Walking up and introducing yourself is not sexual harassment
"By Approaching, You Separate Yourself From 99.9% Of the Other Men On the Planet"
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Cold approachin' cold bytches?...nah...we off that..,you can have them chlamydia laced hoes...
you introduce yourself to random dudes in the street? old ladies? just to talk to somebody, strike up a convo?don't say "of course not WTF!" because if you do that crushes your whole argument
the only reason dudes "cold approach" is in hopes of smashing something
that shyt is a form of sexual harassment, it doesn't cease to be that just because you can't see it.
Larry Lambo
Superstar
don't say "of course not WTF!" because if you do that crushes your whole argument
the only reason dudes "cold approach" is in hopes of smashing something
that shyt is a form of sexual harassment, it doesn't cease to be that just because you can't see it.
Bulls**t. If that's the case all types of interactions between men and women would be sexual harassment.
What difference does it make whether it's in the street, at a mall, at a bar, at a church, or a fundraising event. The intention is the same.
You can't pin a male's attempt to attract women as harassment, or make silly rules about what venue it happens to be acceptable.
What makes it harassment, is when the women communicates that the approach is unwanted, and does not reciprocate interest, but the man continues anyways.
Male /Female interactions have become weird now adays
what type of logic is this for a rational thinking adult?no, talking to a woman that's ringing you up at a check out line, or the woman behind the desk at the post office is not sexual harassment
but any time you go out of your way to strike a conversation with a woman with the sole intention of getting to know her beyond the setting in which you approached her -
that CAN be seen as harassment, that's not your call to make.
to put that in better perspective; imagine an old white man following you around in a store and asking you to come cut his grass
you say no, and he still follows you, tries to entice you w/money or whatever...is that not harassment?
Larry Lambo
Superstar
no, talking to a woman that's ringing you up at a check out line, or the woman behind the desk at the post office is not sexual harassment
but any time you go out of your way to strike a conversation with a woman with the sole intention of getting to know her beyond the setting in which you approached her -
that CAN be seen as harassment, that's not your call to make.
to put that in better perspective; imagine an old white man following you around in a store and asking you to come cut his grass
you say no, and he still follows you, tries to entice you w/money or whatever...is that not harassment?
The situation you described is harassment because there is clear communication that approach is unwanted.
You can randomly approach women while they are picking out groceries, chilling at the bus stop, walking through the park, etc. All you have to do is say hi or a quick comment about the environment and if she responds with good body language, you proceed. If not, you bounce.
I'm not saying it's cool to approach a woman if her head is down and she's walking fast, that's crazy. But some women be on that chill sh*t.
When they interview women on the topic, a good portion of the women say it's about who's approaching and how they are approaching. A chiseled 6'5" pretty boy is not going to be seen as a harasser as much as a 55 year short fat dude.
If you know your target market and assess the situations correctly, you're not going to have an issue. All "street" approaches ain't dusty NYC cats saying "Aye girl"
you're the second cat to do this - this is NOT what the thread is about...
this discussion is about COLD APPROACHING. the term "COLD" means you don't know the woman.
the dude in the youtube video in the OP has videos full of himself COLD APPROACHING women
this is some pick up artist shyt.
you're talking about something completely different breh.
Larry Lambo
Superstar
Well I define cold approaching as whenever you approach a woman you don't know, regardless of technique or venue.
If your definition is different then we are talking about two different things.
this means you didn't even watch the video in the OP which has the word "PUA" (pick up artist) in it's title...in the first 30 seconds he uses the term "PUA" and he talks about getting womens panties wet
again, you're having another discussion altogether - i'm staying on topic of the thread discussion.
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Makavalli
Sinister is a system
This is old school common sense game for anybody 29 and up before social media was popping and nikkas got fresh to hang out at malls parks clubs arcades etc with their boys and got dared to approach some chick and get numbers.
New nikkas now rather snap a pic of them then google search to find one of their accounts then stalk on some "heyyyy" shyt
New nikkas now rather snap a pic of them then google search to find one of their accounts then stalk on some "heyyyy" shyt
BenevolentGaraad
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Crayola Coyote
Superstar
It's NOT about looks. I repeat! It's NOT about looks. You can look like Chris Brown n approach a woman, but if you say something stupid it will turn her off. Don't listen to the clown ass dudes saying it's all about looks. Approach women everywhere, not just clubs and bars.