dealing with modern women is unbearable

[wickedsm]

That's what's happening this thread, did you see @CeeMeWork's thread asking what they offer their ideal woman? It was pathetic. Even some of the dudes on here were appalled at the worthlessness of these dudes.

Link please

 

[Ashley Banks]

Fair enough. Sounds pretty standard to me.

But what i was getting at was what as a MAN does he uniquely bring into your life, and what as WOMAN you bring into his.

I'm not looking for a specific answer just picking your head. Other brehettes can chime in.

why you trying to make me think?

Link please

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/coli-men-what-does-your-ideal-woman-get-from-you.297103/

 

[Shameonyou]

i tried to find one redeeming quality about women besides sex....and I really cant find one

I think they are shytty human beings by nature

 

[Yup]

Dude married a white woman, living a happy go lucky life in North Carolina. Even got one of those cute little dogs that black men with white wives have The nerve of this nikka ......he married the first PAWG he could find but, wanna laugh at other nikkas' struggle with black women

@KingMalik why so you have such a negative view of bw?

 

[Malta]

OK, not impossible, but "difficult". I can name a lot of things in life worth doing that are difficult. Launching a good career. Being a good parent. Making change in your community. Should we not bother to try and do any of those things? And how is finding a good woman here any less difficult than leaving everything you know, along with whatever you have going on here, to find a mate abroad?

And you do think traveling is the only way one can take control and find a decent mate. You have written off the idea of doing so here, as you never offer any avenues or ideas to do so. You claim if you were single you would just fukk and toss women here, seemingly without even considering if they'd be worth building something with, for no other reason than them being American. You call me out for being out of touch, when you yourself have been in a serious relationship for a few years and use the same points of reference I do to speak on what's going on. So who is really the one who wants things done the way they done them? I have close friends who have left the US to go teach English and live abroad and they are very happy. It is something I would definitely recommend for people looking for a legit new experience and an opportunity to step out of their comfort zone. But most of the brehs on here whining about tourism talking about "imma find me a foreign " are just interested in sex tourism

You seem to have beef with the US.... which in many ways is legit. But you take that beef and project it onto the dating situation. You are completely unwilling to even entertain the possibility of finding a decent mate here, and you insist everyone else subscribe to your line of thinking. Look, I have no problem with brehs looking abroad and traveling, but I think they should exhaust all options here first in regards to dating. Traveling is highly valuable and everyone should do it as much as possible. I love to travel. But a lot of the dudes on here crying about women are not even trying. If @DrX put as much effort into bettering himself as he does in making threads here he'd probably be eating here

Life is difficult enough as it is, please explain to me why finding a quality person should be difficult, if good people are as plentiful as you've said, why then are you now saying that finding them should be difficult?


Thank you for telling me what I think, keep in mind I met my woman here in the US, and she was going to school here in the US and living here in the US when I met her. Unlike you, I realize that just because I did something it doesn't mean the next man can, just because I can dunk doesn't mean the next man can, according to your logic everyone can do the same exact things when reality says otherwise. Why should a dude be miserable here, and have you posting about how they should improve themselves, without even knowing whether or not they have tried, and calling them losers when they try something different? I got plenty of people hitting me up in PMs asking about learning languages or finding work abroad to know that it isn't all about "sex tourism" as you put it, you don't learn a foreign language to fukk hookers bruh

Where did I say I'd toss them to the side because they were American? Bruh, you're out here making wild claims and jumping to conclusions. I'd be tossing them to the side because they wouldn't be worth my time, and I know this because only 2 women in my life have ever been worth the time. I dated plenty of American women and had long term relationships, and even mentioned my character flaws in the past which makes me lose interest in people. You are out of touch, I mean you thought only "thots" were on IG, and just to be clear I looked it up and of those 300 million active users almost 70% of them are female. So, either we got a huge global thot problem or there's a lot of just regular ass women on IG, which you didn't seem to realize. Wifey has younger cousins (and a younger Aunt ) and I wouldn't want to date any of them, despite the fact they were all raised similar to her, they all are up on Twitter/Instagram and FB.

Everything you're saying could just be applied to you moving to North Carolina, I mean weren't the houses in NY good enough? How come you didn't take accountability and just deal with what the housing market in NY had to offer Why'd you run Gina, WHY'D YOU RUN

 

[Juggalo Fred]

Juggalettes are the best

 

[Action Mike]

why you trying to make me think?



http://www.thecoli.com/threads/coli-men-what-does-your-ideal-woman-get-from-you.297103/

Hmm, but this is your soon to be husband though. I thought you could bring another perceptive.

The other things you mentioned about helping with standard domestics is cool.

All ive heard in this thread from both sides is cook, clean, babies, yard work, fix this and that.

So tell me. What as a man and woman do you two uniquely bring to each other, strengths/weakness etc. I know you got answers.

Anybody?

 

[wickedsm]

Fair enough. Sounds pretty standard to me.

But what i was getting at was what as a MAN does he uniquely bring into your life, and what as WOMAN you bring into his.

I'm not looking for a specific answer just picking your head. Other brehettes can chime in.

Good thought provoking question.
I'm sitting by the hotel pool drinking so I'm not sure my answer will come out the way I want it to.

I think the qualities that each of us bring into the relationship don't have anything to do with us being man or woman.
They are just qualities that we possess as a member of the opposite sex with a partner who's interested in the opposite sex.

I have a catering nuture. I am a nuturer. I cater to my husband and our family.
That's not a uniquely female trait. Men are certainly capable of being catering or nuturing.

My husband is a protector and problem solver.
Those aren't uniquely male traits.

I have a very traditional marriage so I will say alot of these qualities we each have match perceptions of each gender, at least traditionally they have.

The only thing that makes my caring and nuturing more female is that I do it with boobs ( not books. Damn you auto correct) and a Vagina lol.

If I was in a same sex relationship I would still want my female partner to have those same qualities because they are important to me in a partner.

Obviously each of us gives our partner an opposite sex pov. That's special I think.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Hmm, but this is your soon to be husband though. I thought you could bring another perceptive.

The other things you mentioned about helping with standard domestics is cool.

All ive heard in this thread from both sides is cook, clean, babies, yard work, fix this and that.

So tell me. What as a man and woman do you two uniquely bring to each other, strengths/weakness etc. I know you got answers.

Anybody?

That's why idk how to answer it, you're asking for something unique when the things we bring to each other are just normal things.

 

[Malta]

Dude married a white woman, living a happy go lucky life in North Carolina. Even got one of those cute little dogs that black men with white wives have The nerve of this nikka ......he married the first PAWG he could find but, wanna laugh at other nikkas' struggle with black women

I wasn't aware he was with a white woman, he and I fished in different lakes then. I won't knock him for it since he found somebody and is in love, but you can't be out here shytting on dudes who are talking about quality women of color....when you got a white gul.

 

[Action Mike]

That's why idk how to answer it, you're asking for something unique when the things we bring to each other are just normal things.

Okay, sleep on it and please come back.

To me this kind of makes the 'what do you bring to the table' argument void because at the core its for lack of a better example, were arguing about having a good or bad roommate.

I know that domestics are also important, but your also attracted to that man because he compliments your life somehow...

 

[Action Mike]

Good thought provoking question.
I'm sitting by the hotel pool drinking so I'm not sure my answer will come out the way I want it to.

I think the qualities that each of us bring into the relationship don't have anything to do with us being man or woman.
They are just qualities that we possess as a member of the opposite sex with a partner who's interested in the opposite sex.

I have a catering nuture. I am a nuturer. I cater to my husband and our family.
That's not a uniquely female trait. Men are certainly capable of being catering or nuturing.

My husband is a protector and problem solver.
Those aren't uniquely male traits.

I have a very traditional marriage so I will say alot of these qualities we each have match perceptions of each gender, at least traditionally they have.

The only thing that makes my caring and nuturing more female is that I do it with books and a Vagina lol.

If I was in a same sex relationship I would still want my female partner to have those same qualities because they are important to me in a partner.

Obviously each of us gives our partner an opposite sex pov. That's special I think.

Thanks for your answer, because this is also a question i've asked myself.

But i disagree with the bolded, even though it was a preface for the rest of your post. The traits arent unique but are more hardwired according to sex, even if you are with the same sex one is certainly more alpha than the other. Theres always a lead and decision maker, thats why you'd want those same qualities even if you had a female partner.

Starting to think the answer starts with what i cant do first...

 

[KingMalik]

@KingMalik why so you have such a negative view of bw?

I don't have a negative view of black women. My sisters are black women. Some black chicks be on that bullshyt but, that's because I had the most experience with them. I'm sure if I was Indian, I'd talk bad about Indian girls. If I was Hispanic, I'd talk crazy about Hispanic girls. And if I was white, I'd talk bad about white girls. There are alot of good black women out there. The love of my life was a black woman and even now, I still care for her. Right now I'm just cooling with a good ass woman that happens to be "other" and she makes me happy Half the time I be trolling on here because I know it gets people riled up. Dont take my comments serious.

 

[Yup]

I don't have a negative view of black women. My sisters are black women. Some black chicks be on that bullshyt but, that's because I had the most experience with them. I'm sure if I was Indian, I'd talk bad about Indian girls. If I was Hispanic, I'd talk crazy about Hispanic girls. And if I was white, I'd talk bad about white girls. There are alot of good black women out there. The love of my life was a black woman and even now, I still care for her. Right now I'm just cooling with a good ass woman that happens to be "other" and she makes me happy Half the time I be trolling on here because I know it gets people riled up. Dont take my comments serious.

Thats cool, i was just curious.

 

[Taadow]

This thread is a mess.

I only read the first page and the last page and i'm worn out. lol