As a woman, I'm tired of being nice to men

[jwonder]

Caping, I'm caping because I understand were she's coming from and disagree with dude assuming that she's wants him because they keke at work. Coworkers can't have lunch or text after work? I'll remember that the next time I go to lunch with one of mine or when they text me after work to tell me that Home Depot has light bulbs on sale.
But you right though

No male and female can't. I never had a female friend that I text after work let alone have her number if I'm not smashing. If we went out to lunch it was in a GROUP.

I'm just saying this will alleviate all confusion but people act like shyt don't pop off if they spend too much time alone. Somebody usually starts liking somebody

 

[Fatboi1]

I'm glad the op got friendzoned. Negs on deck.

 

[HoloGraphic]

So your mad he made sure your just friends?

If you weren't enjoying the interaction so much, this wouldn't mean much to you.

 

[Neil Tyson]

bytches are only nice when they wanna get with you or think they will. I

Sounds familiar.

I'm still mad about those free lunches I got at work that my co-worker prepared for me. Until I told her to chill we not like that. Now I gotta bring my own lunch. fukk.

 

[Elle Driver]

We all remember how shyt ended up with @Goddess_Godiva

What happened

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I have no dog in the fight, just commenting.
Take it this way: you've got a female co worker, you find her mildly attractive enough not to say that she's ugly, yall share a few jokes, maybe even grab lunch a few times. Then all of a sudden she hits you with " now don't go liking me, I have a man we need to chill "
And your like "what, who said that I even was feeling you like that?"
See.....not so cool having to roles reversed.
I get were op is coming from. Every thing isn't a invite and just because I'm nice doesn't mean I want you. So yes, I would throw whatever "friendship " it was to the bushes.
It comes down to dude assuming things because she's friendly towards him
Doubt you would want a chick assuming you want to dig her out just because yall are sitting across from each other at work discussing last nights episode of Empire.

Happens all the time.

And I do mean all the time.

I find it flattering.

It would only be offensive (hurt my feelings) if I wanted more from the girl.

 

[Sauce Dab]

Maybe you did give him a vibe tho

 

[Strapped]

you can alway switch

 

[iBrowse]

What happened

She made a thread talking about how she was engaged but was attracted to a co-worker that as flirting with her hardbody. She wanted "advice" on how to proceed. You know how nikkas responded. She still was all in her feelings over this dude. Anyway months later she bumps the thread saying she fukked the co-worker and broke off the engagement. nikkas responded as expected.

#gmb will never die


And she posted a pic of herself, she has a body so that added to the fukkery (assuming she wasn't cat fishing of course)

 

[Elle Driver]

She made a thread talking about how she was engaged but was attracted to a co-worker that as flirting with her hardbody. She wanted "advice" on how to proceed. You know how nikkas responded. She still was all in her feelings over this dude. Anyway months later she bumps the thread saying she fukked the co-worker and broke off the engagement. nikkas responded as expected.

#gmb will never die


And she posted a pic of herself, she has a body so that added to the fukkery (assuming she wasn't cat fishing of course)

Is she pregnant with his baby?

You know the fukkery just don't stop for hoes.

 

[Dwolf]

She made a thread talking about how she was engaged but was attracted to a co-worker that as flirting with her hardbody. She wanted "advice" on how to proceed. You know how nikkas responded. She still was all in her feelings over this dude. Anyway months later she bumps the thread saying she fukked the co-worker and broke off the engagement. nikkas responded as expected.

#gmb will never die


And she posted a pic of herself, she has a body so that added to the fukkery (assuming she wasn't cat fishing of course)

Link?

 

[Soundbwoy]

She made a thread talking about how she was engaged but was attracted to a co-worker that as flirting with her hardbody. She wanted "advice" on how to proceed. You know how nikkas responded. She still was all in her feelings over this dude. Anyway months later she bumps the thread saying she fukked the co-worker and broke off the engagement. nikkas responded as expected.

#gmb will never die


And she posted a pic of herself, she has a body so that added to the fukkery (assuming she wasn't cat fishing of course)

link for context purposes

 

[iBrowse]

link for context purposes

The thread is long as hell and she posted it in the middle of it. I'm on my phone and a lil preoccupied so tag me tomorrow to remind me or just search for threads created by her.

 

[iBrowse]

Is she pregnant with his baby?

You know the fukkery just don't stop for hoes.

Nah I don't think so

 

[Incogno]

Friendship with women just don't work for men and vice versa. Only rare chances is that there has to be MUTUAL zero ounce of attraction. And even then it's stll risky cause then someone will start thinking thoughts like "well he/she always has my back, and would make a great life partner".

this is backwards...

because marriages are suppose to be based off of friendships between men and women...

.... the foundation of a marriage is an affinity for each other as individuals....the bond that is going to hold the marriage together is a spiritual bond...not a superficial one


so a man and woman being friends first is actually really beneficial if they are looking to develop a meaningful connection..cause that is the foundation of marriage...not a instant relationship based on superficiality