Dating women over 30 is basically a job interview

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

change that to 40 because everyone in their 30s is on social media

40s too...

Oh and a woman over 40 if she ain't down to fukkin down for whatever that night.. then don't even bother

 

[Youseenmywork]

bytches be thinking Im El Chapo or some shyt when I say that I just work a regular 9-5

Less is better with women, never answer a question straight forward.

My man

 

[MajesticLion]

Can we just be friends first damn

 

[JT-Money]

Tactful ....see give women the same energy they give me if women say "How much you make a year" like this a day interview I say " I don't know how much you cost " . nikkas have stoped this ALL women in they 30s have they shyt together and men need to get they shyt together . I can't stand the pandering ...

You watching Kevin Samuel's Livestream tonight? He just booted another chick off the program for getting out of pocket.

 

[Reality]

Date women in that 24-27 range so you don't have to deal with this or the birdishness of the 21-23 chicks. That way you have 'em keeping you young, you usually have at least a year and a half or 2 years before you get the about timeline to marriage

 

[Ozymandeas]

Those are questions woman at any adult age should ask

If she a single mom u gonna knock her for not asking enough about her bd before they got serious or she had sex with him.

But if she ask alot of questions about what u do

or what u got going for urself its a job interview.


Yall nikkas just love to complain about woman

Somebody asking you if you rent or own on the first date? That shyt sounds snobby as hell. Even if I owned, in my head, she’d be bushed immediately off that alone.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

This whole thread is depressing. I’m never getting married

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Somebody asking you if you rent or own on the first date? That shyt sounds snobby as hell. Even if I owned, in my head, she’d be bushed immediately off that alone.

That diff

I never heard a woman do that

 

[Youseenmywork]

You watching Kevin Samuel's Livestream tonight? He just booted another chick off the program for getting out of pocket.

I'm have to watch the playback ...but yeah he dosent allow women to talk to him a ceartin way ....this is what I'm say thoe

 

[Ozymandeas]

That diff

I never heard a woman do that

That was one of the questions in the OP.

Im okay with the job question. I work here. I do this. Yada yada. Who cares. The rent/own question is mad snobby and I’m roughly halfway to saving up a down payment on a rental. I can imagine some snobby broad looking down on you for not owning while she don’t have a bed frame for her mattress.

 

[Serious]

I agree. But to some men, women cant win if we are inquisitive or don’t ask shyt period. Either way, we are complained about.

What’s understood don’t need to be said

 

[Reality]

I don't even know, but I do know this He-Man Woman Hater shyt isn't gonna work. There are women out there who aren't just looking for well off professional men. You can find them. But you aren't going to get anywhere focusing on the past. People who focus on the past have no future. People who plan for the future win at life. And sadly too many men focus on the past - either using a woman's past to judge her, or dwelling on their own past childhood pleasures (video games...) and never really evolving into adulthood. Not saying you can't play videogames, I play them. I'm talking about brehs who live and breath that shyt.

It's time for brehs to evolve and advance. Mentally, financially, etc. Because a lot of the women you laugh at have advanced beyond you, and if you don't catch up soon it'll be game over.

I don't think this is true though. I think a lot of women who have decent incomes tread water when it comes to wealth because that's often not their mindset. I've dated women where they have good incomes, but when you get to finances it's "Oh noooooo baby what is you doin???".

I was talking with my chill ex-white manager about this. His wife makes 6 figures in a director role at a F100 company but stays trying to keep up with the Joneses. Didn't get a graduate level education but still has like 5 figures worth of student loan debt to pay off from undergrad. My manager was like "I just can't get her off of instagram and it drives the spending."

As competitive as men are, women are incredibly competitive in their own way and often like to show it via spending. IMO that's why hip hop culture can bend so much to flashiness and spending...there are a lot of fatherless dudes creating the culture.

A lot of women still instinctively see saving and investing as your job too. Not all. Maybe not even most. But a lot.

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

I tell young guys all the time who are looking to vet a quality woman always ask her with a straight face and full confidence,

“So, tell me, what qualities do you bring to a relationship other than a pretty face and sex? “How can you add value to my, or a man’s life?”

99% of women will be on the inside scrambling for an answer.

Also, when I was in the dating game if a woman asked me off top about my job, finances, living arrangement, etc, I always answered but made sure I followed up with my own personal questions such as,

“How many sexual partners have you had, STD’s, abortions, are you in debt greater than $5k?”

When they got offended, which most of them will, I always followed up, and neutralized their hypocrisy with this statement.

“Well, it seems to me that you asked questions that were important to you that would determine how likely you are to continue getting to know me or if I’m worth anymore of your time.

“I thought I would do the same thing, ya know, asks questions to determine if your the type of woman I should “risk” building a relationship with.”

I tell brehs all the time, you have to speak WOMEN LOGIC TO WOMEN in order to expose their female hypocrisy and fukkery.

You can’t speak male logic to women. I’m convinced they have a supernatural power that prevents them from understanding it. So you have to speak their language to them.

i'm gonna save this. this some good ish.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I'm nosey as well folks be asking if I'm police but idc cause the dating game diff in 2020

I advice male or female to ask questions not to personal to early but after time def ask about they personal life

If u don't u gonna be talking to or

dating someone that got 3 bm and a wife u didn't kno of if u a woman and vice versa if u man

Exactly. It’s important to ask the questions early if you’re looking for a relationship.

Going with the flow leads to being used and treated like a cum dumpster or being lied to repeatedly. I know a few women that were never steadfast with the guy they were interested regarding what their intentions were nor tell the man that it’s that or nothing.. They usually would say something about what they wanted but would wait for him to make it official.

It’s not about material items but actually creating a long lasting intimacy with someone which requires each party being true to their intentions.

That’s not something that should start at 30.

 

[Serious]

It all depends on the flow and vibe of the conversation... If she's coming out of the gate asking.. Then its a woman thats desperately trying to latch because she knows her time is up

Problem is, I’m not against marriage but I know too many women that are in a rush to be married just to be married. The biggest tall tale sign is when all their friends are or in the process of getting married and that’s all the they can talk about. That’s not a good foundation for a relationship to be built on. It just comes across as superficial.