u mean the babys father?
yup
u mean the babys father?
Yep. I'm blessed, and I thank God everyday that he blessed me & my brothers with the parents I have. I salute on taking care of child that isn't biologically yours. You're a bigger man than me, because I won't even consider dating a chick with a kid.
The main issue at hand here isn't the mothers' commitment - it's raising the child.
I thought I said "thread over", doe.
How will I get my welfare and child support?
he comes around every now and then and pick up his son. but he has to come to MY house and i'm there to answer the door like . his son always hits him with the face when he's around. the nikka lives 10 minutes away and might see his son once every 3 months. never shows up to any of his activities and only calls him every few weeks to talk to him for 5 minutes. just a sad excuse for a father. but he doesn't care, because i'm around. and i'm more of a father than he could ever dream of being to his son. his loss, because his son is a wonderful kid.
don't get it twisted, i'm not saying that i would just date any chick with children and become daddy to every bytches child. my wife is exceptional. i had never dated a woman with children before her. and all the bytches i had before her turned out to be wack ass excuses for "women". if any of them had a kid, i would have left her and her brat stranded. and maybe if i had dated a few other women with kids and had bad experiences, then i probably wouldn't have entertained talking to my wife, which would have been my loss because she is great.
How can you raise kids in a fukked up environment...
One of the reason why the black community is fukked. "Parents can do whatever just focus on the child"
Yo.... how did he find out you weren't his biological father?
he always knew. we never hid it. his daddy was actually around a lot more when he was a toddler, and then he started falling back slowly over the years. plus, we look NOTHING alike. i'm only 5'7" and he is 5'10" and he's only 15....
You lucked out, because their are a lot of chicks out here, with/without kids that aren't about shyt.
Short ass step daddy.
i still got these hands in case he starts smelling himself a lil too much....:madjames:
he always knew. we never hid it. his daddy was actually around a lot more when he was a toddler, and then he started falling back slowly over the years. plus, we look NOTHING alike. i'm only 5'7" and he is 5'10" and he's only 15....