Are you a Beta Male if you Wife up a Single Mother and raise her Child?

Steve Piffler

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Yep. I'm blessed, and I thank God everyday that he blessed me & my brothers with the parents I have. I salute on taking care of child that isn't biologically yours. You're a bigger man than me, because I won't even consider dating a chick with a kid.

don't get it twisted, i'm not saying that i would just date any chick with children and become daddy to every bytches child. my wife is exceptional. i had never dated a woman with children before her. and all the bytches i had before her turned out to be wack ass excuses for "women". if any of them had a kid, i would have left her and her brat stranded. and maybe if i had dated a few other women with kids and had bad experiences, then i probably wouldn't have entertained talking to my wife, which would have been my loss because she is great.
 

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The main issue at hand here isn't the mothers' commitment - it's raising the child.



I thought I said "thread over", doe. :leostare:

How can you raise kids in a fukked up environment...

One of the reason why the black community is fukked. "Parents can do whatever just focus on the child" :rudy:
 

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he comes around every now and then and pick up his son. but he has to come to MY house and i'm there to answer the door like :smugbiden::jawalrus:. his son always hits him with the :aicmon: face when he's around. the nikka lives 10 minutes away and might see his son once every 3 months. never shows up to any of his activities and only calls him every few weeks to talk to him for 5 minutes. just a sad excuse for a father. but he doesn't care, because i'm around. and i'm more of a father than he could ever dream of being to his son. his loss, because his son is a wonderful kid. :yeshrug:

Yo.... how did he find out you weren't his biological father?
 

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don't get it twisted, i'm not saying that i would just date any chick with children and become daddy to every bytches child. my wife is exceptional. i had never dated a woman with children before her. and all the bytches i had before her turned out to be wack ass excuses for "women". if any of them had a kid, i would have left her and her brat stranded. and maybe if i had dated a few other women with kids and had bad experiences, then i probably wouldn't have entertained talking to my wife, which would have been my loss because she is great.

You lucked out, because their are a lot of chicks out here, with/without kids that aren't about shyt.
 

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How can you raise kids in a fukked up environment...

One of the reason why the black community is fukked. "Parents can do whatever just focus on the child" :rudy:

Nobody said the bolded. While we're at it, though - that's not just the "black community".

Fact is - kids get raised in a "fukked up environment" everyday, B.

But kids gotta get raised, they're already here...so if a man feels like "I love this woman, and I feel for these kids...I wanna be here for them..." that's some man ish to put that on his back, and I can't deride him for that.
 

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Yo.... how did he find out you weren't his biological father?

he always knew. we never hid it. his daddy was actually around a lot more when he was a toddler, and then he started falling back slowly over the years. plus, we look NOTHING alike. i'm only 5'7" and he is 5'10" and he's only 15....:lolbron:
 

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he always knew. we never hid it. his daddy was actually around a lot more when he was a toddler, and then he started falling back slowly over the years. plus, we look NOTHING alike. i'm only 5'7" and he is 5'10" and he's only 15....:lolbron:

Short ass step daddy. :russ:
 

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i still got these hands in case he starts smelling himself a lil too much....:madjames::birdman:

LMMFAO @ that James Evans smiley.

Remember when he beat Michael's little thug friend? Warmed his hide real nice...took the curl out a nikka hair and everything.
 

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he always knew. we never hid it. his daddy was actually around a lot more when he was a toddler, and then he started falling back slowly over the years. plus, we look NOTHING alike. i'm only 5'7" and he is 5'10" and he's only 15....:lolbron:
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Pretty much, the only kids I'd raise that aren't my own are my nieces if their parents were to die.


Even animals toss previous children in the bushes.

I know Steve Piffler will come with his 1 in a million story, and that's great and all.
But :beli:, relationships are hard already why make it harder on yourself with her b*stard child and baby daddy in the picture.
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