Brehs, can you take a woman serious if you smashed her on the first night? Like eventually end up in a relationship?

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Tricky question, because how women respond varies from individual to individual, some people have to jump walls to get p*ssy that some just have to crack a joke to get. What would make me not take a woman serious is her getting hit by dusty individual, but not by me.
 

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It depends on the details. If she is really infatuated and we have a good vibe vs she just getting slid out of habit.

Making me wait is not some guarantee that I would take you serious anyway. Depending on your underlying reason for it (trying to put me in a fallback/cleanup man position) it's grounds for dismissal just as quickly as the "easy" ones.
Why not? It doesn't necessarily follow that she's pernicious.

Women who make you wait are the real red flag IMO they will try to use sex to control the relationship.
I’ve done it before..

What you need to know is two things

1. Most women of our era will let a guy smash on the first night.. he just has to be the ‘right’ kind of guy

2. Me smashing on the 1st night just lets me know that she was feeling the boy and couldn’t resist

I honestly would be more pissed off if she didn’t let me smash on the first night but was letting other guys hit
Yall get it

Any man writing off a woman for being easy in 2024 is fooling themselves.
 

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Yes. Doesn’t matter if it’s first night or 3 months later. If we don’t mesh well after fukking time isn’t gonna change that.
 

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Im more likely to stick with a lady that I fukked on the first date than I would one that tries to make me wait some arbitrary time period, like 3 months
 

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Her actions after we smash would determine whether she's wife material or not.

I'm old. I haven't got time to waste.
 
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95% of the women ive known
in biblical terms gave me the p*ssy
the first night and they have stuck
around to this day.
I believe women need to fukk
as soon as possible because
men will always show you after
fukkin.
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If the mood is right & the woman is really horny on the day of the "first date" most women will fukk on the first date.

Most of my dates are a fun activity & drinks (cocktails). Many women are relaxed, wide open & horny at the end of the date. I had many first date sex from dating apps.
 

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Why not? It doesn't necessarily follow that she's pernicious.

Women who make you wait are the real red flag IMO they will try to use sex to control the relationship.
Negged for making me look up pernicious :gucci:

Double neg for that being the wrong word to use in that sentence :gucci:

And to answer OP, yes I would. Just because she made you wait don’t mean she made everyone wait. Pretty sure majority of women 50 and under have let at least 1 dude smash within the first day or 2 of meetin. Doesn’t make her less of a good woman :manny:

I'm not insecure and I don't live in the 19th century anymore. That means I don't worry about other people and I don't have double standards when it comes to having sex
If she lets you hit on the first date, that means you let her hit on the first date too. So either you're both consenting adults or you're both sluts and not relationship material :yeshrug:
Be 124+ years old brehs :flabbynsick:
 

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Dont think i could take a girl serious that's down to smash on the first date regardless of how gd the date goes, same way she probably wouldn't take a guy serious that simps on the first date
 
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Would you worry about all the other nikkas who prolly hit it first night? Or do you think you just that nikka, so it was prolly the first time it happened. Lettuce discuss. :jbhmm:


If they not fukkin me first day.

I don't want ol girl at all.

Bush any female declining intimacy.
That goes for a female. You fukk'n with.
you try to get active with.
you get declined.
just grab yo shyt and go.


Fdb.


If she not pushing you on the bed,.... with that female play shove.

fdb


If you always make every move after 14 days.
or you had to always call.
With no proactive phone call from her.

fdb.

Move around.

Stop being an abused sucker.




Art Barr
 
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Keep thinking that a woman making you wait means she's a good one or the relationship is guaranteed to last :mjlol:


This.

Ol girl is a declining intimacy abuser.

Bush that bytch.
Any chick declining intimacy is an abuser.

Move around and never talk to her again.



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Why not? It doesn't necessarily follow that she's pernicious.

Women who make you wait are the real red flag IMO they will try to use sex to control the relationship.
:skip: :wtf:



Or, I dunno. They value their sexual health, reproductive health, understand that they will become emotionally attached after sex so know that it isn’t wise to do that just because someone took her on one date…

Y’all literally cannot complain about women being loose and having crazy body counts and then say it’s cool to spread her legs after a date or two.

Literally one of the dumbest things a chick could do.

No Coli dad would tell his daughter that men would value her if she’s letting cats hit after one dinner because of “attraction” lmao

Exercise no self control because someone is cute and can form complete sentences :laff:

Y’all wouldn’t lend your car or to a complete stranger after one conversation or allow them in your home, but it’s normal for a woman to let someone inside her BODY because of one positive interaction? I fukking swear :deadrose:
 

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Most of the time when I was single it’s smash on first or second date. The way I was told one time was if y’all have had any kind of real communication at all she already knows whether she wants to fukk or not. It’s just don’t be weird in person and make her feel comfortable. Dudes talk there way out of p*ssy way too often.
 
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