Dam even women are out here saying having children lowers they value

[SNG]

He wouldn't happen to be a well-paid DC contractor with a couple of kids in Ohio, would he?

No he lives in the UK

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I would feel greatly enriched to the highest degree by a genius child of mine. fukk anybody else valuation

 

[EndDomination]

You doing that thing where people get patted on the back for doing what they're supposed to do. To your point most women won't truly grip the concept of responsibility/obligation until they have children.

Having kids makes work, school, and stability that much more difficult - adults who manage to balance and sustain all of that should certainly not be looked down upon. Especially with the large number of childless people struggling around the U.S. and world today.

 

[Bossino]

Having kids makes work, school, and stability that much more difficult - adults who manage to balance and sustain all of that should certainly not be looked down upon. Especially with the large number of childless people struggling around the U.S. and world today.

The bolded is a choice. I have little to no sympathy for adults who make uninformed decisions. I'm not looking down on them, I'm just not hyping them up. For instance, I'm not obese, I'm in good shape, but I don't expect nor do I think I deserve recognition for that, as it's what I am supposed to be

 

[BlaccSunrise]

Femcel babble

Fixed

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Not nearly as bad as men. My cousin who has 6 kids who is 57 just had twins with my next cousin who is 36 had no kids and a 6 figure job.

So your cousins are fukking and procreating?

You must be Creole.

 

[theflyest]

As stated in this thread men and women are different.

A man being married flashing his wedding ring
A man out and about appearing to be a good father

These are attractive traits to a female

As a man, it’s the complete opposite in general.

 

[Neuromancer]

This is why I suspect this is not as big of a deal for single men to have kids as it is for women. As long as you don't have six kids or something, I think dudes will be alright.

Women shouldn't settle for this just like men shouldn't. But then again men and women want different things.

 

[Neuromancer]

Not nearly as bad as men. My cousin who has 6 kids who is 57 just had twins with my next cousin who is 36 had no kids and a 6 figure job.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

As stated in this thread men and women are different.

A man being married flashing his wedding ring
A man out and about appearing to be a good father
These are attractive traits to a female
As a man, it’s the complete opposite in general.

those things are like repellant to me. not nothing against them, but out of respect for the family
then they start hitting on me, then they aint shyt respectfully

 

[Neuromancer]

Heel

Children are a lot to deal with and take time, energy, and focus away from everything else in your life.

They're truly a great thing to have, but no one wants to date a man or woman *more* because they have a child, unless they're desperate for a "legacy," can't have children of their own, or are a pervert.

Heel turn?

 

[Kinguno]

I’ve dealt with women with five kids that were easier to deal with than women with only one kid.

but depending on what you want the range or lower depends.

If she had a kid and never tried to get in shape but got fatter then of course it’s worse. These women be so delusion about their bodies post baby among the other things already from their hair, hairlines, face, makeup and down to the soles of their feet

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

If you want a man with a good job, no kids, educated (college or trade school etc)....kids usually make it harder to catch these men.

Best bet for a single mom is to find a single dad. Takes a special man with no kids to treat your kids like his own. Not all brehs are cut out for that.

If the woman just wants casual dating and a fukk buddy, get a single younger breh that is flexible with time and won't be all up in your business. He'll smash, eat some pizza with you and then dip.

 

[GatorStaceyAdams]

As stated in this thread men and women are different.

A man being married flashing his wedding ring
A man out and about appearing to be a good father

These are attractive traits to a female

As a man, it’s the complete opposite in general.

I am not sure 'attractive' is the right word.

Those attributes makes you less 'threatening', so a woman will let down her guard a bit.

But as someone already mentioned- good-looking, 25 y.o. females arent fawning over dudes just because they have a ring/child, unless they are on some ratchet/house-wrecking tip.

Although I do agree that it is an even greater albatross for women with children

 

[8WON6]

i don't know why people play these games.

an 8 with kids or an 8 without kids...which one is every man going to take (all other things being equal)?