Charging girlfriend rent on a property you own outright. Who’s right/wrong?

[R=G]

It's like this..who owns it? Him? Then pay what the motherfukker is asking...
Personally? I wouldnt pimp my own gf and ask her to pay shyt I already took care of. That new age mentality got people's heads fukked up.

 

[HARLEM AL]

once a relationship turns into a provider/


Especially Generation Z hoes. One chick wanted the man to pretty much provide for everything. When i asked what she brings to the table, this hoe really said " my personality" she's with a cac now, im sure he cashing out like the typical cac simp

White Men get it for the low. They don’t pay the same price. They don’t have to have as much money or be as swagged out.

 

[HARLEM AL]

It's like this..who owns it? Him? Then pay what the motherfukker is asking...
Personally? I wouldnt pimp my own gf and ask her to pay shyt I already took care of. That new age mentality got people's heads fukked up.

This new age mentality works for times we are in. These chicks ain’t cooking or cleaning. They’re can’t do shyt. So what exactly should these dudes require from them? They shouldn’t require nothing?

 

[David_TheMan]

It's like this..who owns it? Him? Then pay what the motherfukker is asking...
Personally? I wouldnt pimp my own gf and ask her to pay shyt I already took care of. That new age mentality got people's heads fukked up.

How is asking.someone.who isnt your spouse , that is moving into your home to pay rent, pimping?

Yall stay exposing yourself, even when you try to sound tough. Lol

 

[Mr. Glass]

They are low key putting that p*ssy on a pedestal. nikkas will do anything for some in house p*ssy. Problem is she can still say “she don’t feel like it”, or “I got a headache”. She’s not obligated to give it to you.

Like you said, they don’t value who they are. Men need to understand they do a lot of shyt. They need to understand that they are the prize.

I feel sorry for the nikkas that need p*ssy this badly. You've never felt true power in life until you've looked a female in the eye and told her, "Naw, I'm good, I don't feel like fukking." When you're able to do that, they realize they have no power over you.

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

What does rent have to do with a paid off property ..... ???

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

$800 a month seems like a lot for a paid off home.

She should definitely pay something, but that seems high.

once again... paid off home has nothing to do with market rate rents... and this is a deal..

the bf/gf thing is confusing alot of people.... if they were strangers you would say jump on it in a heartbeat

 

[Honey Bee]

To be honest if I was her I would find another place to stay. I really dont think a woman should be living in another man place unless she is in a very desperate situation.

 

[CSquare43]

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Why wouldn't a woman question where her boyfriend is putting the money to? What if he has plans on running a business, or taking classes to get his degree? Which would make me at ease about the situation. My post only questioned WHERE the money is going, not that I was completely against it and you guys are so bitter and eager to jump down a womans throat on this topic y'all can't comprehend that.

What was logical about that?

Disclaimer: I'm late to this thread

That said, does she ask her current landlord where he's spending her rent money? Does she have another option to live rent free?

As adults, we all (generally speaking of course) have to pay either rent or a mortgage. That's just how things shake out. So should she be absolved of that responsibility just because her BF owns the house? Not IMO. If she wasn't going to move in with him, she'd be paying rent somewhere else and by the looks of it, substantially more.

But what do I know? I've got a joint bank account and all 'our' bills/money go in/out as one...

 

[R=G]

This new age mentality works for times we are in. These chicks ain’t cooking or cleaning. They’re can’t do shyt. So what exactly should these dudes require from them? They shouldn’t require nothing?

Then you not ready to move her in since she's paying half the stuff anyway, right?

 

[R=G]

How is asking.someone.who isnt your spouse , that is moving into your home to pay rent, pimping?

Yall stay exposing yourself, even when you try to sound tough. Lol

Its pimping because you asked her to move in on roommate type shyt. You have her paying half and 800 on something taken care of..youre trying to get over.

 

[newarkhiphop]

story is but I'll play along

She should obviously have to pay something if there living together, split all the bills in half (all utilities and food) which is not going to be close to $800 in most situations. This is all based on the fact there is no more mortgage payment.

Also if she is that offended she should bounce.

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

I had a friend of mine who was in a similar situation. The difference was she nagged at him because she said his place was too small and he needs to get a bigger one. Then had the nerve to act offended when he asked her to pay the difference that it would cost to get a bigger place since his was already paid off. I'm talking two or three hundred per month and she felt all the way offended that he would ask. I pointed out that the amount she'd pay him would be far less than she was paying even staying with roommates but she felt he should "be a man" and pay it all. I would drop her with the quickness.

To me if the woman can't understand how we're both benefiting by moving her in and leading her to spend far less than that's not a woman I'd want to be with.

if your friend didnt live with her then his place wasnt to small it was just right for him.. who was she to say that... he got a bigger place and have less of his stuff in there cause she'll take over

 

[HiphopRelated]

lol, he doesn't actually want her to live with him. Dude just trying to be slick with it.

 

[David_TheMan]

Its pimping because you asked her to move in on roommate type shyt. You have her paying half and 800 on something taken care of..youre trying to get over.

Its clear you dont know what pimping ia then.

She is moving in to your home instead of an apartment that is all.

She is paying for rwnt and galf the utilities because she wanta a.place to say and access.to those utilities. Theae are financial reaponsibilities all adults have to shoulder.

If the boyfriend was.trying to f et over the rent wold be closer to the 1800 a month she was paying to live in her apartment. 800 a month for a.nicr.home.is a steal.

Like I daid, you exposed yourself with your post. I feel for so many of you that clearly pay women for sex and try to hide it as veing a man. That and it seems a lot of you have 0 business sense.