Beating Your Kids Means You Have The Slave Mentality Instilled In You (We Need NEW Techniques FOLKS)

[marcuz]

I'm thinking that a lot of Black people just belong in bondage. Their minds are just… warped and conditioned to be ruled by whips and chains. It's like a hereditary thing or something.

negged for having c00ning deep in your bone marrow

 

[Pifferry]

Why do people on here act like only black people whoop their kids?
I know people of every race who either whoop their children or got whooped (and that includes whites contrary to thecoli's belief that all white people are liberal hippy parenting magazine no violence types).



And I believe it does next to nothing to deter wrong behavior

 

[Wildin]

I think it's the difference between when a player is hurt and when a player is injured. A player who's hurt will recover quickly and can still play. A player who is injured is handicapped for the foreseeable future. You hit your kids for discipline, and to Temporarily hurt them to show them cause and effect. The day you start injuring your kids is when it's abuse.

Throwing a Chancla at a kid might be no biggie
But throwing a brick is

Also your kid isn't your punching bag or stress ball. They didn't ask to be here so don't take your frustration out on them.

Dap. I like your description of a hurt player vs an injured player, then your pointing out that a chancleta is ok, whereas a brick is not.

We need the concrete things, ie chancelta in, brick out. Because people are beating around the bush and not describing what method is acceptable, ie belt lashes on the back and butt, arms and legs, slaps on the back of the head and across the face.---this is what we need. if we were going to create a manual on how to beat your child or what is acceptable we need concrete descriptions not just jargon like "assaulting or battering is obviously too much but the standard whoopin or a few strikes to instill fear yet convey caring........"

 

[onelastdeath]

Dap. I like your description of a hurt player vs an injured player, then your pointing out that a chancleta is ok, whereas a brick is not.

We need the concrete things, ie chancelta in, brick out. Because people are beating around the bush and not describing what method is acceptable, ie belt lashes on the back and butt, arms and legs, slaps on the back of the head and across the face.---this is what we need. if we were going to create a manual on how to beat your child or what is acceptable we need concrete descriptions not just jargon like "assaulting or battering is obviously too much but the standard whoopin or a few strikes to instill fear yet convey caring........"

There should never be malicious intent behind disciplining your child. Period. That's Pretty much it

 

[Wildin]

Why do people on here act like only black people whoop their kids?
I know people of every race who either whoop their children or got whooped (and that includes whites contrary to thecoli's belief that all white people are liberal hippy parenting magazine no violence types).



And I believe it does next to nothing to deter wrong behavior

i dont know how my peoples who are of asian decent got whooped. To this day they wont tell me. I know of a few instances where they got their ass whooped, like their mom called them in the house and their dad came home and shut the door and the next day they didnt say shyt...Pretty much every demographic of people outside of asian/pacific islander would disclose what happened to them i.e. "Dad punched me" "mom through the dvd player at me" "I got hit with a paddle" "Pops used an extension cord" "Dad had a piece of wood with holes in it" "house shoe" "mom choked and slapped me" "pulled my pants down and spanked my bare ass" "waited til I got out of the shower...." "woke me up...."

my asian people never disclosed any details ever. They didnt get in trouble often but when they did They also never spoke ill of their parents, got good grades and ended up doing well in life. I can only think of one exception and he is in jail for being a dumb ass

 

[Wildin]

There should never be malicious intent behind disciplining your child. Period. That's Pretty much it

i get that. then again im educated and understand was malice is. To a young single mother, or young father who didnt have a father of his own yet is faced with the task of having to discipline his child. Say a child is given a bowl of oatmeal, but he was wants pancakes. Cries, throws tantrum. The child throws the bowl of oatmeal getting it all over the floor, table and during the event throws the spoon which strikes the father (in on his shirt, no bodily harm).

#2. You or your spouse tell your child who is watching tv that you're disappointed in their recent progress report and to turn the tv off and go do some homework and their expectation until their grades go up is that they wont be watching tv or playing videogames. Your child stands up says "SHUT THE fukk UP!!!!!!" then throws the remote at you/your spouse, and you/your spouse ducks right in time and instead of hitting them in the face/head the remote hits the tv behind them cracking the screen.
What reaction is acceptable from the father at this point?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I'm probably gonna beat my kids. Not for everything, but when they really fukk up.

There are levels.

Besides, all the talking makes kids think they can argue and logic their way outta stuff.

They need to learn respect. Adults and children are not on the same level.

this is crazy "logic"

 

[Ronnie Lott]

My dude once the words "wait until ur father gets home" hit.

Immediately I go clean my room, do all my homework , do whatever chores I had to do, then I take my ass to sleep. Hoping the whole situation was a dream.

This shyt is actually pretty sad

 

[Ronnie Lott]

i get that. then again im educated and understand was malice is. To a young single mother, or young father who didnt have a father of his own yet is faced with the task of having to discipline his child. Say a child is given a bowl of oatmeal, but he was wants pancakes. Cries, throws tantrum. The child throws the bowl of oatmeal getting it all over the floor, table and during the event throws the spoon which strikes the father (in on his shirt, no bodily harm).

#2. You or your spouse tell your child who is watching tv that you're disappointed in their recent progress report and to turn the tv off and go do some homework and their expectation until their grades go up is that they wont be watching tv or playing videogames. Your child stands up says "SHUT THE fukk UP!!!!!!" then throws the remote at you/your spouse, and you/your spouse ducks right in time and instead of hitting them in the face/head the remote hits the tv behind them cracking the screen.
What reaction is acceptable from the father at this point?

Don't beat the shyt out of them

 

[3rdWorld]

Ever wonder where today's young thug skinny jean generation gets their fakkitry from? They are being raised by 70's and 80's babies who hated getting beat, and refuse to beat their own kids..

 

[hypo666]

Beatings don't work, you telling me all the hardcore criminals in prison their parents never laid a hand on them? The reality is it's the total opposite, their parents were not doubt overly zealous with the belt, fist, and maybe boot. Beating your children doesn't make them respect you either, they fear you and later in life they resent you and don't give two shyts when sancho is slapping you around at the old folks home and you are drowning in your own piss and shyt.

My dad used to hit me, Iam white by the way, what I hated the most ,was my mother telling me to go upstairs after I had done whatever I had done, and then waiting hours for him to get home, when he finally did get home, I would listen to my mother telling in exaggerated terms what I had done, making him ever angrier ,then he would go upstairs and beat the shyt out of me. It was the waiting I hated most rather than the beating,or when my brother got in trouble and I had to listen to his cries,my younger brother got it worse than me because I was always the 'favourite' ,I just got it more often because I was in trouble more, setting fires, swearing at teachers, fighting.

. I also resented my mother, after he had done, coming into my room and acting all concerned at the bruises on my buttocks and back, and then going after my dad, and being angry with him, saying he had gone too far. What? it was her that wound him up in the first place, he had been at work all day, he had been drinking with his mates in the pub and then comes home to a screeching wife, telling him about his disobedient son..... What did she think was going to happen?

So , what exactly did that teach me? I carried on getting into trouble, and thanks to my genetics by the time I was just 14 I was bigger than my dad, and one time ,he came in my room, after my mothers snitched ,he backhanded me across the mouth ,and I slammed him against a wall and choked,him out,he was going purple when my mother came in and I stopped due to her screams , He never laid a hand on me again(he did my brother though), and I did whatever I wanted, ,he did tell me though,that if I touched him again, he would do me with an iron bar...

I still love my father despite, the feelings I have, but I will never ,ever touch one of my own children,this shyt runs through families, my grandfather was much worse than my dad, my grandad used a dog lead and would beat my father for nothing ,at least I had actually been naughty.The weird thing was,I got on better with my grandad than I did my dad,despite how violent he was, he never touched me. I plan to break the cycle, and if I have a wife, who nags me to beat my child, she will be out on her ass.

So it's not just Black children who get beat. And it is just as'effective' in the results... Why would you hurt a child you feed ,clothe and supposedly love? It has the opposite effect, I never have choked anyone else out apart from my father that one time, If I had been a bit stronger I would have killed him.

 

[Wildin]

this is crazy "logic"

I had to read it a couple of times.

I kind of understand what shes sayin. I never planned on hitting a child, but I was with my nieces and nephews. and Ive taught to them when they first got to that age of comprehension, i taught them "When and adult tells you to do something, you look at them in the eye, say ok, then do it." We'd practice like I'd tell them to point their toys away or do some meaning less task or random even, and tell them why its important to do so "Shows your a good boy who listens" or "When you listen to adults you stay safe and dont get hurt."

Anyway I was watching them and he was chasin my niece who was just under two at the time, you know how those lil toddlers can get movin. I was tellin him "Hey slow down, take a break. You can continue to play with her but not so fast, she isnt as big as you shes going to bump into to something or fall then get hurt" He kept playing, cool at first but slowly went back to the same way he was playin before i told him to stop. So I told him to stop playin and sit down. This dude straight ignored me, I told him again very bluntly and he kept laughin and chasin her just ignoring me like I wasnt there or talkin to him. Then boom she bumped her head and started crying.

Nooooowww he wants to acknowledge me. We went through the entire "What did I tell you?" Speech. I told him to come here and look at me and I slapped his face. I told him why I slapped his face then slapped it again and told him to sit down. After I picked up his sister, I went over and went through the whole "When an adult tells you to do something you look them in the eye, say ok, then do it. Its important to listen to adults because when you listen to them your less likely to get hurt or hurt others."....

Thats was the first and only time Ive had to hit a child.

 

[CinnaSlim]

this is crazy "logic"

Explain or nah.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I'm probably gonna beat my kids. Not for everything, but when they really fukk up.

There are levels.

Besides, all the talking makes kids think they can argue and logic their way outta stuff.

They need to learn respect. Adults and children are not on the same level.

Would it be ok or acceptable for your husband to beat you when you fukk up?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I had to read it a couple of times.

I kind of understand what shes sayin. I never planned on hitting a child, but I was with my nieces and nephews. and Ive taught to them when they first got to that age of comprehension, i taught them "When and adult tells you to do something, you look at them in the eye, say ok, then do it." We'd practice like I'd tell them to point their toys away or do some meaning less task or random even, and tell them why its important to do so "Shows your a good boy who listens" or "When you listen to adults you stay safe and dont get hurt."

Anyway I was watching them and he was chasin my niece who was just under two at the time, you know how those lil toddlers can get movin. I was tellin him "Hey slow down, take a break. You can continue to play with her but not so fast, she isnt as big as you shes going to bump into to something or fall then get hurt" He kept playing, cool at first but slowly went back to the same way he was playin before i told him to stop. So I told him to stop playin and sit down. This dude straight ignored me, I told him again very bluntly and he kept laughin and chasin her just ignoring me like I wasnt there or talkin to him. Then boom she bumped her head and started crying.

Nooooowww he wants to acknowledge me. We went through the entire "What did I tell you?" Speech. I told him to come here and look at me and I slapped his face. I told him why I slapped his face then slapped it again and told him to sit down. After I picked up his sister, I went over and went through the whole "When an adult tells you to do something you look them in the eye, say ok, then do it. Its important to listen to adults because when you listen to them your less likely to get hurt or hurt others."....

Thats was the first and only time Ive had to hit a child.

But you didn't "beat" the child tho