man cacs got u thinking when they say spank they put the word beat like nikkas are throwin hands on their kids to their heads or throwin themblack brains matter
Okay, so you should correct yourself and say that you only get violent with other BLACK people. Because we know you don't got the heart to go at the real violent bullies out here.
Behold, the musings of a slave.
He said it was any impact. My main beef is with the systematic punishments. Instead of that being the last resort, it seems like the first thing that happens (after the threat, I mean)
We know none of these people you're taking about are white. Chill out, turbo.
shut the fuk up
Hahaha. Not true.
I'm thinking that a lot of Black people just belong in bondage. Their minds are just… warped and conditioned to be ruled by whips and chains. It's like a hereditary thing or something.Some of yall nikkaz got Stockholm syndrome. nikkaz be justifying their childhood beatings
belts are too much, no usage of objects. Bullshyt. Got my ass whooped as a kid and Im a better person for it. there's a difference between a traditional African American beating and abuse. These white kids out chea telling their parents to suck there dikk and shyt. I got my ass whooped as a kid and as an adult I'm strong, I'm honest and ima hard worker. I don't plan on hitting my kids, but I don't see the problem with parents who do as long as you're not abusing them.
My GPA and Bank Account and strength and will all came from getting my ass whooped. My parents ain't here no more and I'm still prepared for life.
While you got these cac kids who ain't never been thru shyt that are jumping off roofs and shooting up schools because their parents got divorced
Maybe that's where the signal's getting crossed.
I am in no way, calling for children to be abused.
But I am saying that, when I was growing up, when I got out of line, my parents knew how to get me back in line.
when I got into my teens, I tried to get buck (go against authority figures)
a bodyslam from my dad killed all that noise
and I was a better person for it.
A lot of us use the term "beat" and to us, it's synonomous with a "whipping".
But none of us are in this thread seriously advocating beating the hell out of your child with your fists.
What we ARE saying is that whippings keep children in line, and we have our own experiences to think back on.
I wasn't a bad child.....
why not?
because I got whippings when I acted up. The fear of getting whipped kept me from getting out of line too much
if my parents had been talking about, "Neo, you're gonna stand in the corner for 5 minutes if you keep backtalking me"
I'd have been like
which is exactly what most children do.
I live in the hood, and I see the mothers that don't EVER whip their children, and they have some of the most disrespectful spoiled brats that you'll ever see.
If they don't respect their parents, they won't respect ANY authority figure
if you can't respect the one who birthed you and gave you life, nobody else stands a chance with you
but I guess my words don't mean nothing
After all, there were ppl on this site not too long ago making threads about FIGHTING their dads
had me like
if I had EVER raised my hand to either one of my parents (my mama didn't take no stuff either)
I wouldn't be alive right now.
There's a lot of us that heard that saying, "boy I brought you in this world and I'll take you out of it."
and my parents meant it
That's what kept me from acting a fool and getting arrested and doing stupid stuff
cause I had that fear hanging over me of, not "what will the police do"
but "what will my dad do?"
I think it's the difference between when a player is hurt and when a player is injured. A player who's hurt will recover quickly and can still play. A player who is injured is handicapped for the foreseeable future. You hit your kids for discipline, and to Temporarily hurt them to show them cause and effect. The day you start injuring your kids is when it's abuse.We need to define what is whooping/beating and what is abuse. Some people are OK with a belt or a house shoe or open palm some are like
What's the consensus on what is acceptable an what is unacceptable
