Brehs, can you take a woman serious if you smashed her on the first night? Like eventually end up in a relationship?

[Shadow King]

Based on these responses I don't wanna hear nothing else about wifing hoes...

 

[Shadow King]

I bedded my fiance the day I met her.

The Army lost a general

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Married her

 

[Depreciating Asset]

I know a few couples who smashed first night and are married now for 15 years with 2 kids. They are solid and decent human beings (for all I know) who had immediate chemistry and acted on it. Having rules like this limits your options. You always have to use discernment. Smashing the first night is a data point that should be factored in to your assessment but it shouldn't disqualify.

 

[Trav]

Can she take you serious?

 

[mag357]

Based on these responses I don't wanna hear nothing else about wifing hoes...

I just said something similar.

We're getting closer everyday to the Male gender completely being honest and just flat out admitting they Love Hoez.

I know they do.
Not loving Hoez publicly came from way back in the day.
As things have changed, nikkaz are etting more comfortable openly being with chix with loose morals.
They're more fun.
I get it.

Y'all f*kin retarded tho.
Picture a smart man wifing a chik that let him inside her body the first time they meet.
That's "Sucka nikka", "not having alotta options" ass nikka actions

 

[Shadow King]

I just said something similar.

We're getting closer everyday to the Male gender completely being honest and just flat out admitting they Love Hoez.

I know they do.
Not loving Hoez publicly came from way back in the day.
As things have changed, nikkaz are etting more comfortable openly being with chix with loose morals.
They're more fun.
I get it.

Y'all f*kin retarded tho.
Picture a smart man wifing a chik that let him inside her body the first time they meet.
That's "Sucka nikka", "not having alotta options" ass nikka actions

Some of that, but more delusion than anything.

"B bu but she didn't do it before, I'm that dude she couldn't control herself"

Ego and pride...

 

[mag357]

Some of that, but more delusion than anything.

"B bu but she didn't do it before, I'm that dude she couldn't control herself"

Ego and pride...

Oow true true. Definitely.

 

[Braman]

RIP Kay Slay. His skit on Come home with me. ‘The first time you meet a chick you gotta slap the shyt outta her. So she can never say ‘Cam you don’t treat me like you used to’

Obviously not to be taken literally but you never wanna be too good to a chick in the beginning. Bc in women’s deluded, trauma filled brain, she’ll immediately start thinking: ‘Damn I like how he treat me, if I fukk him he gon change. So ….lemme not fukk him’. Also women typically KNOW they ain’t shyt. So if you come off as ‘too nice’ she gon be afraid to hurt you with all her ain’t-shytness. She’ll be afraid to show her hoeness bc you’re putting her on a pedestal she don’t want

All my relationships started with us having sexual activity very early. Taking my time trying to do it ‘right’ never did. It’s almost counterintuitive, but is what it is. It ain’t our fault, it’s their fault. Gotta play the game

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Or, I dunno. They value their sexual health, reproductive health, understand that they will become emotionally attached after sex so know that it isn’t wise to do that just because someone took her on one date…

Y’all literally cannot complain about women being loose and having crazy body counts and then say it’s cool to spread her legs after a date or two.

Literally one of the dumbest things a chick could do.

No Coli dad would tell his daughter that men would value her if she’s letting cats hit after one dinner because of “attraction” lmao

Exercise no self control because someone is cute and can form complete sentences

Y’all wouldn’t lend your car or to a complete stranger after one conversation or allow them in your home, but it’s normal for a woman to let someone inside her BODY because of one positive interaction? I fukking swear

I would tell my daughter not to attach emotions to sex, that's how many women end up getting used.

And while I wouldn't encourage her to be promiscuous, I would also tell her not to deal with insecure men concerned about her body count either.

 

[Savvir]

To be fair, you might be the only dude that made him comfortable enough to fukk so early.

 

[PatCake]

Everyone woman I sleep with at first try automatically goes into the 'hook up' list.

I've been around long enough to know that the regular guy next door is really not that different from me. I was just at the right place at the right time. If it wasn't me, it'd be someone else.

 

[Born2BKing]

Some of that, but more delusion than anything.

"B bu but she didn't do it before, I'm that dude she couldn't control herself"

Ego and pride...

Yep and the case is usually that bytch is just a hoe and you not special. Well they kinda are because you the nikka who turned the hoe into a housewife.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

If you believe in love at 1st sight, then yeah, there's no reason to not take her seriously.

Now if you are on that Steve Harvey shyt, then

 

[JordanwiththeWiz]

I’m married to someone I smashed first night. Honestly the chicks that made me wait the sex was wack and sex is such a deal breaker in a relationship. If you got a high sex drive, you should be with someone who has an high sex drive. If you got a low sex drive be with someone who got a low sex drive. People who think opposite end up in dead bedroom relationships whether it’s the men or women feeling self conscious because the person they love don’t wanna have sex with them that just leads to resentment and cheating.