Charging girlfriend rent on a property you own outright. Who’s right/wrong?

[HARLEM AL]

if She doesn’t agree, he’ll have to find someone else. Find somebody that will. To many women out here in the world. His property, why the fukk not.

 

[HARLEM AL]

paying $800 a month for what, you ain’t got a mortgage or rent to keep up

split the food
Split the repairs
Split the cable
Split the electric
Split the water
Handle your own insurance through your employer
Handle your own phones

if that’s your real deal girl, not some broad you met at the club 2 months ago, but your real deal girl, ride or die shyt, intentions to marry, you ain’t asking for rent when there ain’t really rent to be paid

that’s the real world plehboi, not your internet safe haven where you can act tough

That 50/50 is going to get played out to her. She’s going to leave your ass playa. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. She is going to think she can do better by finding someone who pays everything.

Most women don’t want to pay for shyt. The women of this generation want men to be traditional when it comes to money situation but want to run and do whatever it is they please.

 

[HARLEM AL]

She already had plans for that extra 1800 a month, and it didn't include him

Right, exactly.

FYI I personally don’t think dudes should live with a female. Have your own spot.

 

[David_TheMan]

Lol this topic always gets folks hyped up.

the problem is he said the word rent. That is a trigger word for women. He could’ve said expenses or even utilities who cares it all goes towards paying off stuff but rent hits the women’s ego.

this is why you gotta find a woman who is on the same page with you. Many women only see men as expendable and a lot of the hot ones grew up with men doing everything for them. So of course they ain’t gonna want to help pay cause it’s a blow to the ego.

neither one of them is wrong they just gotta find someone who shares their belief system.

The one that doesnt want to pay rent to stay in a house they dont own is clearly in the wrong.

Stop soft shoe simping. Lol

For all the folks saying, but the house is paid off, so what, he paid it off, that has nothing to do with her staying there, she is paying rent for the privilege of staying there.

 

[WesCrook]

The one that doesnt want to pay rent to stay in a house they dont own is clearly in the wrong.

Stop soft shoe simping. Lol

For all the folks saying, but the house is paid off, so what, he paid it off, that has nothing to do with her staying there, she is paying rent for the privilege of staying there.

Some of these posters don't have a clue about business...and would suck at it if they were involved in it.

They can start by looking up "Profit Margin".

 

[King Poetic]

bytch u saving 1200 dollars

And that’s 14,400 a year

compared to paying 24,000 in rent a year not including utilities

throw her in the bushes

 

[David_TheMan]

Some of these posters don't have a clue about business...and would suck at it if they were involved in it.

They can start by looking up "Profit Margin".

Its funny because the ones who claim they arent simps and hoh are saying this.shyt.

One even said asking a girl to pay tent who moves in with you isnt even realistic. Thats how conditioned to be simps some of these.guys are. Im glad I grew up and was raised in a time when men spouting hoe babble were laughed at and.looked down on.

 

[Phitz]

Slippery slope. If she doesnt pay, she coud easily say they were common law and get alimony.

I know a breh who paid his 2nd wife rent and they bought another crib together and rented out the one he was payign her for. He was being honest and not trying to shaft her incase they split.

Another guy got engaged and him and his fiance both rented out their homes and moved to an apartment together. Some real action oriented prenups out there.

 

[feelosofer]

As long as she helps with expenses I'm not charging her rent.

 

[Icantspell]

Yes you gotta specify it is rent or else she can claim interest in the property in some states according to things i read online

 

[David_TheMan]

Most states have.gotten rid of common law marriages only 10 left, on top of that the community or the.couple have to usually declare the two represent themselves as husband and wife.

So nah, the man doesnt have to say she pays rent at all.

What is sad is some of you cant even.imagine a man simply making a woman he is.interested.in.pay rent on top of splitting utilities. Some of you think you have.to.play a game to justify it.

Guess what, you dont, you own the housw you make the rukes, be up feont about your business. You shouldnt be with a.woman id you feel you have.to hide your life from her. Some of you have.to abandon that hood rat mindset.

I think a lot of you simply dont value yourself and really believe you are lucky to haave your girl, nah you kids. If you are in a real relationship you both value each other, it isnt healthy for either one to.put the other in a pedestal. If ahe iant your.wife, she.is.paying rent on top.of other.bills, thats how you.keep your relationship strong and weed out non serious relationship candidates.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Most states have.gotten rid of common law marriages only 10 left, on top of that the community or the.couple have to usually declare the two represent themselves as husband and wife.

So nah, the man doesnt have to say she pays rent at all.

What is sad is some of you cant even.imagine a man simply making a woman he is.interested.in.pay rent on top of splitting utilities. Some of you think you have.to.play a game to justify it.

Guess what, you dont, you own the housw you make the rukes, be up feont about your business. You shouldnt be with a.woman id you feel you have.to hide your life from her. Some of you have.to abandon that hood rat mindset.

I think a lot of you simply dont value yourself and really believe you are lucky to haave your girl, nah you kids. If you are in a real relationship you both value each other, it isnt healthy for either one to.put the other in a pedestal. If ahe iant your.wife, she.is.paying rent on top.of other.bills, thats how you.keep your relationship strong and weed out non serious relationship candidates.

They are low key putting that p*ssy on a pedestal. nikkas will do anything for some in house p*ssy. Problem is she can still say “she don’t feel like it”, or “I got a headache”. She’s not obligated to give it to you.

Like you said, they don’t value who they are. Men need to understand they do a lot of shyt. They need to understand that they are the prize.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

I don't get why him paying off the house changes anything. The financial hit was taken. Why should she live rent free because HE had the foresight to pay his mortgage off? Is she all of a sudden more obligated to pay if his mortgage was still outstanding?

That said. I'd make her pay the rest of the bills light, gas, internet. That's all on you babe and if that's a problem youre free to renew that 2k/ month lease

 

[calixprynce]

once a relationship turns into a provider/

That 50/50 is going to get played out to her. She’s going to leave your ass playa. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. She is going to think she can do better by finding someone who pays everything.

Most women don’t want to pay for shyt. The women of this generation want men to be traditional when it comes to money situation but want to run and do whatever it is they please.

Especially Generation Z hoes. One chick wanted the man to pretty much provide for everything. When i asked what she brings to the table, this hoe really said " my personality" she's with a cac now, im sure he cashing out like the typical cac simp

 

[x2y]

Saw this on twitter, was wondering what thecoli would make of it?

What if this chick was Married, but has been Separated from her hubby? Would that change how you handle this situation? Would you save her or charge her?