Not off rip, though. Who wants to get interrogated at a date that's supposed to be fun?
Dating women over 30 is basically a job interview
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The vitriol here for women around here is insane.I don’t know how you guys do it.
They do, but OP has a point if those are the first set of questions instead of tactful way to answer it's off putting.
It all makes sense now.Saw this comment on a vid. So true
"Dating women after 30 is miserable -- Its not a date its a job interview -- They dont even try to disguise it -- (1) What do you do for work (2) where do you live (3) do you rent or own (4) what kind of car do you drive etc -- Might as well go out with a bank statement and credit report -- NOT one question about you as a person - what do you like to do for fun - favorite restaurants - favorite music - do you like dogs or cats -- NOTHING -- They only want to qualify you materially to see if you can support them and the family they would like to create --"
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Date birds, brehs.
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Or worse the family they've ALREADY CREATED !!Saw this comment on a vid. So true
"Dating women after 30 is miserable -- Its not a date its a job interview -- They dont even try to disguise it -- (1) What do you do for work (2) where do you live (3) do you rent or own (4) what kind of car do you drive etc -- Might as well go out with a bank statement and credit report -- NOT one question about you as a person - what do you like to do for fun - favorite restaurants - favorite music - do you like dogs or cats -- NOTHING -- They only want to qualify you materially to see if you can support them and the family they would like to create --"
AS someone who actually has something going for himself being looked at like some kinda paycheck is WACK.
A man's self worth shouldn't be completely tied to his finances though, it's as shallow a judgement ofI mean...we can't say women should make better choices in men and then complain when women actually try to do that.
someone's character as a woman's breast size or waistline.
Let's be real, that's not looking for a good man, that's looking for a financial safety net.
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HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Lies, she looking for them bills to be paid.
This isn't a "woman" thing. Some men only care about how fat the ass is and how a chick fukks too.
You need to distinguish between the people in the 'dating arena' that are looking for 'Companionship', and the ones that are looking for 'Help'. The former will consider more than just your finances and retirement portfolio. While the other is almost solely interested in the latter.
Take it like this. Asking those questions the minute you meet is letting you know which type he/she is. Make your call and don't waste your time if you aren't looking for the same things.
You need to distinguish between the people in the 'dating arena' that are looking for 'Companionship', and the ones that are looking for 'Help'. The former will consider more than just your finances and retirement portfolio. While the other is almost solely interested in the latter.
Take it like this. Asking those questions the minute you meet is letting you know which type he/she is. Make your call and don't waste your time if you aren't looking for the same things.
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Well that’s why I have no problem mentioning sex when they do shyt like that.
if she’s into you she would ask you in a way that’s interesting.
That's because they ask grow up questions.Saw this comment on a vid. So true
"Dating women after 30 is miserable -- Its not a date its a job interview -- They dont even try to disguise it -- (1) What do you do for work (2) where do you live (3) do you rent or own (4) what kind of car do you drive etc -- Might as well go out with a bank statement and credit report -- NOT one question about you as a person - what do you like to do for fun - favorite restaurants - favorite music - do you like dogs or cats -- NOTHING -- They only want to qualify you materially to see if you can support them and the family they would like to create --"
That's totally different when you used to date hoes and stupid girls.
Man up.
Depends on the woman but unless she is a golddigger I doubt it.
That's how men all around the world do.
You don't marry a loser men or woman.