Mr.Forte
Banned
My parents neglected me growing up, so now I neglect them.
Beating Your Kids Means You Have The Slave Mentality Instilled In You (We Need NEW Techniques FOLKS)
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Dreadknox77
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y is that???
G-Zeus
G-Zeus Chrystler...the brehsident
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LOL, you dont have to beat them ever, but you have to be tough.. hit it where it hurts..If you teach your child how to do right from the jump, you wouldnt have to beat them period.
Beating a child is not gone do no better than teaching them why they shouldnt do something.
And there was slavery in Africa also.
get them a ps4.. i they fukk up.. take it away...better than the beats
AntLive1981
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The people that's saying you shouldn't beat your kids at all prolly don't have any kids! Simply talking to them does not always work. You can tell them repeatedly not to do something and they will still do it, especially when they like 2 or 3. There is nothing wrong with a few pops on the butt or the hand to discipline your little ones. I always talk to my son first if he's acting up, then if he doesn't stop being bad he gets a pop. Then I tell him why Daddy popped him and give him a hug. There is a huge difference between simple discipline and abuse. I would never beat the shyt outta my kid.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
I don't know why this thread is so long.
whooping /= beating. Sometimes a child needs a physical correction TO RE-INFORCE/VALIDATE THE INTIAL CORRECTION.
And like @DMP said, y'all need to quit acting like everything black folks do
is because we have the "slave mentality"...it's like y'all heard that in your AA Studies course
and use it everytime you can now...
whooping /= beating. Sometimes a child needs a physical correction TO RE-INFORCE/VALIDATE THE INTIAL CORRECTION.
And like @DMP said, y'all need to quit acting like everything black folks do
is because we have the "slave mentality"...it's like y'all heard that in your AA Studies course
and use it everytime you can now...
DeuceCypherUno
knowledge God
i was whooped as a child, all it did was make me think violence was an appropriate way to handle something and would hit kids in my class for little things
Ronald McDonald
Even in the darkest nights, I'm a MAC for life
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and what's funny is that its mostly 80s babies raising those elementary school kids.
My house had two schools of thought. My mom didn't whoop us unless it was something extreme, and she didn't like it. Most of our punishment centered around some type of privilege being taken away for some length of time. It's not a very effective strategy to discipline a 10 year old, because 10 year olds are easily entertained. I could have fun doing anything. One time I was "forced" to read two books. My mother was an educator so we always had to do some type of reading anyway. I read two books in a few hours, I enjoyed it. It helped instill some type of order, and idea of consequence. I got it, but I didn't really "get it...."
Until my pops got home. My pops, while I was growing up, was a shop owner and a steel worker. Always gone to work, and pretty busy in general. Definitely a no-nonsense type of dude. He's chilled out a lot now that we're all older. We spent insane amounts of time in his shop, working. His way of discipline was with a heavy hand. Swift and strong. No nonsense. The belt came out with the quickness. I've had to get my own switches, etc. I wouldn't say we were abused because we usually deserved the shyt we got whooped for. But it gave me more of an understanding of consequence. You can do whatever you want, but there will be consequences, and they hurt.
Growing up in the 80's and 90's in Gary, I think those whoopings might have been key in keeping me out of a lot of trouble. As a kid/teen I never got into any real trouble, I was always respectful to authority, etc. I didn't grow up thinking I was getting whoopins because they hated me or none of that. I think the balance of physical and non physical punishment gave me a better outlook on the world and how it works.
Until my pops got home. My pops, while I was growing up, was a shop owner and a steel worker. Always gone to work, and pretty busy in general. Definitely a no-nonsense type of dude. He's chilled out a lot now that we're all older. We spent insane amounts of time in his shop, working. His way of discipline was with a heavy hand. Swift and strong. No nonsense. The belt came out with the quickness. I've had to get my own switches, etc. I wouldn't say we were abused because we usually deserved the shyt we got whooped for. But it gave me more of an understanding of consequence. You can do whatever you want, but there will be consequences, and they hurt.
Growing up in the 80's and 90's in Gary, I think those whoopings might have been key in keeping me out of a lot of trouble. As a kid/teen I never got into any real trouble, I was always respectful to authority, etc. I didn't grow up thinking I was getting whoopins because they hated me or none of that. I think the balance of physical and non physical punishment gave me a better outlook on the world and how it works.
While I was walking from the library of the college I go to. This Black/Hispanic girl was threatening her son. She said, "you better behave before I take you to the bathroom and beat your ass". After I heard her say that out loud I said to myself wow she's a conformist
P.S. what are your thoughts on this? .
While the term "Cracker" did come from that definition you gave, the rest of your post is nonsense however.
You have to distinguish between whoopings and beatings. The woman you saw was simply discipling her child, as should be. You took her words out of context and assumed that she was going to actually "Beat" him, when really all she was going to do was "beat" his "ass" meaning give him a whooping on the behind. This is how discipline should be given. As long as you are not holding back food or water, then it is not abuse.
Slave mentality has nothing to do with discipline. We were disciplining our children way before a "cracker" showed up.
Words will not simply cease these children's actions nowadays. This is why many grow up feeling that they can do whatever they want to do, including sexual crimes, and an assortment of other crimes, because they've been getting away with it most of their young lives without any punishment. But you instill a sense of punishment for your wrongdoing in the mind, then it will make many think twice and cease altogether, when they know something is coming.
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
For the same dumb ass reasons black folks beat their kids. shyt is stupid
What's the reason?
How many kids do you have.