Dam even women are out here saying having children lowers they value

[Voice of Reason]

A lot of baby daddy babble in that thread.

 

[Wildhundreds]

I dont know about the women y'all date, but in my circles, the women who date men with kids either:

1. Have limited options (age, looks), and have to settle.
2. Or they are dating a man that is doing very well for himself.

Your circle of friends are the best breh..

 

[pickles]

This is why single moms are the most dangerous.

They don't mind getting pregnant again to snag the next guy into taking care of the whole family.

Date single mothers brehs.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Women know this but women who know this tend to keep their mouth shut.

 

[L@CaT]

Iunno

Had alot of chicks push on me extra hard after they see how well I take care of my kids



Bring a great father with cute kids gives you an edge when compared to a nikka making the same money but living the single life.

"those are your kids?!?... oh you breed well"

Those chicks that push up on you while you have kids most likely have kids themselves. You ain’t getting no 25 year old single dime on some ole You look like a great breeder bs


Now with that said there is a higher probability a man with children can obtain a high value childless woman then a single mother can obtaining a high value childless man.

 

[Voice of Reason]

nikkas love bashing single moms but I been around and I noticed that most the women with children have they shyt together meaning, own spot, own car, job or hustle that provides, and if the kid is with them they not always out doing something. On the flip side the bytches with no kids rarely have any of these things and are more likely the type to think like Justin lafagboy

That's good and fine but the baby daddy drama is not worth it.

And even if that's not the case the kid and their personality can have an impact on the relationship.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Some posters here swear single moms have no trouble finding good relationships and nobody cares about that irl

They’re right though. Yes it does lower value. But how much?

How many times you heard a man say “Oh she’s perfect but she has kids so I’m going to go ahead and quit.”

Never. They’ll say that while they single. “Oh I won’t date someone with kids”. But people with kids have no issue finding men/women

 

[getmoney310cpt]

To your point most women won't truly grip the concept of responsibility/obligation until they have children.

 

[Guile]

brehs have been getting killed on the coli for saying this for years..

 

[Lv99 Slacker]

Iunno

Had alot of chicks push on me extra hard after they see how well I take care of my kids



Bring a great father with cute kids gives you an edge when compared to a nikka making the same money but living the single life.

"those are your kids?!?... oh you breed well"

This is why I suspect this is not as big of a deal for single men to have kids as it is for women. As long as you don't have six kids or something, I think dudes will be alright.

 

[Savvir]

Those chicks that push up on you while you have kids most likely have kids themselves. You ain’t getting no 25 year old single dime on some ole You look like a great breeder bs

My current gf proves that wrong

 

[EndDomination]

My cousin is active in his children’s lives and I don’t think he’s fully divorced from his 4th baby mom yet either prior to my cousin.

Fourth baby mama
I was thinking this was a one wife - fruitful marriage kind of thing

 

[SNG]

This is why I suspect this is not as big of a deal for single men to have kids as it is for women. As long as you don't have six kids or something, I think dudes will be alright.

Fourth baby mama
I was thinking this was a one wife - fruitful marriage kind of thing

Nope he’s been married to the two out of five. His fifth baby mama which is my cousin also he is not. He just had twins at 57 with her. So that makes it 8 kids he has now.

 

[EndDomination]

Cause these people come up in history and real life anyway

there’s no scope specifically dedicated to it

I don't think its that common actually, the "Victorian social rules" were largely for the wealthier/bourgeois set - just on that alone and their access to doctors, contraception, and people more tied to their honor and wealth (than their lust) they were less likely to have kids out of wedlock, or marry (women) with kids.

 

[EndDomination]

Nope he’s been married to the two out of five. His fifth baby mama which is my cousin also he is not. He just had twins at 57 with her. So that makes it 8 kids he has now.

He wouldn't happen to be a well-paid DC contractor with a couple of kids in Ohio, would he?