Dating women over 30 is basically a job interview

[Kami]

you should expect this at 30. clocks ticking for them they dont want to waste time.

 

[Balla]

The 5 year plan!

From that Steve Harvey book

Heard that a few times, I would like to jokingly saw, whatever it is, you're not in it, or only marginally so, but I would rather be more polite.

Yo!!!!! A bytch asked me this shyt!! That shyt is from a book? Lmfao!!

 

[re'up]

Think Like A Man/act like a lady

I am sure that was around for decades, since dating in the post 60's world, but it was popularized by the 2011/2012 book/movie.

 

[mamba]

Let's say one of these woman get all the answers they want to hear, including receipts: great job, six figure income. Car, house all paid off, and the date goes well overall.

Now if the man for whatever reason isn't feeling the chick and decides not to pursue anything further, will she brush it off, or find it crushing?

They never brush it off, easily. They don't take rejection well, especially if a man checks off all the boxes.

They will question your sexuality, accuse you of being married/in a relationship, etc. simply because you decide she isn't the right woman for you.

 

[R.U.L.E.]

you should expect this at 30. clocks ticking for them they dont want to waste time.

Problem is SHE shouldn’t be in the position she’s in at 30 if she thought about how her actions would later impact her at 30. My entire timeline on FB/IG is a female (usually black woman) bytching about how they can’t find a good man and ask some of these questions the OP posted. Reality is nikkas ain’t stupid. In her prime 23-28 she was getting her culo blasted by Bobby Back Blow and his Super Friends. Wasn’t asking none of them bullshyt questions back then.

Now that she’s washed up, she wants to settle down?

Fukk outta here. nikkas really need to understand that the stigma (right or wrong) that has been embedded in these females minds is that black men “ain’t shyt” so all you gotta do is be a halfway decent nikka (not having kids is a bonus) and when YOU’RE ready to settle down, you’ll find what you want much faster than when the roles are reversed.

So if any of you females in your mid 20’s reading this, think twice before you live your “best life” and be on your Meg The Stallion shyt. Cause 6 years from now, you gonna want to settle down and going to have to lower the bar down to the ground while spending nights alone watching the ID channel and drinking red cat

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

The vitriol here for women around here is insane.I don’t know how you guys do it.

It’s easier to rapidly gain anger towards a certain group of people when you’re never around them

edit: for perfect proof see the post above mine Lotta Friday nights spent alone to craft such a vivid scenario like that one

 

[analog]

They never brush it off, easily. They don't take rejection well, especially if a man checks off all the boxes.

They will question your sexuality, accuse you of being married/in a relationship, etc. simply because you decide she isn't the right woman for you.

Damn... so there's some risk in disclosing personal info like that to a woman bold enough to ask them right off the bat (if you check the boxes)

I'm seeing limited upside here

 

[mamba]

Damn... so there's some risk in disclosing personal info like that to a woman bold enough to ask them right off the bat (if you check the boxes)

I'm seeing limited upside here

The earlier you show you aren’t interested, the better.

Don’t let them emotionally invest in the idea of you being someone they can pull. Because, when you reject them, they flip out.

It’s best to just be transparent. Will save you a lot of headaches.

 

[Serious]

Why did you mention me breh?

Just showing you another example.

 

[seabreeze80]

Just showing you another example.

Example of what breh?

 

[Serious]

Example of what breh?

nvm enjoy your weekend.

 

[MaxPain]

Imagine having to prove urself to a worn out 30+ year old woman who didnt have half the requirments when she was younger & badder

Couldnt be me

 

[mamba]

Problem is SHE shouldn’t be in the position she’s in at 30 if she thought about how her actions would later impact her at 30. My entire timeline on FB/IG is a female (usually black woman) bytching about how they can’t find a good man and ask some of these questions the OP posted. Reality is nikkas ain’t stupid. In her prime 23-28 she was getting her culo blasted by Bobby Back Blow and his Super Friends. Wasn’t asking none of them bullshyt questions back then.

Now that she’s washed up, she wants to settle down?

Fukk outta here. nikkas really need to understand that the stigma (right or wrong) that has been embedded in these females minds is that black men “ain’t shyt” so all you gotta do is be a halfway decent nikka (not having kids is a bonus) and when YOU’RE ready to settle down, you’ll find what you want much faster than when the roles are reversed.

So if any of you females in your mid 20’s reading this, think twice before you live your “best life” and be on your Meg The Stallion shyt. Cause 6 years from now, you gonna want to settle down and going to have to lower the bar down to the ground while spending nights alone watching the ID channel and drinking red cat

All facts. If they play their cards right, they should never look up at 30+ and still be looking for a man.

At 25, if a woman is attractive, they can get a man from 25-40 to potentially wife them up.

That window from 25-35 is make or break for most of them unless they have maintained exceptional looks.

 

[Elle Driver]

Not just that, how much you make doesn’t mean shyt, if someone has no self control when it comes to spending.

People act like there aren’t individuals making 200k, who have compulsive spending habits living check to check, on a shady contract, working at some place like Uber as an engineer, where they could be let go at moments notice due to stock manipulation , while there are others making 60-80k a year, in a stable job / position with great benefits, pension and 200k in the bank collecting interest.

Big facts.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Agreed, I couldnt be in my 30s and dealing with a 30 yo women, I would need a 25-29 yo.

When I hit my 40s, Ill be into 30 yo women

Pretty much