Brehs, can you take a woman serious if you smashed her on the first night? Like eventually end up in a relationship?

[Ghost Utmost]

I was always most interested in training her up right.

I have kept a couple chicks that was already ready the first time we were alone.

I was able to get them to do what I wanted them to do during our time. If I force a woman to do anything it will be:

wake up. Time for class (college years) or work.

you've been drinking. Give me your keys

leave that person alone completely. They are gonna get your ass locked up

Positive things. And also bedroom things. But it definitely can "work". I'm my case 4,5,6 years is the timeframe.. not growing old together (now that I'm old.. kinda wish I woulda been more concerned with long long term).

Then there's the other side of that coin. I had to WATCH them bishes. I knew they were wild and if they got drunk enough they might do whatever.

Last little fling I had, wasn't the first night. It was after much talking and a movie date. Next we Hallmark Movie Channel and Chilled at her crib. With her teenage daughter in the next room in a small apartment. Before I even got in my car to head over, she swore that there was no way we were gonna smush cause of the daughter.

Okay. But she's in a tank top and short shorts with no undergarments when I get there. Starts pouring shots. Wanna go finish the movie in my room.

That was all fine except I started to get the feeling I was being added to HER roster. Too many male homies and a personal trainer (who's gym was at his apartment complex) and a baby daddy kept coming up.

Had to bush

 

[JQ Legend]

Ironic part is some of y’all gone meet a woman who don’t let you smash for weeks/months and U gone think that’s just how she is with everyone. While there’s dudes before you who considered her not relationship material because she let him smash right away

Just like chicks y’all discarded for that same reason gone make some dude wait and he gone assume dudes like you don’t exist

 

[Gloxina]

I would tell my daughter not to attach emotions to sex, that's how many women end up getting used.

And while I wouldn't encourage her to be promiscuous, I would also tell her not to deal with insecure men concerned about her body count either.

IT IS NATURAL TO ATTACH EMOTIONS TO SEX. Literally how our hormones are set up. That’s what makes us bond. Sharing your body isn’t like shaking hands. You are opening yourself up to potential stds, pregnancy and being used for your body. A smart women doesn’t risk all that simply because of “attraction”.

It takes age, experience, and heartbreak to begin separating emotions from sex. Like a sex worker.




Those emotions are what ties you to your partner and the baby you birth that was created between two people.

 

[Shadow King]

Ironic part is some of y’all gone meet a woman who don’t let you smash for weeks/months and U gone think that’s just how she is with everyone. While there’s dudes before you who considered her not relationship material because she let him smash right away

Just like chicks y’all discarded for that same reason gone make some dude wait and he gone assume dudes like you don’t exist

Or I'd know games are being played and move on.

There's a planet between "first date" and "months".

 

[BaldingSoHard]

The Army lost a general

Bruh I'm legit heartbroken about it myself. But can't raise my son in a broken home so...

 

[MaxPain]

Can’t really blame her I just look that damn good.There’s some good women just eager to escape with daddy.

 

[KingBeez]

I threw a 2 day grad party in my college apartment, my homie ended up smashing a girl first night and they became a couple for 3 years. I’d say that’s not normal though, but sometimes that chemistry is too undeniable to follow an antiquated rule, especially if you’re young.

On the flip side, I’ve had women who just wanted to fukk or knew that they wanted to fukk me first night end up trying to cuff me. I know that “I don’t usually do this” shyt is usually BS, but there are still women who will do some shyt they won’t ordinarily do for the right man

 

[3rdWorld]

I've never been mad at any woman for giving it to me..

 

[Silkk]

Hell yeah, Especially if that shyt fire

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Insecure babble

 

[Wildin]

@Born2BKing

 

[Born2BKing]

@Born2BKing

Nah playa

 

[010101]

WUTLESS & IN A RUSH*

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I haven't had p*ssy in over a decade.

I'm at the point where if a woman even HINTS at giving me some p*ssy, I might propose to her.

 

[Shadow King]

Bruh I'm legit heartbroken about it myself. But can't raise my son in a broken home so...

Shack up and leave the contracts in the bushes

But I understand......I understand enough lol