Mr.Forte
Banned
Their's nothing wrong with whooping an ADULTS ASS if they step out of line either.
Beating Your Kids Means You Have The Slave Mentality Instilled In You (We Need NEW Techniques FOLKS)
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Their's nothing wrong with whooping an ADULTS ASS if they step out of line either.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
I'm probably gonna beat my kids. Not for everything, but when they really fukk up.
There are levels.
Besides, all the talking makes kids think they can argue and logic their way outta stuff.
They need to learn respect. Adults and children are not on the same level.
There are levels.
Besides, all the talking makes kids think they can argue and logic their way outta stuff.
They need to learn respect. Adults and children are not on the same level.
Mr.Forte
Banned
I'm probably gonna beat my kids. Not for everything, but when they really fukk up.
There are levels.
Besides, all the talking makes kids think they can argue and logic their way outta stuff.
They need to learn respect. Adults and children are not on the same level.
Why would you say something like that ?
You must know you're going to be an AWFUL PARENT
You aint shyt
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
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Mr.Forte
Banned
i used to hang out with my cousins in the suburbs and we'd find a random rich persons house and if nobody was in it we'd go in and start smashing shyt or stealing anything that wasn't nailed down. or we'd ride around smashing people's directv dishes or go to the malls stealing clothes. i even went through this phase where we'd steal car emblems.
stupid ass shyt and like i said time outs, being "grounded" or doing "extra chores" wasn't going to prevent me from doing it
it was only until my dad put the hand of God on me that i was like aight maybe i need to stop i can't take another one of these thrashings.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
A lot of us use the term "beat" and to us, it's synonomous with a "whipping".
But none of us are in this thread seriously advocating beating the hell out of your child with your fists.
What we ARE saying is that whippings keep children in line, and we have our own experiences to think back on.
I wasn't a bad child.....
why not?
because I got whippings when I acted up. The fear of getting whipped kept me from getting out of line too much
if my parents had been talking about, "Neo, you're gonna stand in the corner for 5 minutes if you keep backtalking me"
I'd have been like
which is exactly what most children do.
I live in the hood, and I see the mothers that don't EVER whip their children, and they have some of the most disrespectful spoiled brats that you'll ever see.
If they don't respect their parents, they won't respect ANY authority figure
if you can't respect the one who birthed you and gave you life, nobody else stands a chance with you
but I guess my words don't mean nothing
After all, there were ppl on this site not too long ago making threads about FIGHTING their dads
had me like
if I had EVER raised my hand to either one of my parents (my mama didn't take no stuff either)
I wouldn't be alive right now.
There's a lot of us that heard that saying, "boy I brought you in this world and I'll take you out of it."
and my parents meant it
That's what kept me from acting a fool and getting arrested and doing stupid stuff
cause I had that fear hanging over me of, not "what will the police do"
but "what will my dad do?"
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
It's crazy how as kid when u know ur about get ur ass whipped how sleepy u get..
After that epic ass whipping my pops gave me, never touched anyone's car until I was ready to get my license
As my grandmother used to say "who can't hear, will feel"
yeaaaah man
that happened to me sooooo many times
and then that wait.... my mom would tell me, "your daddy gon whip you when he gets home"
waiting all that time, knowing what was coming, was worse than the actual whipping
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
A lot of us use the term "beat" and to us, it's with a "whipping".
But none of us are in this thread seriously advocating beating the hell out of your child with your fists.
What we ARE saying is that whippings keep children in line, and we have our own experiences to think back on.
synonomous
I wasn't a bad child.....
why not?
because I got whippings when I acted up. The fear of getting whipped kept me from getting out of line too much
if my parents had been talking about, "Neo, you're gonna stand in the corner for 5 minutes if you keep backtalking me"
I'd have been like
which is exactly what most children do.
I live in the hood, and I see the mothers that don't EVER whip their children, and they have some of the most disrespectful spoiled brats that you'll ever see.
If they don't respect their parents, they won't respect ANY authority figure
if you can't respect the one who birthed you and gave you life, nobody else stands a chance with you
but I guess my words don't mean nothing
After all, there were ppl on this site not too long ago making threads about FIGHTING their dads
had me like
if I had EVER raised my hand to either one of my parents (my mama didn't take no stuff either)
I wouldn't be alive right now.
There's a lot of us that heard that saying, "boy I brought you in this world and I'll take you out of it."
and my parents meant it
That's what kept me from acting a fool and getting arrested and doing stupid stuff
cause I had that fear hanging over me of, not "what will the police do"
but "what will my dad do?"
Breh its times that i see my mom removing the belt from her pants that the hairs on the back of my neck stands up & i refuse to wear walgreens house shoes.
fukk them and they house shoes!
Supercoolmayo
Superstar
If you beat tour child some prison dude will. With his duck
ALWTHEGOGETTA
Pro
It's crazy how white kids and teenagers can talk back to their parents and not face any kind of consequences at all.
factnotopinion
Pro
not CaC science just science. What works and doesn't work in regards to parenting is well researched and known. It is funny how people will rely more on anecdotal evidence as opposed to research, on some "my parents beat me and I turned out fine." If beating Black kids was so great, then why did previous generations fail us? Why did Black fathers leave? Why have Black families disintegrated? The generations that slowly failed were beat by the previous ones, how come they failed? Children are respectful with consistent and balanced parenting practices. Kids talk back and are disrespectful because of bad parenting from they were little, not because they were not whipped. Kids can be kept in line without beatings. If you have to beat them, then you have not done enough when they were young. Again, I have done parent trainings. I have been in the homes training parents after their failed attempts. Parents still beat their kids, so let's dispel that myth right now. We have been failed by archaic views of parenting and need to learn better and more effective tools. What we have been doing historically has not worked, we should try something new....like formal training of parents for our most precious and most vulnerable assets.
Kobes Two Jerseys
8 or 24 best player of the era
Thats the ether settling in your brain.
Dreadknox77
All Star
yeaaaah man
that happened to me sooooo many times
and then that wait.... my mom would tell me, "your daddy gon whip you when he gets home"
waiting all that time, knowing what was coming, was worse than the actual whipping
My dude once the words "wait until ur father gets home" hit.
Immediately I go clean my room, do all my homework , do whatever chores I had to do, then I take my ass to sleep. Hoping the whole situation was a dream.