Dam even women are out here saying having children lowers they value

[goatmane]

Obviously kids decrease value for both men and women in the dating world.
The more kids you have and the younger they are the more you are devalued
How can anything else even be argued

Some posters here swear single moms have no trouble finding good relationships and nobody cares about that irl

 

[Taadow]

There needs to be a greater focus on fixing systemic issues that lead to women getting pregnant at young ages with male spouses at are unable to properly support their children in a relationship for at least 18 years.

This is simply an issue of the family breakdown caused by systemic racism - mainly poverty and forced disenfranchisement.

With all due respect, this is a part of the problem.

The “system” most at blame for young women having children they aren’t ready for is irresponsibility with their own reproductive systems, not some social chit outside of them.

 

[shutterguy]

It does…when you’re concerned about maintaining the attention of others. Parenting is difficult, but I think the majority of parents enjoy parenting. Those in relationships don’t care how others value them when they are priceless in their homes, families and communities.

These Instagram, attention-craved women now a days only want to be seen and god forbid they be seen with their child and as a mother.

This.... and its been going on for awhile. I remember 10-15yrs ago when I was deep in the portrait photography game, I had a few models tell me that some females would hide the fact that they had kids cause they knew it would affect their popularity.

 

[King]

With all due respect, this is a part of the problem.

The “system” most at blame for young women having children they aren’t ready for is irresponsibility with their own reproductive systems, not some social chit outside of them.

You’re wrong. You’ve essentially just blamed the effects of poverty and disenfranchisement on those in living in poverty and disenfranchisement as if it’s 100% personal responsibility.

Young women having children they aren’t able to care for properly is and always will be a social issue rooted in systemic racism. It always has been an always will be. There is too much research on this, keep your opinions to yourself.

 

[semicko82]

Yeah it can

but it depends on your class as well

A dude born and bred in the upper crust is more likely to get with a single mom in that same strata because she knows the etiquette and customs and how to be a spouse. She probably has tangible shyt he can use as well and family support. Properly making connections too

As opposed to picking a pleb. single mother

 

[Taadow]

You’re wrong. You’ve essentially just blamed the effects of poverty and disenfranchisement on those in living in poverty and disenfranchisement as if it’s 100% personal responsibility.

Young women having children they aren’t able to care for properly is and always will be a social issue rooted in systemic racism. It always has been an always will be. There is too much research on this, keep your opinions to yourself.

No.

If what you say here is true, that would mean younger women don’t have the biological imperative to want to mother children - and you have to know that is hogwash.

 

[The Fade]

Been happening since George Washington breh

[wealthy] men been marrying wealthy heiresses with kids for a long time

happened in Obama’s family too

 

[semicko82]

Been happening since George Washington breh

[wealthy] men been marrying wealthy heiresses with kids for a long time

Link?

 

[Wildhundreds]

You’re wrong. You’ve essentially just blamed the effects of poverty and disenfranchisement on those in living in poverty and disenfranchisement as if it’s 100% personal responsibility.

Young women having children they aren’t able to care for properly is and always will be a social issue rooted in systemic racism. It always has been an always will be. There is too much research on this, keep your opinions to yourself.

Well the people who put us in these conditions don't give a shyt whats happening to us.. And the fact that you know what the problem is, and still expect the people who put us in this problem to fix it, is even more troubling.. The definition is called insanity..

 

[Gold]

Iunno

Had alot of chicks push on me extra hard after they see how well I take care of my kids



Bring a great father with cute kids gives you an edge when compared to a nikka making the same money but living the single life.

"those are your kids?!?... oh you breed well"

I'll take your word for it, i dont have any kids

 

[Wildhundreds]

I'll take your word for it, i dont have any kids

He's not lying.. People claim women love security.. Nothing speaks security more than a man out doing random shyt with his kids.. Not giving a fck about a bytch..

Security is more than just making an income.. Its a total package, that begins with the individual..

 

[Gold]

He's not lying.. People claim women love security.. Nothing speaks security more than a man out doing random shyt with his kids.. Not giving a fck about a bytch..

Security is more than just making an income.. Its a total package, that begins with the individual..

I believe it, i'm always saying women love security... which they do

 

[The Fade]

Link?

Breh there’s no article or specific research study

but there are napoleons, and George Washington’s, Some black bourgeois that did and do it

Cause those women had land and connections that created leverage. Her families coffers

A woman with a couple of kids in ATL who calls into Kevin Samuels can’t get any man anything useful. Otherwise she wouldn’t be calling in. She got no generational family coffers.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

nikkas love bashing single moms but I been around and I noticed that most the women with children have they shyt together meaning, own spot, own car, job or hustle that provides, and if the kid is with them they not always out doing something. On the flip side the bytches with no kids rarely have any of these things and are more likely the type to think like Justin lafagboy

 

[hatealot]

Its not even about getting a mate..

A lot of men and women have no clue on how to raise a child.. They seem to just have them and let them run wild with no guidance.. Whatever people got to do to stop having kids they clearly aren't ready for, im all for it..

I'll be honest, I'm so worried about my life that having a child would potentially break me. I have zero guidance or any education about childhood. Its scary to say the least. I know there's plenty of people like me