned the fact that he wants sex with a black woman or mentioned my race at all. So because I hook up with one white/biracial guy I'm a bed wench? And, for the record, my friend doesn't like black guys whereas I do so....

if he's biracial go head and sex him then

 

[MikelArteta]

nope
but one is irritating as fukk and we have nothing in common

the other has 2 kids and i dont date single mothers with more than one seed(i have before and it was horrible)

you shouldn't date single mothers period breh

you have $$ and status

 

[Arishok]

Isn't a bed wench someone that for white men and hate black men? Cuz I'm neither and calling me one hurts my pride

 

[Action Jackson]

How big?

 

[Action Jackson]

I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

You aren't making it hard on "good girls" you're making it harder on yourself.

 

[marcuz]

Isn't a bed wench someone that for white men and hate black men? Cuz I'm neither and calling me one hurts my pride

a white mans bedwench doesn't have to necessarily hate black men. although i've noticed a trend with y'all mini afro having black women. im willing to bet you're the type who say dumb shyt like "white men appreciate my natural hair more than black men"

 

[Arishok]

You aren't making it hard on "good girls" you're making it harder on yourself.

How so, seeing as I don't want a relationship with dude or at least I don't want one now. You mean how other men will perceive me?

 

[Nemesis]

no.... apples aren't oranges and vice versa....

 

[Arishok]

a white mans bedwench doesn't have to necessarily hate black men. although i've noticed a trend with y'all mini afro having black women. im willing to bet you're the type who say dumb shyt like "white men appreciate my natural hair more than black men"

The fukk? No I always get compliments from black men way more than white men, stop putting words in my mouth and thoughts in my head. I'm just a woman who happens to be attracted to men, regardless of race.

 

[Ashley Banks]

cliffs: OP is getting her bed wench on, like many other black women behind closed doors thx to online dating. she's perfectly fine with being a fetishsized experience, and her friends are trying to stop her because they've already been through it before.

of course you'd point this out.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I thought you meant weren't on their shyt as in material, my bad misunderstood that. The thing is I'm in tune with myself spiritually that I can take responsibility for any situation I get into that's clearly my own fault. I understand if I catch feelings or whatever, that's on me because I personally got into this. I understand the risks for doing something like this but how would I know how I would respond if I've never done the causal sex thing, you know? But it is what it is, Imma stop thinking about it and let things play out.

If that's truly how you felt about yourself, then you wouldn't have made this thread; let alone allow your friend's words get to you.