Not gonna lie. I've always been a little
when it comes to cold approaching chicks that I find somewhat attractive.
I can't even think of many chicks on one hand that I straight up approached out of nowhere. Every check I messed around with was always due to just being somewhere at the right time.
There's been a lot of chicks I just straight up passed on because I was always feeling a lil self conscious; My hairline ain't sharp enough, my dreads fuzzy right now, my clothes look wack today, My lips probably ashy, she probably think I'm this, etc.
shyt is annoying though.
I usually don't like bothering people too.. I have this nagging feel at times where I don't feel like "bothering" someone and that's not limited to women. I most of the time don't even want to call people I know and ask them for favors or help with something out of some irrational fear(not debilitating more like "Man I ain't about to wake this nikka up for this.")
Mix that with not wanting to feel like you simping or being thirsty and you can see why I sometimes just say f it and leave em alone.
Those cute girls on the bus.