so u luhhh dem hoes?
Nah I let them be. Why should I care what a woman I'm not fukking, nor will most likely ever fukk, does with her sex life?
Coli females ask for a male perspective on relationships thread
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Nah I let them be. Why should I care what a woman I'm not fukking, nor will most likely ever fukk, does with her sex life?
Xtraz2
Superstar
no need to re-read it, some of us passed high school
u basically actin like that hoes girlfriend, tellin her to carry on being a hoe (even tho u not on tha recieving end of it) and hiding it from her husband when she get married
u'll be in tha next thread complaing about these ratchet slum bytches and crying to tha brehs
nope, I wouldn't be with her if I felt those things about her.
I got a question
From a male's perspective, is there generally always a disrespectful/negative element to casual relationships?
I already know I'm not looking for anything serious right now. I move all around the middle east for my job, be in one place for a few months, and another the next few months. I'm mainly focusing on getting my mind, body, and spirituality right. But everybody has needs, especially in this kind of environment.
So in between my long bouts of non-voluntary celibacy, I'll meet a fantastic guy and we hit it off, shoot the shyt and fukk to the high heavens, or not fukk just enjoy being in each other's company when we can, and have a blast living drama-free until the time comes to part ways. I have no pretenses about it. I just look at the situation as a beautiful point in time God blessed me with to enjoy, nothing lasts forever, love fully and deeply in each moment because it'll be gone before you know it yada yada yada type shyt.
Or am I pouring jelly on myself here? I don't see it as being a "jumpoff" or anything just cause of my situation but I know nikkas think differently
Brotha like myself could never take you serious as a legitimate "wifey" type. But if you're a world traveler, you have more chances/options for love than the average person, so I'm sure there are plenty of men out there that won't mind
Just keep doing your thing and don't worry about the whimsical nature of men. You'll attract the man you're meant to have.
BedRoomI'z
All Money In
Why is this soooo hard for some folks to understand?
He ain't gotta deal wit it, she do
dr. pill biden
All Star
Cuz of shyt like the previous posts LOL
I ain't no fool, I'm not gon just up and volunteer this information. I'm not talking about no 5, 10 guys or more than one guy at once either. I'm doin waaaaay less than what the average single female in the states is doing. Just off the strength of being where I am options and the ways to get in trouble are seeeveeereeeely limted. Some people do it, but I value my job and fatass paycheck too much to fukk that shyt up.
I see what you're saying though. I'm very happy where I'm at
I don't know why my only options are to either not fukk for years, or be in a monogamous, committed relationship. In a place like Saudi Arabia. Ummmmmm....yeah okay
Cuz of shyt like the previous posts LOL
I ain't no fool, I'm not gon just up and volunteer this information. I'm not talking about no 5, 10 guys or more than one guy at once either. I'm doin waaaaay less than what the average single female in the states is doing. Just off the strength of being where I am options and the ways to get in trouble are seeeveeereeeely limted. Some people do it, but I value my job and fatass paycheck too much to fukk that shyt up.
I see what you're saying though. I'm very happy where I'm at
The less you worry about these trolls the better. You're happy living your life they way you wish, it shouldn't matter what they think.
Now if you're c00ning though.......
Xtraz2
Superstar
dr. pill biden
All Star
My main point is I have no false pretenses as to where this relationship goes. I don't want a relationship. I move my residency too much for my job, and I get no notice as to when I have to move. I could get a call tomorrow saying pack your bags. That life is not logically conducive to me having any expectations other than right now
Cuz of shyt like the previous posts LOL
I ain't no fool, I'm not gon just up and volunteer this information. I'm not talking about no 5, 10 guys or more than one guy at once either. I'm doin waaaaay less than what the average single female in the states is doing. Just off the strength of being where I am options and the ways to get in trouble are seeeveeereeeely limted. Some people do it, but I value my job and fatass paycheck too much to fukk that shyt up.
I see what you're saying though. I'm very happy where I'm at
You can have us tell you what you like and justify the decision you've probably made in your head or you can have us tell you the real. One real aspect is that a lot of men will talk, especially to their boys. When he's going to get done knocking it down, he might very well put his boy on. You can be a roleplayer and act like you're not getting it outside of a relationship, but if you get exposed, that will be even worse for you. You can't be freak of the week for one guy and then you meet another guy and try to turn into miss I don't do that, I respect myself.
Also consider how you will react when you are sleeping with this friends with benefit and you are out and you meet a dude you think is just so fine and he's getting at you... You have a very high probability of using that exact same benefit of, "I'm single, I'm just doing me" to get with him as well.
Ultimately, you can do whatever you want, but there will always be repercussions and consequences behind your actions.
My main point is I have no false pretenses as to where this relationship goes. I don't want a relationship. I move my residency too much for my job, and I get no notice as to when I have to move. I could get a call tomorrow saying pack your bags. That life is not logically conducive to me having any expectations other than right now
This is off topic, but what exactly is it that you do?
The less you worry about these trolls the better. You're happy living your life they way you wish, it shouldn't matter what they think.
Now if you're c00ning though.......
This nikka has no tolerance for c00ning.lol @ these nikkaz tellin this hoe to continue her activities "gurrllll live yo life!"
then in tha next thread complaining about all women is hoes
Man I agree. So many men train women and encourage in them a whore mentality and a cheater's mentality, set them loose and then they wonder why these women act the way they do these days. You can't pee in the community well and then wonder why the water tastes funny.