"By Approaching, You Separate Yourself From 99.9% Of the Other Men On the Planet"

[j.smooth4]

Let me throw this in... Women handle rejection WAAAAAY fukking worse than guys do.

I didn't think much of it at the time, but this one woman literally threw herself at me back in college. Just laid out naked in my dorm room bed and I sat down next to her and started watching Lost. I was just trying to piss her off, be a jackass, etc.

The next day, her roommate told me that she cried in the shower for like 3 hours

Why didnt you fukk her was she ugly?

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Forreal. I might be weird for it but the rejection increases my confidence thru the day. The first approach is always the toughest but after it's done it's not as hard to step outside yourself as you build momentum. I just look at it as a step in the right direction. Regardless of whether or not you get her putting yourself in the game is a win by itself as opposed to being on the sidelines fapping away your potential

Clutch but you don't understand I'm really not a conversationalist like I I'll approach and say hi and then after have no clue how to take it from there and keep it going

 

[714562]

But cold approaching only works for good looking men.

I'd probably be called 'creepy' and maced with pepper spray if I tried cold-approaching women.

Correct. Or at least men who are better looking than the girl they are approaching.

Fat nikkaz and ugly nikkaz get all the girls nikka.
What are y'all talking about.
I swear do y'all really go out and experience the world.

Don't y'all know females date the ugly type cause those are the guys approaching, and putting in the work.


Y'all some defeatist attitude bytch nikkaz out here in the world.
Plus, got an obvious excess of dopamine cause y'all not fukk'n/mating consistently.


Art Barr

Let's see some of the women you're dating then.

 

[Turbulent]

you ever got at a chick in the metro breh?
I never tried.
I tried on my bus.
Went up to her
Me:Wassup
Her:Hi
Me: So what's your name girl
Her:Tania
Me: So you came back from school
Her:No I WORK
Me:Oh shyt my bad my bad So where do you work at
Her:At a Law FIRM
Me:Cool Cool... sooo...you gots a man?
Her:Yeah
Me: Damn so I can't really ask for your number huh
Her: No well its my stop bye
Me:























that WAS 5 YEARS AGO first year of college I MY GAME IMPROVED SINCE THEN, BUT fukk GETTING AT bytchES ON PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION MAN(all the other times I did after that it became better got their numbers but lead to nothing)

naw, i'm always on the metro in rush hour so it's packed. and by the time it gets emptied, i'm just tired and thinking about getting out. easiest places to pull is probably at the ones close to the hippy CEGEPs (cegep st-laurent, cegep vieux montreal, etc)

 

[42 Monks]

Why didnt you fukk her was she ugly?

Because I was irritated at how comfortable she was just showing up to my suite, asking my boys to let her in, and just chilling in my place like we were together 2 years or something. She was line-stepping and knew it, so I wasn't gonna just play along like a typical young, dumb, slave-to-p*ssy guy. If I was feeling mad abrasive, I would've thrown a porno on and rubbed one out right in front of her then hit her with a

Best advice I ever got was from a senior I ran into during my freshmen year. "yo, listen - you can't have ALL the p*ssy. Think about it."

Didn't really make sense to me til months later but it came out of nowhere one night like and next thing I knew I was looking at p*ssy like gas money.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

lames think their lameness is everyones reality and it's not...

Some of these dudes are just hardwired to be beta males. You can give them the game on a silver platter but it wont matter.. they just cant comprehend what being an alpha really is. I told them everything they needed to know in this quote but they wont get it..

When you're an alpha the women would have already noticed you the minute you walk in the room.

You don't have to cold approach when all the chicks in the room already checked you out. You can pick and choose which one to talk to at that point. No guess work involved. Dudes that rely on cold approaching do so cause they have no other options. They not getting any signals of interest from women when they go out. They don't even comprehend that concept. Cold approaching is like throwing a hail mary.. should be a last resort and not your first go to play.

Lames and beta males see a good looking guy like me walk up and talk to a bad chick at a bar and think I'm like them just cold approaching... nope... They missed the subtle interaction when I first entered the room. Shorty eye fukked me from the bar. At that point I don't even have to go over right away. I already know i got her anytime I'm ready for the the rest of the night. Preferably after the losers she is not into buy her few drinks I will swoop in for the kill. She will normally ask why i didnt come save her earlier from lames like the ones in this thread.. If they are lucky they got her number a dinner date set up for later in the week. I would get dome in the parking lot from the same chick that night.

 

[knickscrusaderm]

100% correct. I had to learn this myself. I was in my own head too much. Most people are in their own worlds and really could care less that some random guy got rejected by a female. Hell, 10mins later they probably done forgot about you and wont ever think about you again.

I watched a vid on this subject once (ill post it if i can remember). It was basicly a short clip of a guy doing crazy random shyt on a college campus. Out in the open outside. Nobody cared tho. People walked by, glanced for a second and went on about their day with 0 fukks given. Its really important to learn to get out of your own head. You can become a prisoner to your own thoughts.

Post that vid for me if you remember breh. Sounds interesting.

 

[McPiff]

i used to be against that cold approach shyt until last summer.

Mind you i recently got off a 6 year relationship. One evening i was bored at home waiting for somebody to send me wav files of a project im working on, so i decided to get in the whip, ride through the city and find a girl to smash.

I parked my whip, and started walking in the streets enjoying the sunset when i saw a beautiful black girl texting somebody, i said
:" hey im still waiting on that text you know"
she smiled, asked her name and what was her plans for the next hour. She said "well i'm......and i interrupted her and said you're coming with me"
we went to a bar, had a few drinks, went back to her crib. we smashed and i bounced.
never heard from her again, didnt even want to ask her number.

i guess im trying to say that cold approach can be very very effective if you dont think too much, you gotta have a nice mouthpiece though and be witty and fun i guess but thats really all it takes. And i'm an average looking nicca.

 

[PhonZhi]

Post that vid for me if you remember breh. Sounds interesting.

 

[PhonZhi]

i used to be against that cold approach shyt until last summer.

Mind you i recently got off a 6 year relationship. One evening i was bored at home waiting for somebody to send me wav files of a project im working on, so i decided to get in the whip, ride through the city and find a girl to smash.

I parked my whip, and started walking in the streets enjoying the sunset when i saw a beautiful black girl texting somebody, i said
:" hey im still waiting on that text you know"
she smiled, asked her name and what was her plans for the next hour. She said "well i'm......and i interrupted her and said you're coming with me"
we went to a bar, had a few drinks, went back to her crib. we smashed and i bounced.
never heard from her again, didnt even want to ask her number.

i guess im trying to say that cold approach can be very very effective if you dont think too much, you gotta have a nice mouthpiece though and be witty and fun i guess but thats really all it takes. And i'm an average looking nicca.

Beautiful

 

[It is a mystery]

Cold approaching.can work but it is easily the least effective method of getting at a woman. Trying to get at women in general numbers game but with cold approach has the lowest % chance of working.
There isn't anything wrong with striking a conversation with random people however.
If the opportunity arises itself then go for it but depending on cold approaches or expecting anything all to arise from them is an extraordinarily unwise idea
Meeting people through social circles or at social gatherings will all always have a higher chance of success than a cold approach

 

[TRY GOD]

i used to be against that cold approach shyt until last summer.

Mind you i recently got off a 6 year relationship. One evening i was bored at home waiting for somebody to send me wav files of a project im working on, so i decided to get in the whip, ride through the city and find a girl to smash.

I parked my whip, and started walking in the streets enjoying the sunset when i saw a beautiful black girl texting somebody, i said
:" hey im still waiting on that text you know"
she smiled, asked her name and what was her plans for the next hour. She said "well i'm......and i interrupted her and said you're coming with me"
we went to a bar, had a few drinks, went back to her crib. we smashed and i bounced.
never heard from her again, didnt even want to ask her number.

i guess im trying to say that cold approach can be very very effective if you dont think too much, you gotta have a nice mouthpiece though and be witty and fun i guess but thats really all it takes. And i'm an average looking nicca.

word

 

[Guile]

No it don't.

 

[McPiff]

word

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

This is the main difference between the guys who dont give a fukk and others. "Others" think too much. "Others" care too much about what she'll think. "Others" assume she already has a man. "Others" assume she gets hollered at constantly. You gotta stop overthinking shyt breh. Be respectful. Smile. Give her a light compliment. Ask her her name. Be direct and to the point.
This is literally my method and its worked many times for me:

Me: (walks up and smile) hey, how are u doing? Can i ask u a question real quick? Whats your name?

Her: Nicole

Me: Hey Nicole, look i saw you across the way and thought u was cute. I just HAD to come say something to you

Her: oh wow, thank you

Me: So ummm, how is your man treating you these days? He's a very lucky guy

I always ask about her man ASAP to get it out the way. I always say it in a way ASSUMING she has one. I do this for 2 reasons: 1) if she does indeed have a man she'll tell me so rite away and ill say bye and go about my business. 2) if she doesnt have a man BUT she isn't feeling me, this question will allow her to "lie" to me by telling me she has one and gving me the sign to leave.

Depending on how she answers and reading her body language, ill go from there

If she tells me she's single i assume she likes what she sees and ill further the convo OR tell her that im in a hurry and could i maybe get her number. Simple

Thats just MY method. It has worked many times and the women have str8 up told me that they loved how aggressive i was when we met. Im giving u feedback str8 from the horses mouth. Women LOVE a confident man. Dude in the vid is on point. Get out of your own head fam.

I didnt make that statement strictly off of what she thinks.
I was making the point that i would treat people based off of how i would want to be treated.

If im grocery shopping, i want to get my food and go. Not have somebody interrupt me by talking.
If im at whole foods looking at food, let me get my food so i can go home and eat.

Thats how i would do women. She at the grocery store to buy food, not to mingle with folks. I dont want nobody talking to me while im tryna grocery shop.