DonKnock
KPJ Gonna Save Us
Are you fairly attractive yourself? He's not out of your league or anything?
He's cute but a little corny for my taste. And he's a little bit of a pretty boy... I can recognize that he is attractive though
As a woman, I'm tired of being nice to men
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agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
If you knew that he has a girl then he wasn't wrong for telling you to chill regardless of how he said it.
If you didn't know anything, and he just let you know like then you should politely and respectfully let him know that you did not appreciate it. Anyways let it go and move on. It's not like you guys were about to get married.
If you didn't know anything, and he just let you know like then you should politely and respectfully let him know that you did not appreciate it. Anyways let it go and move on. It's not like you guys were about to get married.
brookiecookie
Rookie
I knew of her and that they were talking but we don't talk really discuss it. She doesn't know me
Aceofspades404
Superstar
op I feel you.
I've been accused of trying to work my charm on men with my smile.
Thing is these same ppl would always rag on me for not smiling enough.
I guess I don't have a middle ground.
I've been accused of trying to work my charm on men with my smile.
Thing is these same ppl would always rag on me for not smiling enough.
I guess I don't have a middle ground.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Ok, sorry he wasn't wrong for telling you to chill off in the way that he did. He wants this relationship to work out, and wants you to know that no more texting and etc is allowed. She doesn't know about you because he wants this relationship to work out.
brookiecookie
Rookie
He's not out my league. I've been with men who were more attractive. most of the girls he fukks with are really plain looking. Now I sound jealous but I feel like I'm a little out of his league
You don't have to make things weird at work. That's the absolute worst. Just talk to him. You should have nipped it in the bud when it happened because now it seems like you've been stewing and you sound a bit bitter. Just let him know in a calm way how you felt about it and move on. No need ruining your work environment.
brookiecookie
Rookie
And I think that's what makes me upset. I would not disrespect someone's relationship... I text his work phone. We spend so much time together that it happens like that. We just naturally bonded. It's pisses me off I can't chill with him. It was nice while it lasted you know... Just talking to someone and not having to worry about that
Tommy Knocks
retired
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
You were crushing on dude whether or not it was subconsciously or consciously. Unless you have known this guy for years there is no reason to be mad about losing someone to another woman IF you were not interested in him. I think subconsciously you wanted it to turn into more, and you kept wanting to talk to him. He got annoyed and told you to stop bugging. He has a right to. He wants things to work with his lady.
You just have to be cordial and move on. Do not even approach him letting him know that you didn't like how he spoke to you. He is not your friend. Leave it alone.
duckbutta
eienaar van mans
So you lead in with he's attractive...and then you say you been hanging out more...and then the second he says he has a chick and you two need to cool it some...boom your were being "to nice" and "nobody want's him"
But you say he is attractive...and you hang out with him more...but you texting his work phone...and you say you just "bonded"...but "nobody want's him"
But you say he is attractive...and you hang out with him more...but you texting his work phone...and you say you just "bonded"...but "nobody want's him"
KingFreeman
Barely-Known Member
Sometimes having a few (one or two) females who are just friends that you sometimes playfully flirt with can be a powerful tool in your arsenal as a man. Not to mention amusing
RadaMillz
Superstar
FOH with that ish
U wanted the mushroom tip but ole dude denied u and u don't know how to take a rejection. He straight up friend zoned ur ass.
U wanted the mushroom tip but ole dude denied u and u don't know how to take a rejection. He straight up friend zoned ur ass.
brookiecookie
Rookie
You were crushing on dude whether or not it was subconsciously or consciously. Unless you have known this guy for years there is no reason to be mad about losing someone to another woman IF you were not interested in him. I think subconsciously you wanted it to turn into more, and you kept wanting to talk to him. He got annoyed and told you to stop bugging. He has a right to. He wants things to work with his lady.
You just have to be cordial and move on. Do not even approach him letting him know that you didn't like how he spoke to you. He is not your friend. Leave it alone.
I don't feel like I'm losing him to another woman though. I just want him to be normal about it.
How am I annoying him now and he seeks me out... he's the one wanting to go places with me and have long convos and be around me. I can do that. It's work. It's helps having him there in the tough environment. I feel like its automatically assumed I'm jealous of the girl? That's why I said I'm sick of being nice. I should have ignored him
brookiecookie
Rookie
When I said nobody wants you I meant me. Like nobody=me. I thought that was clear. I'm not saying he isn't wanted.