Approaching girls in 2024 as a mid 30s breh

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I don’t subscribe to the idea of going out there to get rejected 100x to build some sort of immunity to it…it’s loser shyt and they will pick up on it…if u don’t believe u can bag her u already lost

Also don’t subscribe to the whole choosing signals shyt either…u in my presence god already chose for u :yeshrug:
 

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if she gives you her ig politely decline
Do you bro, I get the IG I’m in the DMs then I’m in those guts, a lot of women don’t want you give out their number because they’re probably cheating or just on a break or something and don’t want to make their situation hot :manny:
 

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Do you bro, I get the IG I’m in the DMs then I’m in those guts, a lot of women don’t want you give out their number because they’re probably cheating or just on a break or something and don’t want to make their situation hot :manny:
You know what, I’m not gon disagree with the cheating angle.
 

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The thing is, like I am saying, I don't even have the shyt or use it, think it's some p*ssy shyt lol, real shyt but that's not what the world thinks. what I do, is what you do. Straight up numbers, one text/one call.

butI 100% know women who are interested, and they want your IG, so they can have that interaction first. Esp. like the bottle rats and the bottle girls and the super bad pornstar type ones.

to your point, there is some timidness though, to a whole generation of people. Lots of guys and women, will exchange socials and stay suspended in that interaction forever. Liking and scrolling, dreaming up the perfect DM, making every like or every follow a sign that they are feeling them....and they will never even meet up. Most will tay there, one because that's what the technology wants you to do, and two, because it's easier.
I feel u.
Thecoli is really my only social media.
Social media is the home of insanity and attention seeking.
People virtual signaling. nikkaz gassing up bytches. And bytches gassing each other in p.

Yea, The whole bolded is the norm.
The first paragraphs may be a few exceptions.

I feel like the chix trying to tryna play like good girls, or are in a full blown relationships like to give social media to nikkaz. Cause to them it's not like they doing anything wrong.
Even if she's feeling u, ull still probably be stuck following, messaging and liking dumb ass posts.

But Even those few chix who actually digg u and want to see ur socials for "interaction" will still respect the sht out of u for politely refusing to take social media instead of a number.
And having women Respect u is like p*ssy currency.
I think one of u said not taking socials is like leaving money on the table.
When u don't get a bytch its never a fumble or a lost.
There's a million chix.
It's here lost for not taking ur number.

But I never knock how another nikka closes the deal. If it works for him, that's what's up.
I'm just trying to play as efficiently as possible
 

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calling women girls at 35 breh.

chin up, and talk with your damn chest.

These days and shyt for awhile now, goofies think being mr too cool/too deep to apporach a bytch works

nah. That's a one way ticket to running through tube socks for a long while.

Don't matter if you look like Jordan from Bernie Mac or Dru Down, women want a mfer that can look them in the eye and assert themselves. Don't be too serious either, not every woman you knock down you trying to marry.


Glad you mentioned it...told us a lot
 

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I feel u.
Thecoli is really my only social media.
Social media is the home of insanity and attention seeking.
People virtual signaling. nikkaz gassing up bytches. And bytches gassing each other in p.

Yea, The whole bolded is the norm.
The first paragraphs may be a few exceptions.

I feel like the chix trying to tryna play like good girls, or are in a full blown relationships like to give social media to nikkaz. Cause to them it's not like they doing anything wrong.
Even if she's feeling u, ull still probably be stuck following, messaging and liking dumb ass posts.

But Even those few chix who actually digg u and want to see ur socials for "interaction" will still respect the sht out of u for politely refusing to take social media instead of a number.
And having women Respect u is like p*ssy currency.
I think one of u said not taking socials is like leaving money on the table.
When u don't get a bytch its never a fumble or a lost.
There's a million chix.
It's here lost for not taking ur number.

But I never knock how another nikka closes the deal. If it works for him, that's what's up.
I'm just trying to play as efficiently as possible
This my mentality, carries over to cold approach too. Yeah, definitely leaving p*ssy on the table but at what cost. Lol some type of signal or I’m more than happy going on with life. I see a 7-10 woman every 3 minutes
 

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This my mentality, carries over to cold approach too. Yeah, definitely leaving p*ssy on the table but at what cost. Lol some type of signal or I’m more than happy going on with life. I see a 7-10 woman every 3 minutes
Facts
This mentality is a King's mentality.

People calling themselves Kings but don't even move like one
 

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Yall acting like rejection now is the same as in the 90s or early 00s
nikkas whole livelihoods are getting destroyed by these chicks out here
Ending up on tik tok without even knowing it
So yeah nikkas should be cognizant of the bullshyt today, no matter the age

But this thecoli and every nikka been fly with a mouthpiece and no Ls ever in life :dead:

A 35 y/o grown man shouldn’t be “scared” to approach a female. Social media got you dudes f’d up. You realize before 2009-2010 this is how normal life was right? How tf you think dudes were bagging p*ssy back then? By talking to em
 
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