Bumble is reconsidering having women make the first move 🐝 #mouthpiece gang yall ready?

[Apollo Creed]

I mean bumble trash anyways. I used to EAT off bumble heavy 2015-2016. Got back on earlier this year and crickets. Plus women be matching but let that shyt expire

Hinge is still the top dog in the dating app game. I can hop on that and easily get some trim within a couple days. Tinder and bumble, crickets

Tinder is just bots and prostitutes lol

 

[MajesticLion]

"feels like extra work"



haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Are high value men using dating apps to find their wives?

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

What they'll probably do is offer males a premium subscription where they get to message first and their profile is boosted. Women have to reject that profile 3 times and then it never shows up again(for 3 months). Also because the man is paying for the service, it prevents him from being a sex pest and just posting pictures of his dikk to every woman he matches with. He could end up paying for premium only to get banned for violating their TOS.

They know that there's no money to be made off women on these apps. It's men driving their revenue and if men leave the app they lose money. Men are starting to leave online dating because the point of the apps is to keep people on them. They're looking elsewhere for sex. The men who actually write thoughtful messages and put a lot of work into their profiles aren't the ones getting picked unless their looks stand out amongst the competition which is already extremely fierce. I think I read somewhere that for every one woman on these apps there are a minimum of 4 men. You're logging on to compete against life long athletes taller and stronger than you. You're competing against people with STEM backgrounds making 6 figures. You're competing with aspiring male models and actors who are looking for some attention while traveling.

If you aren't at the best version of yourself, you're basically invisible on these apps.

 

[Ahadi]

Feminism in a nutshell. What was supposed to be empowering has become a burden.

welcome to the the world.

“iTs ToO mUcH wORk”

“iTs A bUrDeN”

 

[Po pimp]

Idk who uses Bumble but I do. They even have prewritten responses so women don't have to type shyt just send the prewritten response to start a convo.

Damn for real? LMAO

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

If you leave the "approach" up to women....the only guys getting action are the guys that get love regardless; top 10% maybe top 15%.

So basically all the women will cluster around the same dudes and will get zero positive reinforcement. Ugly/average guy will gas you up but Top Shelf Breh just gets to be more choosy.

 

[DaSk8D00D]

Considering that they actively marketed themselves to women who were adverse to men making the first move....changing this feature in theory would make these women leave the app because of men initiating conversations.

A lot of these apps really over reached with their attempts to monetize.... Had they started selling ad space to restaurants,bars,local/live events etc. ( shyt that people go and do on dates) it would've been more conducive to their user base.


While it's not her fault they had a stupid model to begin with... it's a good chance she's going to fukk it up

It’s actually kind of baffling that there isn’t more partnerships like that with dating apps. Like integrate with Yelp or restaurants and give out first date coupons or suggest date locations

They all tried to SaaS the fukk out of their monetization model and it’s killing the dating apps. shyt was not like this 10 years ago

 

[Unemployed GM]

Don’t blame the women for this. These are just corporations, trying to commoditize your access to p*ssy. Yall need to stop falling for this hustle.

 

[voiture]

Dating apps is sausage fest. I avoid them....this basically means they need more men to keep the app relevant. Most women won't need an app to get a man

 

[Scipio]

The women aren't messaging enough men, causing many men to abandon the app. There's a recent undercurrent of men telling each other to get off the apps because of this kind of thing. The app makes its money from men subscribing, so when guys leeave Bumble suffers financially.

 

[Scipio]

What the hell do these women want

So it was empowering now it's too much work to do what they start convos with 'hey'

Women always feel it's backwards to initiate contact with a man (unless she's blown away by him or he's extremely high status in some way, like a celebrity or something.) They wanted the overflow of unwanted messages to decrease but don't want to actually initiate anything.

 

[Scipio]

omg they literally can’t even be bothered to type “ what’s up” talking about it’s too much pressure

They mistakenly think we give a shyt about what their actual message says. They could say literally anything at all. As long as we connect and she wants to talk it's all to the good.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

 

[L. Deezy]

Never been on there, but its better if the women make the first move. dont change that shyt.