Are There Grown Men That Really Think Like This?

[EndDomination]

The way certain people express themselves offline is a facade and they are truly themselves on the net, not the other way around


That's why it's silly when people say stuff like, "I don't know anybody that thinks like this in the real world", as if we know how someone is really thinking just because they put on a certain face or say the "right" things.

Better yet: no one I have met in real life has openly expressed these pathetic ideals to me.

 

[Kex]

Damn you are hands down the best looking woman on this forum gotttdamn

I'll take off my makeup and put on my bonnet real quick

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

The women HE wants arent attracted to him..

Thats more than likely the issue..

Nah breh. ALL women don't like nerdy men. ALL women, in general, don't like men who aren't confident,not socially awkaward and not aggressive. It doesn't matter how the woman looks. She could be fat, ugly as shyt etc. You can be smart and be confident/social but then this would not really make you a nerd. It's just evolution tbh.

 

[99 Hunter]

Stick to watching porn breh, sorry . What led to your social awkwardness? Were you sheltered as a kid?

Yep I was definitely sheltered and I had a traumatizing moment from a teacher yelling at me when I was a kid.

I was so outgoing and bubbly before that moment, after that my family says I became quieter and less outgoing.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

I'll take off my makeup and put on my bonnet real quick

probably still

 

[EndDomination]

Oh so he went to one of those high schools where people in Science Olympiad were the "popular kids" .

Top private school in the US, yeah.
There's an expectation of academic excellence, no excuses.
I toured there in 8th grade, would've gone for free, but my parents didn't want me at a boarding school

 

[CinnaSlim]

Huge lie . Women of all races don't like nerdy dudes because they are often not muscular,socially inept and/or lame. You can't deny this. Women love men with confidence and aggressive personalities. It has been like this for centuries. This isn't necessarily bad, in fact it's good. If i were a kid growing up i would rather have an aggressive muscular dad who can protect me and my mom .

Youre definition of nerdy may differ. Nerdy is video games, comics, books, computers, basically someone with a niche interest. Passion and intelligence is sexy, especially when they can teach you something.

Men with just hobbies and low ambition are unattractive. So it's not the fact that they are nerdy because there are nerdy chicks too who love comic -con and anime con, etc

 

[Prince Mongo]

Go and ask black nerds or nerds in general how they fair with women and there's your answer. You think being socially awkward and being interested in nerdy things makes women's pussies wet? The vast majority of them no it certainly doesn't.

Tell a black woman you like going to art galleries, hiking, biking etc she's gonna call you weird and laugh at you. Let me talk to a woman about coding, that shyt will put her to sleep and make her drier than the Sahara desert.

The women on here don't tell the truth. They are unicorns that want nerdy black men but reality shows otherwise

@ the bold-1. How that that answer me asking you where you live? That's litteraly all I asked homie. 2. Me and my friends are those nikkas, but we're from the hood as well. We do pretty well with women tbh
I live in the most hood, ghetto, rachet (whatever you want to call it) city in America, Memphis. Because of my friends/social circle, pretty much every female I run across or talk to is on some hipster shyt, so they fukk nikkas like us. shyt, going to an art gallery sounds like a good ass date, I could find a girl who'd be down for that right now. For some reason, you seem to think that black people can't have interests beyond stereotypical bullshyt, like going to the club. Really, that speaks volumes about how you perceive your own blackness. Being into the shyt you mentioned doesn't make you some type of special snowflake black person, it just means you have interests beyond trivial bullshyt

 

[FeloniousMonk]

ALL women, in general, don't like men who aren't confident,not socially awkaward and not aggressive. It doesn't matter how the woman looks.

You dont have to be a nerd to have these traits..women wont be attracted to male with these issues, period.

I know plenty of non nerds who fit this bill..

And I know nerds who can get women.

Its subjective.

And

There IS someone for everyone...

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Youre definition of nerdy may differ. Nerdy is video games, comics, books, computers, basically someone with a niche interest. Passion and intelligence is sexy, especially when they can teach you something.

Men with just hobbies and low ambition are unattractive. So it's not the fact that they are nerdy because there are nerdy chicks too who love comic -con and anime con, etc

isn't this the definition of a geek? Also the part about the man with hobbies and low ambition is true.

 

[VFib]

What does improving yourself entail?

If I use the guys in question (at that time, with us all being in our early 20s'): Get a job instead of thinking about weed all day, pull your pants up and wear a belt, hang around people who have things going on for themselves, join some clubs, get active instead of sitting around sulking about the next man, referring to women as bytches, but can't understand why they don't want to be around you.
One particular guy was so mad at this guy I was dating. "He's a thug" .

This 'thug' was an IT major who worked a minimum wage job even though his parents gave him a generous allowance. This 'thug' then got a PT job in the school that was related to his field. This 'thug' kept himself active in sports and was very well liked and popular. This 'thug' bought a home before the age of 25. While this 'thug' was focused on his goals and dreams, the jealous guy was sulking because he couldn't understand what I saw in a 'thug'. While my 'thug' went out and found his own job, jealous dude was asking me to hook him up with one.

People are so afraid to look in the mirror and face themselves.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

You dont have to be a nerd to have these traits..women wont be attracted to male with these issues, period.

I know plenty of non nerds who fit this bill..

And I know nerds who can get women.

Its subjective.

And

There IS someone for everyone...

Nah breh. Natural Selection.

 

[MalikX]

None of y'all can explain why 70% of black children are born to single mothers though
All those women had to go to their mamma's house yesterday with they kids cuz they ain't have no husband at home to have family time with
nikkas can never explain how there's so many single mothers and how there's guys walking around here with 4 or 5 baby mamas if the women aren't chasing thugs or players. Explain that

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Nah breh. Natural Selection.

The issue is common interest.

Like someone mentioned there are plenty of nerdy females out there as well..

 

[EndDomination]

If you think the majority of black women are checking for nerds then you got another thing coming

Unless dude is physically attractive and is at the top of his field, career, making good money Black women ain't gon be checking for him like that.

Women in general aren't checking for nerds ie Kent LOL.

Let's stop kidding ourselves, it is true that black women don't really value this kind of man because they grew up in a community that promote black man as hypermasculine, the whole society view black men in exagerate way and black women look their man in the same way. A lot of Black women don't know how to act and don't feel comfortable when they meet a black man that is contrary to all the prejudice that were put in her heads about black men by white society. This is not an excuse, this is true, we need to stop diminish the problem that some men are facing in the black community, they're pushed away because they don't look or act a certain type, these kind of men are more likely to flee the community and marry outside of their race because of their past experience. That's the reason why we lose a lot of potential intelligent man and we're stuck with useless thugs.

Go and ask black nerds or nerds in general how they fair with women and there's your answer. You think being socially awkward and being interested in nerdy things makes women's pussies wet? The vast majority of them no it certainly doesn't.

Tell a black woman you like going to art galleries, hiking, biking etc she's gonna call you weird and laugh at you. Let me talk to a woman about coding, that shyt will put her to sleep and make her drier than the Sahara desert.

The women on here don't tell the truth. They are unicorns that want nerdy black men but reality shows otherwise

I'm as steeped in "nerd" culture as physically possible. I watch anime, I used to cosplay with my girlfriend, tickets first day any DC/Marvel/Dark Horse movie comes out, I program, I go to hackathons, I visit the MOCA and art museums everytime I a collection I'm interested in pops up, I spend weekends at book stores, I play classical music and hit up Severance Hall whenever I can, I used to do stage, including Rocky Picture, etc.
I don't have any issues with women, and neither do the other men in my friend group who are into similar things (granted, that's like 3 guys), for the most part.
Socially awkward =/= to nerdy and most women I know are into comics, anime, art, etc.
I don't recall art galleries/hiking/biking or anything like that being considered weird, unless you're hanging out with women who grew up and currently live in the projects and have never left their 3 block radius.