OP sounds full of shyt. You were flirting w/ him and he shut your shyt down now he's the bad guy.
As a woman, I'm tired of being nice to men
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So do I; I still have female friends because I want female friends. There are things I deal with that men will never understand. Try to find groups centered around women in your industry.
Paradise
Too tired to think of something witty to say...
This is why you go to work and do just that work. I'm not saying you can't have friends at work, having someone that you are simpatico with makes the day go by faster. It's quite obvious that you liked him even if its just a little bit. But you can say that you are not attracted to him or "I don't like him like that" while sending signals that you do. Some people are naturally flirty and are not intending to come off as I'm feeling you like that. You just have to respect that his boo is not feeling you texting and being close to him... I totally understand why. Some women dont know what boundaries are and will cross the line if they have an opportunity. So just respect the relationship and be platonic.
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Action Mike
All praise..
Sounds like he may be a little full of himself. Thinking that you like him because yall joke. I would just pay him dust from now own and only talk about work related things.
Side note , it could actually be his girlfriend that has a problem with y'all's relationship. I have a female cousin who has a few strictly platonic male friends who she went to high school and college with. There've been problems with some of their wives not liking their relationships. But these dudes have sat down with their wives and said "hey, we're friends and I'm not gonna stop being her friend ".
Dude may just be a lame
To the bushes with him
Full of himself because he wanted to draw a line on a girl that hits him up talking about nothing when she bored, and finds him attractive?
He's lame for saying we should chill on this because I have a girl?
You think ignoring Breh would effect him in any way?
How can you Bush someone that bushed you first?
What do you brehettes want?
jwonder
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OP is full of shyt. She's been giving ol boy the 
and dude thought it was cool at first. Then he was on the whole 
when is thinking she isn't worth messing it up with his girl
and dude thought it was cool at first. Then he was on the whole when is thinking she isn't worth messing it up with his girl
live it to the limit
All Star
I have no dog in the fight, just commenting.
Full of himself because he wanted to draw a line on a girl that hits him up talking about nothing when she bored, and finds him attractive?
He's lame for saying we should chill on this because I have a girl?
You think ignoring Breh would effect him in any way?
How can you Bush someone that bushed you first?
What do you brehettes want?
Take it this way: you've got a female co worker, you find her mildly attractive enough not to say that she's ugly, yall share a few jokes, maybe even grab lunch a few times. Then all of a sudden she hits you with " now don't go liking me, I have a man we need to chill "
And your like "what, who said that I even was feeling you like that?"
See.....not so cool having to roles reversed.
I get were op is coming from. Every thing isn't a invite and just because I'm nice doesn't mean I want you. So yes, I would throw whatever "friendship " it was to the bushes.
It comes down to dude assuming things because she's friendly towards him
Doubt you would want a chick assuming you want to dig her out just because yall are sitting across from each other at work discussing last nights episode of Empire.
Action Mike
All praise..
I have no dog in the fight, just commenting.
Take it this way: you've got a female co worker, you find her mildly attractive enough not to say that she's ugly, yall share a few jokes, maybe even grab lunch a few times. Then all of a sudden she hits you with " now don't go liking me, I have a man we need to chill "
And your like "what, who said that I even was feeling you like that?"
See.....not so cool having to roles reversed.
I get were op is coming from. Every thing isn't a invite and just because I'm nice doesn't mean I want you. So yes, I would throw whatever "friendship " it was to the bushes.
It comes down to dude assuming things because she's friendly towards him
Doubt you would want a chick assuming you want to dig her out just because yall are sitting across from each other at work discussing last nights episode of Empire.
Nah this ain't no grab lunch, talk about shows shyt. That's totally different.
From when she's texting Breh out out of hours when's she's bored..what do you want Breh to think.
Numerous times in this thread she's called him attractive and out of her league, and you think the result isn't subconsciously giving him gloogly eyes and sneak thirsting?
I understand wanting to defend a brehette, but I'm just seeing shyt how it is..
Friendzoned and she's mad. Thread done.
jwonder
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Bruh there is guidelines that make it simple. There should be no texting and going out to lunch. Plus both parties can always slip in that they are dating someone so that gives them awareness of their respective situationsI have no dog in the fight, just commenting.
Take it this way: you've got a female co worker, you find her mildly attractive enough not to say that she's ugly, yall share a few jokes, maybe even grab lunch a few times. Then all of a sudden she hits you with " now don't go liking me, I have a man we need to chill "
And your like "what, who said that I even was feeling you like that?"
See.....not so cool having to roles reversed.
I get were op is coming from. Every thing isn't a invite and just because I'm nice doesn't mean I want you. So yes, I would throw whatever "friendship " it was to the bushes.
It comes down to dude assuming things because she's friendly towards him
Doubt you would want a chick assuming you want to dig her out just because yall are sitting across from each other at work discussing last nights episode of Empire.
Stop
We all remember how shyt ended up with @Goddess_Godiva 
My nikka @Michael9100 seen the light and realizes he doesn't have to settle for all them average ass women he used to post, he stepped his game up in the Black Brazilian woman thread
Damn you converted that nikkaMy nikka @Michael9100 seen the light and realizes he doesn't have to settle for all them average ass women he used to post, he stepped his game up in the Black Brazilian woman thread
lol man I do remember @Michael9100 being on some woe is me simpish type stuff a few weeks ago.
nikka done grew wings it
nikka done grew wings it
live it to the limit
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Maybe so. But I'm just saying that I personally wouldn't have anything else to do with him seeing how he's gonna take everything as flirting