Beating Your Kids Means You Have The Slave Mentality Instilled In You (We Need NEW Techniques FOLKS)

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But you didn't "beat" the child tho

I dont feel I did either. Ive justified it in my mind. Im sure Joe Jackson justified whoopin the black of michael and them's ass. I think many people completely miss the gray area if there is one and either slap them once and thats it (i.e. dont do an effective job) or completely over do it and what I would like to do is find a base to work from some what identify a standard.

like to me obviously 10 smacks on the face or across the head is overdoing it in any situation. Some people are ok with a belt, some people are completely against it. If using a belt is 5 lashes enough? 10? Hell should it vary by age and height/weight. if your kid is 12 and is 5'1 92lbs should you wear him out? if he is 12 and 5'6 1/2 and 145lb can you wear him out?

The more i look into it the more it seems helpless. I hate to tell people to just figure out on their own but theres a lot to look into and consider. I mean is 10 lashes from your 6'5 245lb dad the same as 10 lashes for your 73 year old 5'4 grandma? lots of things to consider.
 
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:noah:... I mean, of course not :skip:
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Spanking/beatings are not child abuse unless you go too far :whoa:
You shouldn't beat them when you are angry or out of anger.

But that's the thing tho. What is your definition of a beating?

Is it ok to whoop a kids ass with a belt or switch and visible marks are left?

I agree thatany parents beat their children out of anger and frustration. Parents take out their bad days and shortcomings on children
 

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But that's the thing tho. What is your definition of a beating?

Is it ok to whoop a kids ass with a belt or switch and visible marks are left?

I agree thatany parents beat their children out of anger and frustration. Parents take out their bad days and shortcomings on children
Belt, extension cord, clanceta, but not a switch. I never got it but I've heard horror stories. :merchant:

Whatever your weapon, you must know how to wield it and when to yield.

I think the idea is to cause pain but not scars. Your not trying to cause as much pain as possible either. That's sadistic.
 

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Well, I know people that beat their kids and the kids still became fukk-ups in life. Or people that beat their kids, the kids grow up being well behaved, and not visiting their parents when they get old.


If you gotta discipline your kids, make sure you state the reason before doing so. If not, your kids gonna hate you when you get older and maybe abandon you when you become senior citizens.
 

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some kids just need a slap or 2. i used to be against whoopings when i was younger(duh) but when i see how some of my family member's kids act i feel like dropkicking them myself. hopefully i can do right from the start so that i never have to lay a finger on my kids. u gotta set that tone from day 1.
 

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If you teach your child how to do right from the jump, you wouldnt have to beat them period.
Beating a child is not gone do no better than teaching them why they shouldnt do something.
And there was slavery in Africa also.
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Foh :camby:

Slavery in africa was essentially being a butler/maid for free. shyt was nothing like here where there were chains and whips involved
 

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We have to find a better way of disciplining our children

Asians don't excessively beat their kids

Neither do Hindus

Blacks and Hispanics beat the crap out of their kids

It's not a good thing to do

It is the slave mentality
 
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