Imo it is true that the guys who tend to talk about black women not liking them usually aren't what they'd consider attractive. But black women, like other humans, can like who they want. But just be consistent. if you don't care who these black men date, you shouldn't act like you got betrayed when you see an actor, rapper, stockbroker, CEO or whoever with a non black gf or wife. When the dude started dating out, all of a sudden its about the black community, pro blackness, etc where was that at when you or other chicks were calling the nikkas lame, ugly, or broke? You didn't want them, and that's fine, nobody "has" to want somebody else. But don't act like you got betrayed and all self righteous after those nikkas start dating non black women.
I prefer black women...but it's true that there is a segment who ignore or reject those types of nikkas, and then later when those same types of nikkas start dating a non black chick, they start talking about how he's a sellout, c00n, traitor, etc which may be true, he could be a c00n, but it's none of your concern, you thought he was too dark, or a loser, or boring etc. Women are allowed to make their own choices, I'm just saying live with that. If you don't like nikkas that you perceive to be lame, or boring, or ugly etc then stop caring who they date.