If we believe this though aren't we in a way doing the same thing she's doing?If we believe this we are basically giving black nerds/"akward" dudes a free pass in IR dating
? If black females who share the same interest don't want them,and the ones who don't share the same interst think they weird or corny what other option does he have?But to look outside his race?....Nah we cant give those dudes who say "Black women don't like guys like me" a pass either.
As much as some of these cowards just don't want to admit they prefer whites,and would rather blame other black men/women for not liking them....Part of it is possibly insecurity maybe...Does not feeling black enough make these "akwards" seek out white s/o's so that they can feel more black since they don't among they own kind
?
I ask because I know a lot of these types are constantly projecting they insecuritys acting as if they feel they blackness is always on trial among other black folks.
If they have insecurity in they blackness maybe they date white so they can feel more secure in they race....Same as a sexy bytch whos been cheated on a quite few times by pretty boys lowers that standard and dates less attractive men so she can feel more secure that she measures up or exceeds his standard of beauty.....being that these blacks insecurity is race related they lower the standard racially and date whites,whos standard of blackness they easily measure up to.
That self hate,that insecurity