Ayesha Curry Says Relationship With Steph 'Always' Comes Before Kids

[AAKing23]

Steph won

 

[the bossman]

Nah, y’all just want the “marriage first…ALWAYS” mantra while backing away from the actual, practical manifestations of said mantra.

Your daughter is having trouble with self-image…could really use a mother-daughter getaway with talks about beauty and self-esteem vs your husband just got a new promotion and would enjoy a couples getaway with loads of sex.

What type of grown ass man/woman would say “nah, the kids can wait let’s go out this weekend and focus on US!”?

Well, Aisha apparently by stating “relationship first…ALWAYS”.

You not getting the practicality of what it means

Like it's a reason they tell you put your oxygen mask on first before you put one on your kids in the plane . It's not because 'f them kids'

Making sure your marriage is at its best is the best way to help your kids grow up in a nurturing environment.

 

[benjamin]

It’s funny, folks screaming kids come first kids come first but wouldn’t hesitate to create children out of wedlock or have several baby mamas

 

[Savvir]

Kids first. I will never understand how a grown man would want his wife to put him ahead of his kids.

Steph is the one who provides for the kids....

Put him first and the whole family benefits (kids included)...

put the kids first....well... the kids benefit

 

[SuaveyBoi115]

I spoke way too soon about her staying away from headlines

 

[DonRe]

Nah, y’all just want the “marriage first…ALWAYS” mantra while backing away from the actual, practical manifestations of said mantra.

Your daughter is having trouble with self-image…could really use a mother-daughter getaway with talks about beauty and self-esteem vs your husband just got a new promotion and would enjoy a couples getaway with loads of sex.

What type of grown ass man/woman would say “nah, the kids can wait let’s go out this weekend and focus on US!”?

Well, Aisha apparently by stating “relationship first…ALWAYS”.

Exactly. Nothing is “first”. Its all important equally.

My need to fukk or need for attention should never supersede my childs sickness or thier need for attention. Or similarly to a close relative.

Because then i need to step in and do my part. In that role.

My relationship with my wife is also separate than that of my kids or family or friends.

I guess this shyt is needed with people who have trauma. Or lack of a balance. Where they cant shift priorities depending on the need.

And to have a partner that understands the tug of war that may arise.

My wife knows that my kids and my mom are 1 and 2 respectively. She understands truly because its the same with her. And we never argue over those groups hindering our union.

Its a non issue.

 

[The ADD]

Exactly. Nothing is “first”. Its all important equally.

My need to fukk or need for attention should never supersede my childs sickness or thier need for attention. Or similarly to a close relative.

Because then i need to step in and do my part. In that role.

My relationship with my wife is also separate than that of my kids or family or friends.

I guess this shyt is needed with people who have trauma. Or lack of a balance. Where they cant shift priorities depending on the need.

And to have a partner that understands the tug of war that may arise.

My wife knows that my kids and my mom are 1 and 2 respectively. She understands truly because its the same with her. And we never argue over those groups hindering our union.

Its a non issue.

That isn’t what she said. She didn’t say that she puts Steph first, she said the relationship.

“My wife knows that my kids and my mom are 1 and 2 respectively. She understands truly because its the same with her. And we never argue over those groups hindering our union.”
^^^And this is a form of prioritization a relationship…..

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

None married nikkas projecting they feelings on to a married couple
The comprehension levels on this forum

 

[benjamin]

None married nikkas projecting they feelings on to a married couple
The comprehension levels on this forum

OP live wit his mama and aint been with a woman since highschool, nikka got the nerve to try and argue against men that are actually married, own homes and have children

 

[horizon]

A bunch of nikkas that haven’t touched a woman in 2025 let alone have children talking about some she’s right

 

[Art Barr]

Kids always come first . Only a terrible parent would think they don’t Also this Apple headed heifer is a rich attention whore that nobody should take advice from. Kids don’t choose to be here.

That is not how two married parents operate at all. If they have a tranquil socially fluid lifestyle.

Only some ill intentioned emotional abusive meets declining intimacy type. Are playing that.
the kids come first shyt in a marriage. Which is not healthy and will not turn out.
or have an end.
that is not viewed as healthy in this era.



Art Barr

 

[skylove4]

My wife does serve my plate first, you cant get that treatment tho because any woman that you could get could never truly respect you in that way. YOU will eat AFTER your kids because you are beta, just the truth.

I promise the lesser man is you. Without a gun I could beat you into submission, fukk your wife and have you serving us and then you would bring it to me first. Lil fakkit ass talking about “beta” and want us to your dikk is getting wet by any thing other than a bottle of lotion

 

[Traveler]

She gets it. Husband/wife has to come first. Brehs when you see a woman say her kids come first run fast and far.

 

[Shadow King]

While I understand what's she saying and lean towards agreeing, the specific examples brought by @levitate hasn't really been dealt with other than broad talk.

"Put your oxygen mask on first" doesn't fit well enough.

 

[skylove4]

Damn, I’m fighting like an 8-on-1 battle in here!!!

I’m agree with you on this topic