Ayesha Curry Says Relationship With Steph 'Always' Comes Before Kids

[levitate]

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@MeachTheMonster lol

Vs Cac Bible?

Probably got your cherished passed-down version of the Bible commissioned by this man:

 

[levitate]

That’s where you are missing the point.

Doesn’t matter. “Always” is “Always”.

She didn’t say “mainly”.

 

[The ADD]

What does this mean exactly? Because even in this thread people are saying that prioritizing the marriage doesn't mean deprioritizing the kids. So essentially, everyone in the household is loved, respected and taken care of as they should be. When does prioritizing the spouse over the kids come into play? And I'm not talking silly shyt like who gets a plate 1st.

She didn’t say prioritizing Steph. She said the relationship. In a relationship people have needs, wants etc. You can prioritize giving a person those things while it not coming to the detriment of the children.

 

[levitate]

Damn, I’m fighting like an 8-on-1 battle in here!!!

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

Guess who doesn’t?

Single people

 

[Stick Up Kid]

Kids come 3rd or 4th if we are being honest

 

[The ADD]

Doesn’t matter. “Always” is “Always”.

She didn’t say “mainly”.

Again for your scenario to work it rest on the assumption that relationship need created a disadvantage for the child. That doesn’t have to be the case.

Does your SO not prioritize you relationship and juggle other responsibilities accordingly?

 

[WesCrook]

Kids always come first . Only a terrible parent would think they don’t Also this Apple headed heifer is a rich attention whore that nobody should take advice from. Kids don’t choose to be here.

You are missing the point.

It like that oxygen mask rule.

If you are in a smoked filled area with your kids and happen to have an oxygen mask, you take a breath from the mask first.....then allow your kids to take a breath.

Reason being, you going first gives you the ability to allow them to use the device. If you let them go first, you may pass out and die.....and everyone dies.

 

[levitate]

Does your SO not prioritize you relationship and juggle other responsibilities accordingly?

No, the priority is dynamic in our relationship.

Sometimes wife, sometimes kids, hell sometimes work depending on need.

 

[The ADD]

No, the priority is dynamic in our relationship.

Sometimes wife, sometimes kids, hell sometimes work depending on need.

If it works for yall, good on you

 

[Wayans Brehs]

She didn’t say prioritizing Steph. She said the relationship. In a relationship people have needs, wants etc. You can prioritize giving a person those things while it not coming to the detriment of the children.

We are saying the same thing. What I am trying to figure out is how does that mean she's prioritizing anyone but her family as a whole? If she spent the whole day tending to the kids, making dinner for everyone and has sex with her husband at night, who did she prioritize? Sounds like you'd say the husband because she was potentially tired after a long day with the kids, but I'd argue she's just tending to the family as a whole and there was no prioritization.

 

[The ADD]

We are saying the same thing. What I am trying to figure out is how does that mean she's prioritizing anyone but her family as a whole? If she spent the whole day tending to the kids, making dinner for everyone and has sex with her husband at night, who did she prioritize? Sounds like you'd say the husband because she was potentially tired after a long day with the kids, but I'd argue she's just tending to the family as a whole and there was no prioritization.

I mean you have to know their relationship dynamic to know specifics.

How does that work in your relationship?Personally sometimes that prioritization is having a conversation so both parties are included in a key decision for example. Point being it’s not always a task, it could be intent of how key issues are handled.

 

[Neuromancer]

This makes sense. If you are setting an example of what a stable, loving and non toxic relationship is then that makes sense. If you hate your spouse or stop liking them it may trickle down to the kids.

 

[Wayans Brehs]

I mean you have to know their relationship dynamic to know specifics.

How does that work in your relationship?Personally sometimes that prioritization is having a conversation so both parties are included in a key decision for example. Point being it’s not always a task, it could be intent of how key issues are handled.

We don't know their dynamic which brings me back to my 1st question on what exactly does she mean by prioritizing the marriage before kids. We'll probably never know

Good point that it isn't always a task, that was just the quickest example I could come up with. Personally I don't see there being a hierarchy in the family dynamic in the way described in this thread, but I don't have kids. Now I'm thinking about asking my parents who they prioritized and see what they said.

 

[The ADD]

We don't know their dynamic which brings me back to my 1st question on what exactly does she mean by prioritizing the marriage before kids. We'll probably never know

Good point that it isn't always a task, that was just the quickest example I could come up with. Personally I don't see there being a hierarchy in the family dynamic in the way described in this thread, but I don't have kids. Now I'm thinking about asking my parents who they prioritized and see what they said.

You won’t know but most good relationships are built on and understanding of what is important to each person and working to respect, provide and uphold that. The prioritization of the relationship is upholding that based on what those tenets are. Children, work and other factors can cause people to lose sight of that. For them it could be as simple as, this is what got us to this point and we won’t let that be sidetracked.

Yes you can ask your parents but who do you and your SO do it?