Coli Dating Experts: Decipher this email from this new chick I'm talking to. Bushes?

[Giselle]

I'm not into the internet simping hun. Find another sucka

I've posted pics and videos on here. All you need to know that i'm 6'2 dark skin, nice white teeth, 220lb with dreads .And my money's right It's easy out here.

 

[Stuntone]

I'm not interested in you, lol, but I have single friends in DC who should not date you.

Lmao! I'm actually one of the better catches. If you're friends are single, they're probably just like this chick. Over-appraising themselves. Believe it or not, but the buyer (men) set the value in the dating market. If a chick is requiring more than she's worth, she's playing herself and will continue to get played by men. Now if your friends are on point, I'll treat them fairly. Even with this chick, she might just be talking this to sound good (not a rare occurrence for women nowadays) but after we kick it, I might find out she's actually a good girl and very cool and maybe even the wifey type. Then I would treat her accordingly. I'm no dog, I've dating many of girls way flyer than her that talked a great game, but once we started kicking it and they see that i'm legit, they relax all of those bs requirements.

 

[Brandon M.]

i got long curly hair, good hair. imma mix breed. what we gonna do Gissy

 

[JasonSJackson]

Ehh....I don't see any glaring red flags that would make me not at least go out a time or two with her to see what she's talking about in person.

The things that did catch my eye for a second were:

- the first line about dating in DC. The whole "met a lot of guys" line is very vague....and could be very dubious. Plus the "well known" guy from VA...the fact that she even mentioned that "well known" thing seems odd
- the "ehhhh bump it I'll date a black girl" referring to white men. Sounds like she thinks white guys do black women a favor when they date them...like they're thinking "hey I can't find a white girl so let me just bang out this darkie who keeps messaging me"
- the last portion where she mentions being a "designer girl"...is that code word for something hoish? Not to mention, sounds like she used to be(maybe still is) the same kind of woman that you're leery about anyway...the "out and about" type
- the "now I'm a much different person" line mixed with the church reference...many reformed hoes go to church...in fact, most of the women in urban centers who go to church have more than a few skeletons in their closet. Church attracts these types because they're looking for redemption of some sort.

Now, this is just my response based off the words. But the only way to fully figure her out to spend some face time with her and gauge her personality. People can be anything on an email or a phone call, but in person, you get a clearer idea of who they are.

Peace

lol

 

[Stuntone]

You don't like dreads? Why not? Most women love them


A dread head must have done you wrong.

 

[Giselle]

i got long curly hair, good hair. imma mix breed. what we gonna do Gissy

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Lmao! I'm actually one of the better catches. If you're friends are single, they're probably just like this chick. Over-appraising themselves. Believe it or not, but the buyer (men) set the value in the dating market. If a chick is requiring more than she's worth, she's playing herself and will continue to get played by men. Now if your friends are on point, I'll treat them fairly. Even with this chick, she might just be talking this to sound good (not a rare occurrence for women nowadays) but after we kick it, I might find out she's actually a good girl and very cool and maybe even the wifey type. Then I would treat her accordingly. I'm no dog, I've dating many of girls way flyer than her that talked a great game, but once we started kicking it and they see that i'm legit, they relax all of those bs requirements.

But you're not looking for a relationship so does really matter how you treat them if you don't have any intention of ever making it exclusive?

Plus dudes with dreads are always trouble. I don't know why but women go crazy over them and it makes y'all big headed.

 

[Giselle]

You don't like dreads? Why not? Most women love them

They just look ugly to me.

 

[Brandon M.]

i look like this tho

im browner with curlier hair tho...what we gonna do Gissy?

 

[Giselle]

i look like this tho

im browner with curlier hair tho...what we gonna do Gissy?

You must not be as attractive as you say you are if your hair looks like that.

 

[Stuntone]

But you're not looking for a relationship so does really matter how you treat them if you don't have any intention of ever making it exclusive?
Plus dudes with dreads are always trouble. I don't know why but women go crazy over them and it makes y'all big headed.

I'm open to a relationship, but a women have to prove herself worthy. Just like I have to prove myself worthy of being her man.

 

[Stuntone]

They just look ugly to me.

My dreads are manicured. Edged up, great parting, healthy dark pure African Zulu God warrior hair, but to each it's own.

 

[T-K-G]

But you're not looking for a relationship so does really matter how you treat them if you don't have any intention of ever making it exclusive?

Plus dudes with dreads are always trouble. I don't know why but women go crazy over them and it makes y'all big headed.

fall back with all that slander tho we just out here livin

 

[Brandon M.]

You must not be as attractive as you say you are if your hair looks like that.

its curlier and longer....pm me that pic

 

[JasonSJackson]

bytch is a bird