I think the gay theory is just being perpetuated by nikkas who have never really had any emotional interactions with women. They might be DL fakkits themselves and trying to project their own insecurities into another dude.
I can easily see how a guy can be emotionally connected to a woman who he's never had sex with and maybe doesn't even need to have sex with to have that connection. These young'ns ain't been out in the world much.
Sex and love are two completely different things. You can have sex with someone you don't love. You can also be in love with someone who you don't have sex with. Its possible.
We know it can happen hence cat fishing but why the hell would you be using this argument for his weak ass story