ITT: Women and their simp attack dogs purposely missing the point and making it about career mentorship, when we know damn well that’s not what the tweet in the OP was about.
Then wondering why productive black men are starting to say “fukk it” and stop taking the “community” and conversations like this seriously.
She said “black boys are hurting” (an issue that’s addressed by fathers, typically). She did not say “black men need to offer mentorship to young black men in their career fields.” No logical or productive black man would have an issue with that statement.
The “solution” to the issue in the OP is what brehs are saying it is. Quit spreading your legs for fukking bums then crying to the “corny” responsible men that you curved about the outcome.
There was a thread on here a few weeks back about a clip that went viral, where a young black woman on a podcast was talking about how she lets bums hit immediately and she makes the men who she believes would be good partners wait.
People in that thread and even the comments of that video were talking about how it somehow makes sense, but that thought process proves our point.
It’s not about a lack of upstanding black men in the community. It’s about women purposely choosing to spread their legs for bums because “he can’t hurt them” (lie) which is really code for “he won’t hold me to any sort of standards like the responsible men will”.
They know who the productive men are and what they look like, they avoid them because they don’t want to be led. Then when shyt gets tough, it leads to tweets like that and threads like this.
And brehs are starting to catch on, thanks to black men, ironically, mentoring other black men.
Exactly
A mentor is there to give you advice on topics you may not be exposed to or guide you down certain paths. A mentor is not there every day keeping you on the right track, you meet with them sporadically.
Black boys that are "hurting" dont need a mentor what they need is a father. Like a lot of young men fresh out of college i thought i was going to go out here and help some of these boys who need to see a positive black man in the community. Well, let me tell you, i learned what a lot of black men know. The mothers are not looking for you to be a person who talks to their kid from time to time and lead by example, what they are looking for is a step father. I was legit asked what i had planned for someone for the summer because he needed to stay busy and she didnt have much money to provide the experience he should have. WHERE THAT BOY DAD AT?
all they are lookin for is another transactional relationship(this time giving up nothing.A mentor
) to absolve them of their responsibility
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