The fact that it took like 200 posts to address the obvious, which is that this man is unattractive and that is likely the source of most of his issues, says everything to me. No way you get that far with a video of a very unattractive woman complaining about Black men and no one pointing out the obvious source of her problems.
We kid glove these things for men sometimes, and it actually hurts instead of helps so I think people should stop. Women need to stop telling men as long as they are 'nice' or intelligent that they will have access to whichever quality of women they deem suitable. It doesn't work that way. if you are lacking in some areas you will have to compromise on some of your desires or you will have to improve where you lack or go even further in other areas. Its life, and women have to do it too.
Also, men need to accept that women factoring in physical qualities is not a valid thing to hold against women or resent us for. I actually read men on here who have accepted looks matter to women, but it has just made them more bitter. Thats insane, because factoring in physical attraction is a normal human behavioral pattern. These same men would readily acknowledge they are aiming to get a woman they find attractive themselves, so its doubly crazy. You should have physical standards that are unmoveable but women are evil and poor decision makers because we have physical standards? Especially since women can be way more lenient in that department if you make up for it in other departments.
And I know what's coming, the same bitter posters are going to pretend looks only matter to Black women, and other races of women are tripping over themselves to get the guy in the video. But we know that's not true, because if he was getting the 6-7s in other races, he wouldn't be obsessed with who Black women are choosing. He, and all the Black men like him and agreeing with him, aren't getting love from women period. But they are scapegoating Black women for their problems with women across the board one because we're easy targets and two because they respect our right to have standards far less than other races of women.
Point is, you can wish and hope that looks shouldn't matter to women or should factor very little. But its just a reality you need to deal with. Get in the gym, which should naturally improve your confidence. Get some type of therapy or find some other way to work through and get past your bitterness so it doesn't exude from you and drive people away. Work hard in your school or career so you can prove yourself a provider to potential mates. And put yourself out there, even if that just means online dating if you're an introvert. That goes for men but also many points can apply to women too. Anyone who isn't getting the results they want in the dating world.