Coli females ask for a male perspective on relationships thread

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

..Who wants a thug? Stop with generalizations.

You all are just looking to be attacked.

Here's what I typed....

And to touch on Golden's inquiry; men can be just as contradictory as women. We do want the male equivalent of Tupac in a Business Suit, but that's very rarely touched on in these discussions.

And the bolded is what you all read....

And to touch on Golden's inquiry; men can be just as contradictory as women. We do want the male equivalent of Tupac in a Business Suit, but that's very rarely touched on in these discussions.

Context people!

 

[BedRoomI'z]

*sets up*

 

[kevm3]

General question to get some dialogue going.

What are some expectations of men now a days.

I ask this because from talking to my male friends and some of their expectations contradict themselves.

Seem like most of you all want a whore in the bed, homemaker, and a career woman who is subservient.

You have different tiers of men who want different things obviously... but in general, a man would prefer a woman who supports them and can do the aforementioned things, just as a woman would like a man who can make them feel a certain way.

There is so much confusion these days because of politically-motivated societal conditioning, which is training us to desire things that are often in constrast with our natural state. Men typically want a woman that is supportive and can do things like the cooking and cleaning, while women want a strong man that can make her feel safe. Men typically do not desire to have a woman who plays the role of the man, while a woman does not want a man who plays the role of a woman. For example, in reference to a career point, men can appreciate a woman who has a nice career, but that isn't a trait that is as highly valued as a woman who can support and listen to her man. Men have been tasked with playing the role of the provider, so they do not typically seek that characteristic in a woman. Women, on the othre hand, would not value a man who cannot protect her and make her feel safe, because men are geared to be protectors.

In regards to the whore in the bed, men, just like women desire to be pleased sexually. They want a woman to be able to do that, but not do that to EVERYBODY. It's just like if a man took you to dinner, it would mean a lot more if he took just YOU to dinner and bought the expensive champagne... It would be meaningless if you later found out he took another girl to the exact same place the night before, said the exact same things he told you. That would be meaningless. EXCLUSIVITY is what really matters. You appreciate things way more if they are done in a quality way, but you know they are done just for you.

 

[CrossBones]

General question to get some dialogue going.

What are some expectations of men now a days.

I ask this because from talking to my male friends and some of their expectations contradict themselves.

Seem like most of you all want a whore in the bed, homemaker, and a career woman who is subservient.

you can't please everyone. you never gonna do that. the best thing you can do, is find out who you are, what you wanna be, and stick with that. no wishy washy back and forth.


if you gonna ho, be the best at it. be happy with it. but know that's it. you ain't gonna be able to cross back into a real wife material. you want to be a house maker, then do that and be happy. or get your career and find a like minded man. why are you taking all different types of mens likes, and trying to fit them all in one? just be YOU. be one thing, be happy with it, THEN find the right man for you. the rest will fit into place.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

You all are just looking to be attacked.

Here's what I typed....



And the bolded is what you all read....



Context people!

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

*in before derailment*

 

[DaChampIsHere]

a woman who can support and listen to her man.

Sorry, but I had to stop here. Wouldn't this be a desirable trait for both men and women?

This is why advice threads are stupid.

you can't please everyone. you never gonna do that. the best thing you can do, is find out who you are, what you wanna be, and stick with that. no wishy washy back and forth.

Pretty much.

 

[AgentGrey]

you can't please everyone. you never gonna do that. the best thing you can do, is find out who you are, what you wanna be, and stick with that. no wishy washy back and forth.


if you gonna ho, be the best at it. be happy with it. but know that's it. you ain't gonna be able to cross back into a real wife material. you want to be a house maker, then do that and be happy. or get your career and find a like minded man. why are you taking all different types of mens likes, and trying to fit them all in one? just be YOU. be one thing, be happy with it, THEN find the right man for you. the rest will fit into place.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Just from a woman's perspective, just be happy with who you are as a person.
You don't have to look like one of these WorldStar broads to get a quality
mate. Matter of fact do the opposite of all the fukkery you see today and you
will be just fine. No matter if you land a mate or not, because truth be told,
all of us are not meant to be in relationships or married , or any of that traditional
bs that the world likes to lord over a woman's head.

Make sure you pay attention to the person who really loves
you the most, you.

 

[kevm3]

Sorry, but I had to stop here. Wouldn't this be a desirable trait for both men and women?

This is why advice threads are stupid.



Pretty much.

If these advice threads are stupid, why are you always in them chiming in about how stupid they are? It would make way more sense to avoid something you find nonsensical.

 

[Xtraz2]

Sorry, but I had to stop here. Wouldn't this be a desirable trait for both men and women?

This is why advice threads are stupid.



Pretty much.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Just from a woman's perspective, just be happy with who you are as a person.
You don't have to look like one of these WorldStar broads to get a quality
mate. Matter of fact do the opposite of all the fukkery you see today and you
will just fine. No matter if you land a mate or not, because truth be told, all of us are not meant to be in relationships or married , or any of that traditional
bs that the world likes to lord over a woman's head.

Make sure you pay attention to the person who really loves
you the most, you.

*Simps shamelessly and with vigor*

 

[Tom]

theres like 3 women on this entire forum u fakkit

 

[Xtraz2]

theres like 3 women on this entire forum u fakkit

 

[DaChampIsHere]

If these advice threads are stupid, why are you always in them chiming in about how stupid they are?

Because blind people shouldn't be leading blind people.

If I'm so much of one, why do you keep following me around? Press ignore and keep it movin'