I’m not saying the man has to be prepared to have a stay at home wife by 30.Regardless of race most men 18- 30 years old do not earn enough to take care of a household on 1 income. It takes 2 incomes and working and building together and young black men are absolutely ready to lead dual income households at that age. Only BW are stuck in this Disney fantasy where they meet a desirable guy already self made, faithful, and successful and where they don't have to work or contribute financially. Getting married younger is why other groups get ahead. The earlier you combine resources the more the money you save and invest compounds over time.
HOW MANY young Black men are actually dating FOR MARRIAGE at 25, 27, 30? How many are sitting with their peer group saying “Hey yall, time to get married!”
Women, especially young, will follow you off the edge of a damn cliff if you just make some stupid promises. Let alone actually tell her you want to marry her and follow through.