Approaching girls in 2024 as a mid 30s breh

[mag357]

I have never had social media....but some of you are a little off on what instagram is used for in current dating/sex, someone offering IG is not rejection, they want to do the whole "like your pics and you like mine" but also first to see your pics, see your lifestyle.

you can read a lot by just looking at someone, how open to connection they might be. Holding your gaze, smiling, looking at you up and down. A lot of these are kinda replaced by emojis and texts, but it still works. This is more questionable, but if you can learn to read people by how they dress....what that says about them, that sharpens your chances. We all display who we are by how we dress, conscious or unconsciously.

They're leaving money on the table.

The thing nikkaz don't seem to realize is bytches already know within a millisecond of meeting u if she's gonna give u some p*ssy, if ur gonna be a nikka she might let take her out, or just a nikka she wants attention from.

If she wants to fck u... She's gonna make sure u have her direct line and is gonna make u called her phone right there and ur locked in.

If She just wants to give u her social media, then maybe u might be able to communicate with her after. And maybe u might be able to take her out. But her initial interest level was hella low and that ain't good for u.
Maybe she sees u got a Poppin ass life from ur social media, u got pix with celebs, u doing the money phone thing lol and it's a small chance u go from a nikka not worthy of getting p*ssy, to actually getting some p*ssy.

When u get the bytches number, ur already dealing with madd hurdles. There's a bunch of other dikks in that phone before u got there that she's still trying to sort thru.
Imagine not even being in her phone yet, just another 1 of her followers on IG.

Don't play urself.
If she wants to give u her socials, Just tell that bytch "it's all good. it was really nice meeting you tho"

 

[Peter Popoff]

Go to your local Walmart and tell a hoe she got pretty eyes...

 

[Cat piss martini]

Stay fly.
Smell good at all times.
Only compliment a woman
above the neck or ensemble
and after the compliment walk
away like you never gave it.
They will always stop you after that.

 

[The Jewnited States]

What were you doing the past 15 years of your life?

Graduating college with a bachelor's in business information technology and a minor in philosophy, posting on the coli, watching internet porn, almost getting married, getting addicted to opiates, selling drugs, getting convicted of 5 felonies, rehabs, homelessness, suicide attempts, getting stabbed, fighting in the street, burglarizing businesses, few days in the psych ward, prison, therapy, reading books, getting in touch with my spiritual side, doing yoga, meditating, writing, working out, getting out, working a normal job, reconnecting with my family, readjusting to society and the normality of a life without the craziness brought up on by mental health issues and the subsequent maladaptive behaviors steeped in hardcore drugs and self-loathing due to an inability to control my decision making process because of a brain that wasn't working correctly

Things are great now though! But it's also why I have some anxiety cold approaching women in the public. It's hard to go from the life I was living to just being a normal breh sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I got a few girls I'm fukking, but I've known them for YEARS. People who know me well really fukk with me hard because I'm a good person. Loyal, smart, funny, interesting, caring, empathetic and insightful. This thread is about me meeting new women out in the wild though. I think being locked up has really fukked with me in this one area particularly hard.

 

[WIA20XX]

The thing nikkaz don't seem to realize is bytches already know within a millisecond of meeting u if she's gonna give u some p*ssy, if ur gonna be a nikka she might let take her out, or just a nikka she wants attention from.

I used to think like you, but I've had much different experiences.

 

[god shamgod]

35 years old & scared to approach women

 

[Sad Bunny]

How are you pushing 40 years old and still scared of rejection

 

[mag357]

I used to think like you, but I've had much different experiences.

Gotcha

 

[CoCKy GeNiuS]

There is no strategy. If you want her let her know. Fear of rejection in 2024 is nonsense. You'd be surprised at what you're capable of doing with these women. But first you have to start attempting just to show yourself that it isn't a calcus class.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

How are you pushing 40 years old and still scared of rejection

Yall acting like rejection now is the same as in the 90s or early 00s
nikkas whole livelihoods are getting destroyed by these chicks out here
Ending up on tik tok without even knowing it
So yeah nikkas should be cognizant of the bullshyt today, no matter the age
But this thecoli and every nikka been fly with a mouthpiece and no Ls ever in life

 

[Sad Bunny]

Yall acting like rejection now is the same as in the 90s or early 00s
nikkas whole livelihoods are getting destroyed by these chicks out here
Ending up on tik tok without even knowing it
So yeah nikkas should be cognizant of the bullshyt today, no matter the age
But this thecoli and every nikka been fly with a mouthpiece and no Ls ever in life

He’s 38. Older women ain’t doing that bullshyt.

I was in DC on U Street dancing and chatting with females. The most that will go wrong is they will stop texting you or block you after a few messages.

Otherwise, it’s all good and fun. It isn’t hard to buy a girl a drink or try to dance with them and spark up a conversation.

I’m confident so if they reject me then I just see it as a blessing to not waste my time

 

[Jblaze204]

go on pop the ballon or find love

 

[DatBoiHawk]

p*ssy

 

[re'up]

The thing nikkaz don't seem to realize is bytches already know within a millisecond of meeting u if she's gonna give u some p*ssy, if ur gonna be a nikka she might let take her out, or just a nikka she wants attention from.

If she wants to fck u... She's gonna make sure u have her direct line and is gonna make u called her phone right there and ur locked in.

If She just wants to give u her social media, then maybe u might be able to communicate with her after. And maybe u might be able to take her out. But her initial interest level was hella low and that ain't good for u.
Maybe she sees u got a Poppin ass life from ur social media, u got pix with celebs, u doing the money phone thing lol and it's a small chance u go from a nikka not worthy of getting p*ssy, to actually getting some p*ssy.

When u get the bytches number, ur already dealing with madd hurdles. There's a bunch of other dikks in that phone before u got there that she's still trying to sort thru.
Imagine not even being in her phone yet, just another 1 of her followers on IG.

Don't play urself.
If she wants to give u her socials, Just tell that bytch "it's all good. it was really nice meeting you tho"

The thing is, like I am saying, I don't even have the shyt or use it, think it's some p*ssy shyt lol, real shyt but that's not what the world thinks. what I do, is what you do. Straight up numbers, one text/one call.

butI 100% know women who are interested, and they want your IG, so they can have that interaction first. Esp. like the bottle rats and the bottle girls and the super bad pornstar type ones.

to your point, there is some timidness though, to a whole generation of people. Lots of guys and women, will exchange socials and stay suspended in that interaction forever. Liking and scrolling, dreaming up the perfect DM, making every like or every follow a sign that they are feeling them....and they will never even meet up. Most will stay there, one because that's what the technology wants you to do, and two, because it's easier.

 

[buzzkill]

Start making small talk with everybody.

Go to networking events and practice talking to strangers.

Eventually you'll stop being nervous about talking to strangers. Women like to talk. It's nothing to it once you get past that anxiety.