Ayesha Curry Says Relationship With Steph 'Always' Comes Before Kids

[MajesticLion]

ha @ people fighting against this as though everything is some zero-sum game



It's the same emotional-logic trap as the 50-50 argument, take your ego out of it and smarten up already

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

None married nikkas projecting they feelings on to a married couple
The comprehension levels on this forum

Exactly. For the most part if you not married you just won’t understand what she saying. On top of that a lot of people grow up not in a 2 parent household, so they don’t know what a functional family home looks like. First people say she disrespectful and don’t value her relationship with Steph. And now she a horrible mother who neglect her kids for her husband. People are just miserable.

 

[Ohene]

Kids first. I will never understand how a grown man would want his wife to put him ahead of his kids.

youre dumb

 

[feelosofer]

That's how it should be. Not saying children aren't important but all I knew is that when I was a kid. If my dad only worked one job that day and he could come home for dinner no one ate before he did and was served first and my grandmother did the same thing for my grandfather. When a marriage is strong everyone benefits.

 

[CashmereThoughts]

A shame that this isn't just common sense.

It’s a damn lie and most people are never in a situation where they bb to prioritize their kids needs vs their spouse.

She’s talking about if the kids want something but daddy need his duck sicked she gonna take care of that first, nothing of actual consequence.

 

[melraH]

Got to put your partner first if you don't set up rules and boundaries your kids will ruin your marriage, 2 simple examples that kill marriages , Parents that let Kids sleep in the Marital bed and letting kids have a say on what to eat. Like Goat Jordan said "Fukk them Kids"

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

She spittin

 

[Gloxina]

ha @ people fighting against this as though everything is some zero-sum game



It's the same emotional-logic trap as the 50-50 argument, take your ego out of it and smarten up already

Got to put your partner first if you don't set up rules and boundaries your kids will ruin your marriage, 2 simple examples that kill marriages , Parents that let Kids sleep in the Marital bed and letting kids have a say on what to eat.

Exactly. For the most part if you not married you just won’t understand what she saying. On top of that a lot of people grow up not in a 2 parent household, so they don’t know what a functional family home looks like. First people say she disrespectful and don’t value her relationship with Steph. And now she a horrible mother who neglect her kids for her husband. People are just miserable.

 

[JulesMusic719]

I know I'm spazzin on some jbo shyt right now but I swear she gives the vibes as a Legendary meat eater

 

[O.T.I.S.]

And thats why he still with her annoying ass

Edit: Of course The Coli and SM (who barely know what a successful marriage even looks like) are having think pieces on this.

She seems like she’s saying she prioritizes their relationship together because if they can’t fix their shyt then how can they ever help their kids and allow them a happy and joyful life.

She gets props from me for this. Nobody is saying to not think about your kids and at some points they will come first. But it shouldn’t be all the time.

Man shouldn’t come home to the smallest plate if he been out busting his ass all day and that goes for both parents in this day and age

 

[ThaBoyBam]

She gets it

Said the same thing in my head when I read the title

 

[skylove4]

Have anybody given any examples of what putting the marriage first before the kids means in simple terms . Can one of you guys give at least 3 examples

I bet you can’t without sounding like an terrible parent.

 

[The ADD]

I mean you have to know their relationship dynamic to know specifics.

How does that work in your relationship?Personally sometimes that prioritization is having a conversation so both parties are included in a key decision for example. Point being it’s not always a task, it could be intent of how key issues are handled.

@skylove4

 

[skylove4]

@skylove4

I don’t understand that example can you give another example or scenario? That one sounds very vague.

 

[BK The Great]

She definitely got that good good