Dude was probably trying to fukk her overmiss out on marriage because you won't sign a piece of paper
Dude was probably trying to fukk her overmiss out on marriage because you won't sign a piece of paper
Dude was probably trying to fukk her over
Yep, that's a good theory. The family isn't interested in losing institutional wealth. The fact that she took it this far tells me that she wasn't expecting this outcome, thought he was going to cave.
You ever have a conversation with these females? I'm not saying all or even *most* women are in it to get man with money, but lots of them look at it like making yourself look more desirable to very successful men. A CEO isn't marrying a waitress. I remember once at a bar listening to this crowd of sorority looking chicks going in on one of their friends for not taking school seriously and one of htem said "she wants to marry some rich guy but you have to have something to offer him." All the rest of them were "I know, right!"
Women are trying to marry up so they figure whatever level they're on they'll get a man doing bigger numbers.
Yeah but it was probably a bad deal.How, HE was the one that wanted HER to sign the pre-nup!!!!
How is it a bad deal? The gist of a prenup is basically you don't take anything I have when I come into marriage. I don't see how in 2016 a man not doing this. I can't believe women actually have the nerve to get mad when a man asks to sign one these days. If a woman doesn't build wealth with her spouse, she doesn't deserve half his shyt.Yeah but it was probably a bad deal.
shes got a phd in electrical engineering from priceton i find it hard to believe shes a gold digger
notice it was her 8000 deposit on the venue
if anything she was marrying some dude below her grade
that wanted to be taken care of for the rest of his life in the event of a divorce
This! I wouldn't be surprised if she was marrying a wealthy cac that comes from money. His parents probably were like she not living off our money. Get that pre nup. People change when they get married. They get comfortable. Doesn't matter how much money she makes now. But what if she just stops working and is like fukk it. A pre nup keeps a chick in line. Remember the male is the only one that takes a hit when in divorce.
Lol knowing chicks with a masters who want rich husbands isn't the same as a chick with a fukking PHD in engineering at a top like 5 college in the US
No one just pursues a PHD just because they like learning and education with the objective of finding a rich guy to take care of them
Good point but You assume all women are like that. I've dated or messed around with rich guys and they are trash. And Met a lot of engineers and wealthy guys when I lived in Florida and they're huge douche bags. I'd much rather be around and date a guy with nothing to help him build than one who has everything and a lack of character. Generally those type of men are born into money and make you feel like shyt for not thinking on the same plane as them.. They hate the poor and middle class and look down on people who've gone through some struggle and are Extremely classist. A rich dude born into money has nothing to offer a women or me characteristically or outside of money who has not been born into that and worked hard & gone to school to get where she is. Us Women are emotional and need emotional support to some degree, a guy like that can not offer that to a women in the way say a dude who came from a similar class & culture & struggled through school to get a masters or PHD can.
My aunt came from a family with 7 siblings and a single mother and became a nurse and is married to a wealthy dude & there marriage is horrible. They don't have an understanding of eachother or view most things the same because their upbringing was so different class wise and her husband is a classist a$$hole and they butt heads a lot
So the Chick in OP might or might not be a gold digger but a true gold digger would've signed the pre nup anyways and gone through with the marriage hoping & betting on things going smoothly & letting him take care of her while married but instead she said fukk it and didn't agree to it and called it off
i don't understand what's so hard to understand about this
people in here kept bringing up her job like it means anything. if the dude wanted a prenup, and she wouldn't sign, common sense tells you is he must likely be in a whole different playing field than she is financially. if dude came from old money, to them, she's basically working class.
I know gold diggers who have masters and make 6 figures.
. Why do coli nikkas say shyt about shyt when they have no life experience outside of their momma's/thot baby mamas house? Most Asian marriages are for life, and Asian women are some of the most desired women on the planet next to white women when it comes to marriage....SMH @ dumbass nikkas. Get a passport nikka.i should have explained further. assuming dude wasn't asking for some kind of ridiculous agreement, i hope she really weighed the consequences of her actions. most marriages fail and a lot of women have trouble finding a serious relationship to begin with and this bytch is just throwing one away because of 'principal.' That is her right, but principal won't keep you warm at night, and won't start a family with you either. i don't really care but that's my 2 cents.