It does if you’re not married
Dam even women are out here saying having children lowers they value
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Not nearly as bad as men. My cousin who has 6 kids who is 57 just had twins with my next cousin who is 36 had no kids and a 6 figure job.
Children are a lot to deal with and take time, energy, and focus away from everything else in your life.
They're truly a great thing to have, but no one wants to date a man or woman *more* because they have a child, unless they're desperate for a "legacy," can't have children of their own, or are a pervert.
They're truly a great thing to have, but no one wants to date a man or woman *more* because they have a child, unless they're desperate for a "legacy," can't have children of their own, or are a pervert.
And this is ok.. It really is, despite people always asking other people when they're going to have some.. You learn to raise children by watching other people do it.. And you're successful with it when you have family to help you along the way..
I'd imagine that's because the majority of men who aren't married aren't regularly taking care of their children, nor do they have full custody
There's complexity here, because, at the same time, women want a man who will be dedicated and raise children properly, so some women love a man who has custody of his children and shows off fatherhood. There's a kind of responsibility there.
More often than not, women end up the primary custodians both due to their own desire to be with the child, and the fact that the father doesn't want full custody - we assume women are natural caregivers and because of that don't see it as important as a trait as it really is.
Your cousin having kids with a man who has six children already is an idiot, unless he's the 0.1% of men who are active in all six kids' lives and can take care of them fully.
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Iunno
Had alot of chicks push on me extra hard after they see how well I take care of my kids
Bring a great father with cute kids gives you an edge when compared to a nikka making the same money but living the single life.
"those are your kids?!?... oh you breed well"
This was my dad. Hands down. Although the didn’t do much serious dating (like actually bringing them around) til I got to high school
I'd imagine that's because the majority of men who aren't married aren't regularly taking care of their children, nor do they have full custody
There's complexity here, because, at the same time, women want a man who will be dedicated and raise children properly, so some women love a man who has custody of his children and shows off fatherhood. There's a kind of responsibility there.
More often than not, women end up the primary custodians both due to their own desire to be with the child, and the fact that the father doesn't want full custody - we assume women are natural caregivers and because of that don't see it as important as a trait as it really is.
Your cousin having kids with a man who has six children already is an idiot, unless he's the 0.1% of men who are active in all six kids' lives and can take care of them fully.
My cousin is active in his children’s lives and I don’t think he’s fully divorced from his 4th baby mom yet either prior to my cousin.
How is that possible at that age?
He looks really good for his age like 20 years younger. Has a full head of hair good job has his own business makes good money.
She’s 36 and has a daughter the same age.
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I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
Cause these people come up in history and real life anywayWithout researching any articles or studies you know this how
there’s no scope specifically dedicated to it
Iunno
Had alot of chicks push on me extra hard after they see how well I take care of my kids
Bring a great father with cute kids gives you an edge when compared to a nikka making the same money but living the single life.
"those are your kids?!?... oh you breed well
I’ve had the same experience...I’ve had some women say that they don’t date men with kids but I’ve had many more following me around the grocery store when they see me with my son. Women look for a provider and protecter in a man and so I think them seeing us interact with our kids and see the kids well taken care of is a real-time demonstration of our ability to protect and provide.
On the flip side...Men are not looking for that in a woman so them having a kid could possibly be a detriment. I don’t judge women for having kids because I have one but I can see why it would turn some guys off. I met this chick who was 28 and had SIX KIDS and was an LVN. She wanted to go out on a date...once she said that though I was like:
