Exactly. There are some good brothers and sisters here that actually post good and helpful information. I come and go as I please around these Coli streets. To be honest the men in real life that I have discussions with about some of the things posted here have flat out told me to stay off here because they don’t know Brothers that hate women like that and that are happy in real life. And that is coming from straight up Alpha men. I just filter through the bs and enjoy my life. I’m not desperate and my life is good.
Brehettes, why is 35 such a skressful age?
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Exactly. There are some good brothers and sisters here that actually post good and helpful information. I come and go as I please around these Coli streets. To be honest the men in real life that I have discussions with about some of the things posted here have flat out told me to stay off here because they don’t know Brothers that hate women like that and that are happy in real life. And that is coming from straight up Alpha men. I just filter through the bs and enjoy my life. I’m not desperate and my life is good.
I don’t think these stats have anything to do with age. Not like after 40 y’all just randomly turn into tyc00ns and entrepreneurs.
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That sounds good in theory.
But, we know that after most women cross 30, the pressure is real.
You got married well before 30. You knew you didn’t want to be one of those 35, 36, 37, etc. year old women still trying to squeeze into freakum dresses to hit the club or responding to creepy ass nikkas on dating sites.
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I wasn’t even a 20,21, or 22 year old that did that. I didn’t get married because I was afraid to be single, idk if you posted here back then but I was always against marriage until I found the right person, I even broke off a previous engagement because I didn’t feel like it was right. I’ve always done things my own way and didn’t give into anyone’s pressure. Because I knew that if things went bad none of those people pressuring me were going to have to deal with it, I was. Even if I was single at 45, I would still do things the same exact way.
I know that’s the last thing you want to hear but it’s the truth. I hope all women do that and don’t rush into things because if they end up with a man that beats and cheats on them, everyone is going to be quiet and moved on to the next target and they’re going to have to live in that hell all alone.
I wasn’t even a 20,21, or 22 year old that did that. I didn’t get married because I was afraid to be single, idk if you posted here back then but I was always against marriage until I found the right person, I even broke off a previous engagement because I didn’t feel like it was right. I’ve always done things my own way and didn’t give into anyone’s pressure. Because I knew that if things went bad none of those people pressuring me were going to have to deal with it, I was. Even if I was single at 45, I would still do things the same exact way.
I hope all women do that and don’t rush into things because if they end up with a man that beats and cheats on them, everyone is going to be quiet and moved on to the next target and they’re going to have to live in that hell all alone.
I’ve been here since the beginning. I remember when you got married. Lol.
All I’m saying is you wouldn’t have continued to turn done marriage proposals the closer you got to 35.
A lot of women talked the same talk you’re talking when they were in their 20s. And they’re now 37, 38, etc. feeling that window closing and are in desperation mode.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
You clearly don’t know me
I have never been afraid of being single and I’ve never felt lonely. I’ve never been the type of person to seek men out, I didn’t even want kids UNTIL I found out I was pregnant. I was totally against it. I was never ever ever afraid of not getting married or finding someone, I’ve always been afraid of getting married and getting cheated on, or abused, or murdered by my spouse. That’s what kept me like 
about marriage. But of course everyone thinks they know everything just like you’ll just say “everyone says that, you would have thought different the closer to 30” but I wouldn’t have. But I know you don’t want to hear that. No one ever does, especially men.
IT'S WHEN WOMEN STOCK STARTS TO PLUMMET. NOT ALL BUT SOME.
You clearly don’t know me
I see. You’re built differently than most woman with that mindset. I can respect that.
Congrats on the baby.
As a woman in her 30’s I disagree with 90% of the comments in this thread.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I’ve always been a realist when it comes to relationships. That’s probably why I’ve been so successful
Thank you.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Liar!!! I can feel the bitterness and loneliness seeping through your post!!! You’re lonely admit it!
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I dont see alot of women in mid thirties stressing.
I use fb or personal life as a measuring stick cause very few women on the coli are 30 let along 35.
But most woman i kno 35 are happy with life
They not over stressing
I use fb or personal life as a measuring stick cause very few women on the coli are 30 let along 35.
But most woman i kno 35 are happy with life
They not over stressing
You’re rightLiar!!! I can feel the bitterness and loneliness seeping through your post!!! You’re lonely admit it!
. I sometimes stay up at night sobbing into my pillow at how I wasted my 20’s not finding a man because you know my happiness is based on having a husband and children. Now I have to settle for men I wouldn’t have given the time of day to when I was younger and more attractive. This 30+ life is so hard. I really wish I had known how my life would turn out ...Was that overkill or maybe I should have added more? Lol
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Liar!!! I can feel the bitterness and loneliness seeping through your post!!! You’re lonely admit it!
U got 2 kids now?